SurelyForth wrote...
He had excellent points, but his tone suggested that he wasn't going to discuss things. It felt very much like a "Ya'll are so wrong in specific and sundry ways. Have fun justifying murder, because you're wrong" drop post and the fact that he didn't come back to respond to those that did address his valid points proves that he just wanted to **** on the thread, not really get into a conversation.
Or he was scared

It's of course a bit different to say "you support a murderer" than "your Hawke supports someone who killed people, on my opinion, without a justification". The issue still remains real. Is there justification in that situation, real or not real? People see the situation differently and that along is worth discussing about. Unfortunately however this is a tender subject to many. This of course is a sign that the emotions are real, even if the actions are not.
Killing people doesn't hopefully concern most of us in daily basis so getting into the shoes of someone who deals with these things is fascinating. DA2 presents several different situations with basically the same action (killing someone) but from a very different aspect. Ethina is one of the trickier ones, which is why it divides people. I love that it does, it means the game has succeeded in something.