SurelyForth wrote...
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My canons both have a thing for Anders, but one of them actually says "okay, we're a bad idea..." and moves on to Fenris. And then she keeps hoping he'll come to his senses... I wonder, can you bed the prostitutes after Fenris does his leaving thing? I think I could live with that. But moving on to Anders just feels like a slap in the face... oh yeah, Fenris, I told you I love you, you're wearing my crest and whatnots, but I'm going to move on to the man you hate the most. Oh yes. And Anders? You get sloppy seconds after I sexxed up the elf, who you hate.
I can't do it! 
I'm too stuck on that to pull myself out enough to RP a character that would have the motivation to move between them.
But thanx to all you foxy ladies and gents, I don't have to!!! So thank you! I get to hear the hot dialogue without putting my brain in a blender
. I *heart* you all!
Not sure how old this is....
My 2 canon-ish playthroughs both moved from Fenris to Anders and it felt right. The difference I guess is that neither of them claimed to love Fenris. It was based mostly on physical attraction and mutual respect and in both cases happened nearly by accident. Kitty and Vivian weren't actively pursuing Fenris really... they flirted of course, because flirting with a hot man is fun. Then Fenris shows up and does his glowy-wall thing and the sex just sorta happened. They were both hurt and annoyed when Fenris took off after that, but in both cases the flirtation with Fenris was mostly Hawke trying to distract herself from the mage she were falling in love with who said "we can never beeeeeee!"
I don't think Anders would consider it sloppy seconds, either. He's been with tons of people, after all, and when you tell him that you and Fenris are finished, he just seems too damn happy to care. It's adorable, really.
One difference between my Hawkes and yours (possibly) is that Vivian and Kitty aren't particularly virginal. They aren't loose like my Amell and Surana were (lol), but they were both sexually active long before meeting Fenris and Anders. Thus having a fling with Fenris wasn't as big of a deal for them. Anders was the first man they were intimate with who they actually loved.
I couldn't jump from Fenris to Anders with my virginal Hawke, though. I couldn't role-play my way around that one.