I propably belong to those few who never got close with Alistair. In beginning, Al seemed to be a good guy but being bit cold myself and lot of decisions i made, Al didn't like it (thus being neutral with him almost all the time) and he was whiny most of the time (which was quite irritating actually).
I can perfectly understand why Alistair was furious at me when i spared Loghain's life and demanded to be king that he would get his vengeange but it was bit disturbing that he demanded
me to kill Loghain in before his daughter's eyes, despite the fact that she was quite power hungry. Why he just couldn't draw a sword by himself and struck it to Loghain's heart without asking permission from me or even asking me to do it for himself?
In the end, i supported Queen Anora that Alistair couldn't be a king as i accepted Riordan's view that Grey Wardens needed all the help they could get. It is sad thought that Alistair didn't accepted my view but he had damn good reasons not to. After the landsmeet i felt bad and being hypocrite as i how much i wanted to kill Arl Howe but i would have never asked someone else to do it for me (actually, part of me hoped that Arl Howe would have getaway and that we would have never kill him except in a sequel).
But anyway, that was my first playthrough. I'm quite sure that 2nd playthrough with my Chantry close, Cleric a-like (Arcane Warrior + Spirit Healer) goodie fellow will be better friend for Alistair and thus will give me better image for him! :happy:
Gah, i'm not even sure if i explained it well enough as i'm not comfortable about my english