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[TheMufflon]

Moondoggie wrote...

Not really but its something to talk about i guess. I figure the OP is looking for people to back up his opinions on why he can't get a gf or something because we are all too shallow and not because he has no testicles.

That post makes the rest of this thread totally worth it.

[Joshd21]

Reporting to poster again for hate speech, it's easy to throw stones across the internet with you have no actual knowledge of what is going on instead throwing random insults at a person.

[Druss99]

Joshd21 wrote...

Moondoggie wrote...

Not really but its something to talk about i guess. I figure the OP is looking for people to back up his opinions on why he can't get a gf or something because we are all too shallow and not because he has no testicles.

Whoa! what's with the name calling, reported for abusive language.

Ooohh fightings a sign of love. Get a room you two.

[Joshd21]

Back on topic!

So women tend to respond to first impression that means the looks of the guy. This is not proven in a study but based upon our society. I think it labels it a pretty accurate, a guy who is hollywood good looking, tend to get more women then someone who is geek or considered the stereotype nerd, what do you think women really want?

[KenKenpachi]

Jesus ****ing chirst dude, look it up online alot of chicks go for the nerdy dudes in the long run and its proven in a study, why? As they know they'll get treated better. But to stop you asking this the 5th damn time, yes all women are ****s who hang out in clubs and are very shallow and only want hot guys like, well whoever in the hell is the hottest idiot out of hollywood, would a woman please confirm so we can put this **** to rest? I mean really the whole world is against you, no man in the general population is married or has a wife and in fact only the hunks of hollywood have women, in fact so much every actor and model and jerk has a heram in the 100's.

Once more would a woman confirm. Cause honestly you preaching the same **** is showing you want your opinion reinforced thus nullifing any debate and leaves me questioning why I even botherd posting.

I mean its not like the fact they are in a club which is not a god damn dating service but a place to get, sex drugs and drinks relfects on the caliber of those inside.

[Druss99]

Joshd21 wrote...

Back on topic!

So women tend to respond to first impression that means the looks of the guy. This is not proven in a study but based upon our society. I think it labels it a pretty accurate, a guy who is hollywood good looking, tend to get more women then someone who is geek or considered the stereotype nerd, what do you think women really want?

They want your soul mostly but sometimes they will settle for money or cake.

Men respond to first impressions too, its a human thing not just a woman thing. Its alot of factors dude and trying to work it down to an exact science is going to prove impossible. Your going to end up with alot of contradictory views and opinions which will probably drive you mental in the end up. Your better off figuring out what works for you.

[Ryoko]

Well, being the, like, totally shallow and hormone crazed teen that I am, I like me some hawt men. yeah.

Modifié par Ryoko, 15 mars 2011 - 03:26 .

[SkyrisSkye]

The most important thing about a qomn is there personality .
I like a girl who's honest . She could be the ugliest girl in the world but if she has personality and sexy on the outside , 'meaning she's confident , walking with shoulders up' then I might find attractive and might even fall for her you know .

[Joshd21]

modjospinster wrote...

ahhhh, this thread is frustrating to read. pretty much what druss said, you can't boil down why women are attracted to this or that type of guy in a few simple statements. different girls are drawn to different kinds of guys, but a general tip is they are drawn to strong, confident men. (some would say a-holes) also, that rude poster jumped across an ocean to get to that conclusion! (though i am guilty of getting a kick out of it lol)

It's confirmed, somehow being a total jerk to people and acting dumb is considered self confidence. Even if these men are acting out of anger because of something in their childhood the woman taken is as accepting behavior. So in order to be more noticed around women, don't be senestive sweet to their feeling?

be a total jerk?

[SkyrisSkye]

Ryoko wrote...

Well, being the, like, totally shallow and hormone crazed teen that I am, I like me some hawt men. yeah.

Honesty !! (:

[Volus Warlord]

Depending on the girl, it is either money/looks/personality or looks/money/personality.

Don't be naive and trick yourself by dreaming personality first.

All women plan to do one of the below in a short or long term relationship:

A.) Be a financial parasite
B.) Use the dude as a status symbol to show off to her girlfriends
C.) A combination of A & B

Just as the man's instinct is to be a stupid, horny bastard; the woman's instinct is to be a over-possessive psycho-****. She wants you to be a willful slave; a throwaway to serve her illusions of self-image, and nothing more.

Did I just sound jaded or cynical?

EDIT: 

Oh wait, I misunderstood the question.

A women's attributes that "draw me in:"

1.) Strong willed and opinionated. I've absolutely no idea why I'm almost strictly attracted to women of that nature, but that's the way it is:?.

2.) Religious Background. I simply cannot see myself ever being with an atheist. I keep noticing more and more how little common ground there is between the two worldviews.A huge source of tension, small base to build upon.  No offense intended.

3.) Crazy. The almost-sane ones are easier to get along with but are so damn boring.

4.) Good sense of humor, funny. The ones that are all drama will make you want to kill yourself. Is that their plan?

5.) Hotness. If this is not on any man's list, he should be branded with the letter "L" (liar!). It's simply the way your programmed. Nothing personal. Of course, how you "interpret" that programming is entirely up to the man, which many seem to downplay, eh different subject.

6.) Minimal sexual history. I'm not really interested in tramps. Think with your brain for a second. Should you enter a relationsip with someone prone to sleep around/regretable sex? Source of tension, distrust, and unauthenticity.

7.) Relatively responsible with money. I'd rather not be involved with someone 3k under on credit cards. Again, source of tension.

Don't care too much about the whole "fun in bed" thing, would much rather be with someone trustworthy, dependable, and who didn't make an ass out of me for trying to be supportive or helpful.

Am I overly picky?

Modifié par Volus Warlord, 15 mars 2011 - 04:38 .

[Joshd21]

Volus Warlord wrote...

Depending on the girl, it is either money/looks/personality or looks/money/personality.

Don't be naive and trick yourself by dreaming personality first.

All women plan to do one of the below in a short or long term relationship:

A.) Be a financial parasite
B.) Use the dude as a status symbol to show off to her girlfriends
C.) A combination of A & B

Just as the man's instinct is to be a stupid, horny bastard; the woman's instinct is to be a over-possessive psycho-****. She wants you to be a willful slave; a throwaway to serve her illusions of self-image, and nothing more.

Did I just sound jaded or cynical?

No you clearly much hit the nail on the hammer, women want a man to brag about and show off to their friends. And men want a really hot female because of their hormones

[TheMufflon]

Volus Warlord wrote...

Am I overly picky?

Nah, as long as you're willing to ease up on #6 I'm sure you and you hand will get along just fine.

[SleeplessInSigil]

Back in the old days, females only cared about who had the biggest club and the nearest cave so they wouldn't have to be dragged through the dirt by their hair for too long after being bonked with said club.

Modifié par SleeplessInSigil, 15 mars 2011 - 06:05 .

[Shirosaki17]

Women like a******s, because subconsciously women know they are full of **** and need to be called on it and demeaned constantly.

Modifié par Shirosaki17, 15 mars 2011 - 06:19 .

[Moondoggie]

Joshd21 wrote...

Back on topic!

So women tend to respond to first impression that means the looks of the guy. This is not proven in a study but based upon our society. I think it labels it a pretty accurate, a guy who is hollywood good looking, tend to get more women then someone who is geek or considered the stereotype nerd, what do you think women really want?

Not being a whiny **** helps you know. Crying "I'm telling on you" anytime anyone disagrees with you probably does not help your case.

And you think "testicles" is abusive language? How old are you?

Modifié par Moondoggie, 15 mars 2011 - 11:08 .

[vometia]

Moondoggie wrote...

And you think "testicles" is abusive language? How old are you?

What a load of bollocks!  Sorry, couldn't resist.

[Dominus]

This thread is doomed, isn't it? Trying to make a statement like "All girls prefer personality first" or "All girls prefer good looks first" doesn't really add up. The advice I was giving earlier was based more on just relationships in general.

Gender will certainly have an effect* on how he/she relates in the world, gender roles undeniably affect who we are. However, it affects individuals differently based on their upbringing, and a plethora of other factors. There's no simple answer when it comes to love.

The end.

-DominusVita.

*...a mass effect? har har...alright that wasn't funny.

[SleeplessInSigil]

Girls are hot.

[Moondoggie]

DominusVita wrote...

This thread is doomed, isn't it? Trying to make a statement like "All girls prefer personality first" or "All girls prefer good looks first" doesn't really add up. The advice I was giving earlier was based more on just relationships in general.

I think the statement being made by the OP is based on his own inability to talk to girls so he's making excuses for himself like "oh all girls go for good looks so they just ignore me" instead of "None of them know who i am because i don't have the guts to just approach a girl and chat to her"

[Druss99]

Moondoggie wrote...

DominusVita wrote...

This thread is doomed, isn't it? Trying to make a statement like "All girls prefer personality first" or "All girls prefer good looks first" doesn't really add up. The advice I was giving earlier was based more on just relationships in general.

I think the statement being made by the OP is based on his own inability to talk to girls so he's making excuses for himself like "oh all girls go for good looks so they just ignore me" instead of "None of them know who i am because i don't have the guts to just approach a girl and chat to her"

Isn't the OP the guy who stole his ex's laptop? I think he is just looking for tips in order to improve his criminal empire and eventually open his own used electronics store.