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[marbatico]

is it wrong to go after a girl that already has a boyfriend?

[Volus Warlord]

marbatico wrote...

is it wrong to go after a girl that already has a boyfriend?

No.  The whole "boyfriend/girlfriend" thing is set up to be a temporary arrangement anyhow.

[KenKenpachi]

Unless they are serrious Volus.

I'ld say no, unless the guy is a dick and you have proof he's cheating on her or such. Otherwise in my, and some other areas its a good way to get your car smashed or shot.

Modifié par KenKenpachi, 19 mars 2011 - 11:26 .

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

Normally, people with bad hygiene will be very low on a woman's list of potential partners. that said, I think some of the problem is the fact that some guys are just naturally awkward when talking to women. I can't use a pickup line without sounding completely clueless about the punchline.

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

Enchantment?

[Volus Warlord]

KenKenpachi wrote...

Unless they are serrious Volus.

I'ld say no, unless the guy is a dick and you have proof he's cheating on her or such. Otherwise in my, and some other areas its a good way to get your car smashed or shot.

"Hey, we are so serious about are relationship that we refuse to commit to one another in any way, shape, or form!"

Sorry, I've had the whole "If you love her put a ring on her" mentality beaten into my skull from childhood.


In order to sabotage the relationship to claim the PRIIZE for yourself:

1.) Befriend. Act like you are content as a friend.  Feign interest in the desired one's activities, issues, and personaility. This is pretty much where you find out if the tramp is worth the effort described below.

2.) Plant seeds of doubt. Set up situations that will be confrontational. See if you can get one to request of the other things that sound reasonable, but are impossible. Bring up old sources of tension. Be an understanding friend when the significant other fails to meet the imposible demands.

3.) Hasten the process. If either of them are garbage, they will split at any sign of disagreement or hardship in place of weekly consequence free sex. If not, and they can "talk things out," things may be a bit harder. To ensure the demise of the relationship, continue planting seeds of doubt, and see if you can place yourself in "one-on-one" situations with the prize, in which you highlight the flaws and shortcomings of the  significant other. Continue to be patient, understanding, and semi-helpful.

4.) Cheat. When the tension is high, and the two in the relationship are fighting more than anything else, offer a one time, steamy, stress-relieving time. Make it easy, make it fun.

5.) Aftermath. The desired may do one of the following after the cheat session:
A.) Attempt to keep it secret. If this is the case, agree to the plan, but stress that you are discontent with it and continue spending lots of time with him/her in order to make it abundantly obvious without you saying anything.
B.) Confess, and ask for forgiveness. This can go either way. No forgiveness, she's yours, forgiveness, start from scratch basically to get her to cheat again.
C.) Confess, and break up. She's yours.

There. "Steal" away.

Modifié par Volus Warlord, 20 mars 2011 - 02:04 .

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

Volus Warlord wrote...

KenKenpachi wrote...

Unless they are serrious Volus.

I'ld say no, unless the guy is a dick and you have proof he's cheating on her or such. Otherwise in my, and some other areas its a good way to get your car smashed or shot.

"Hey, we are so serious about are relationship that we refuse to commit to one another in any way, shape, or form!"

Sorry, I've had the whole "If you love her put a ring on her" mentality beaten into my skull from childhood.


In order to sabotage the relationship to claim the PRIIZE for yourself:

1.) Befriend. Act like you are content as a friend.  Feign interest in the desired one's activities, issues, and personaility. This is pretty much where you find out if the tramp is worth the effort described below.

2.) Plant seeds of doubt. Set up situations that will be confrontational. See if you can get one to request of the other things that sound reasonable, but are impossible. Bring up old sources of tension. Be an understanding friend when the significant other fails to meet the imposible demands.

3.) Hasten the process. If either of them are garbage, they will split at any sign of disagreement or hardship in place of weekly consequence free sex. If not, and they can "talk things out," things may be a bit harder. To ensure the demise of the relationship, continue planting seeds of doubt, and see if you can place yourself in "one-on-one" situations with the prize, in which you highlight the flaws and shortcomings of the  significant other. Continue to be patient, understanding, and semi-helpful.

4.) Cheat. When the tension is high, and the two in the relationship are fighting more than anything else, offer a one time, steamy, stress-relieving time. Make it easy, make it fun.

5.) Aftermath. The desired may do one of the following after the cheat session:
A.) Attempt to keep it secret. If this is the case, agree to the plan, but stress that you are discontent with it and continue spending lots of time with him/her in order to make it abundantly obvious without you saying anything.
B.) Confess, and ask for forgiveness. This can go either way. No forgiveness, she's yours, forgiveness, start from scratch basically to get her to cheat again.
C.) Confess, and break up. She's yours.

There. "Steal" away.

Congratulations, Master.
You've claimed the "prize" of "ridiculously over-complicated manipulaton"

Modifié par Blood-Lord Thanatos, 20 mars 2011 - 02:15 .

[Volus Warlord]

Blood-Lord Thanatos wrote...

Volus Warlord wrote...

KenKenpachi wrote...

Unless they are serrious Volus.

I'ld say no, unless the guy is a dick and you have proof he's cheating on her or such. Otherwise in my, and some other areas its a good way to get your car smashed or shot.

"Hey, we are so serious about are relationship that we refuse to commit to one another in any way, shape, or form!"

Sorry, I've had the whole "If you love her put a ring on her" mentality beaten into my skull from childhood.


In order to sabotage the relationship to claim the PRIIZE for yourself:

1.) Befriend. Act like you are content as a friend.  Feign interest in the desired one's activities, issues, and personaility. This is pretty much where you find out if the tramp is worth the effort described below.

2.) Plant seeds of doubt. Set up situations that will be confrontational. See if you can get one to request of the other things that sound reasonable, but are impossible. Bring up old sources of tension. Be an understanding friend when the significant other fails to meet the imposible demands.

3.) Hasten the process. If either of them are garbage, they will split at any sign of disagreement or hardship in place of weekly consequence free sex. If not, and they can "talk things out," things may be a bit harder. To ensure the demise of the relationship, continue planting seeds of doubt, and see if you can place yourself in "one-on-one" situations with the prize, in which you highlight the flaws and shortcomings of the  significant other. Continue to be patient, understanding, and semi-helpful.

4.) Cheat. When the tension is high, and the two in the relationship are fighting more than anything else, offer a one time, steamy, stress-relieving time. Make it easy, make it fun.

5.) Aftermath. The desired may do one of the following after the cheat session:
A.) Attempt to keep it secret. If this is the case, agree to the plan, but stress that you are discontent with it and continue spending lots of time with him/her in order to make it abundantly obvious without you saying anything.
B.) Confess, and ask for forgiveness. This can go either way. No forgiveness, she's yours, forgiveness, start from scratch basically to get her to cheat again.
C.) Confess, and break up. She's yours.

There. "Steal" away.

Congratulations, Master.
You've claimed the "prize" of "ridiculously over-complicated manipulaton"

Sometimes it is much easier. Other times simplicity needs to be sacrificed for effectiveness.

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

Volus Warlord wrote...

Blood-Lord Thanatos wrote...

Volus Warlord wrote...

KenKenpachi wrote...

Unless they are serrious Volus.

I'ld say no, unless the guy is a dick and you have proof he's cheating on her or such. Otherwise in my, and some other areas its a good way to get your car smashed or shot.

"Hey, we are so serious about are relationship that we refuse to commit to one another in any way, shape, or form!"

Sorry, I've had the whole "If you love her put a ring on her" mentality beaten into my skull from childhood.


In order to sabotage the relationship to claim the PRIIZE for yourself:

1.) Befriend. Act like you are content as a friend.  Feign interest in the desired one's activities, issues, and personaility. This is pretty much where you find out if the tramp is worth the effort described below.

2.) Plant seeds of doubt. Set up situations that will be confrontational. See if you can get one to request of the other things that sound reasonable, but are impossible. Bring up old sources of tension. Be an understanding friend when the significant other fails to meet the imposible demands.

3.) Hasten the process. If either of them are garbage, they will split at any sign of disagreement or hardship in place of weekly consequence free sex. If not, and they can "talk things out," things may be a bit harder. To ensure the demise of the relationship, continue planting seeds of doubt, and see if you can place yourself in "one-on-one" situations with the prize, in which you highlight the flaws and shortcomings of the  significant other. Continue to be patient, understanding, and semi-helpful.

4.) Cheat. When the tension is high, and the two in the relationship are fighting more than anything else, offer a one time, steamy, stress-relieving time. Make it easy, make it fun.

5.) Aftermath. The desired may do one of the following after the cheat session:
A.) Attempt to keep it secret. If this is the case, agree to the plan, but stress that you are discontent with it and continue spending lots of time with him/her in order to make it abundantly obvious without you saying anything.
B.) Confess, and ask for forgiveness. This can go either way. No forgiveness, she's yours, forgiveness, start from scratch basically to get her to cheat again.
C.) Confess, and break up. She's yours.

There. "Steal" away.

Congratulations, Master.
You've claimed the "prize" of "ridiculously over-complicated manipulaton"

Sometimes it is much easier. Other times simplicity needs to be sacrificed for effectiveness.

seems It would much simpler to achieve that:
get her drunk and ask philosophical questions about the meaning of life. /sarcasm

[DinoCrisisFan]

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

[DinoCrisisFan]

marbatico wrote...

is it wrong to go after a girl that already has a boyfriend?

Kind of.

Modifié par DinoCrisisFan, 20 mars 2011 - 02:45 .

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

marbatico wrote...

is it wrong to go after a girl that already has a boyfriend?

Kind of.

is it painful? yes. Is it dishonorable? YES. is it worth it? No.

[DinoCrisisFan]

Blood-Lord Thanatos wrote...

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

marbatico wrote...

is it wrong to go after a girl that already has a boyfriend?

Kind of.

is it painful? yes. Is it dishonorable? YES. is it worth it? No.

Well I supposed it depends on the girl. It worked out for Superman lol

[SleeplessInSigil]

Has anyone ever SEEN a girl? No, I don't mean crackpots with all the conspiracy theories and badly faked photos, I mean someone with solid, verifiable proof of girls, that doesn't rely on quoting some cheap tabloid.

All the theories about girls have already been debunked, without even trying. Why do people keep believing they exist?

[Silveryne]

 Here, OP, let me help you out here. Assuming this is fo realz and not a troll post.

Please don't troll me, I'm presenting opinion, not WORD OF GOD, and trying to be Genuinely Helpful.

1) Women want to date guys they can imagine being with.
"Looks don't matter!" is a common cry among us, it's true. But would you want to date someone who you thought was a complete "hag"? Sometimes, a girl will date a guy that they can't imagine being with (please, please, realise I'm using "being with" as a substitute for something consenting adults do with each other, not just going out on a few dates) because they're lonely and they like attention. Men do this too sometimes -- I know a guy who does this ALL THE TIME. It happens. In this case the relationship will be over pretty soon. Everyone is shallow to the extent that there is someone out there they won't date because of their looks. It has nothing to do with "wanting cute offspring". Cut that out, we're people with preferences. Give us some credit.

2) Women don't want to date a guy that bores them.
Otherwise it's just a fling or an affair or a one night stand and it doesn't go very far. Women, like men, get bored doing the same thing over and over again. Maybe your girl likes to play games -- my ex-boyfriend and I had that in common -- but maybe one of you wants to do more than play World of Warcraft or Call of Duty and watch Stargate: SG1. Some women like to be able to debate their guy. Some women like guys who will take them on adventures. Some women are fine with going out on Fridays or once a month.
This may or may not be why some women like "bad boys". We don't always like being stuck in the same place. That said, there are few women who will ever want more than the occasional thing with a "bad boy", because...

3) Women like stability.
This is why you'll hear about women who like "money". A woman who wants to have a family early will look for a guy with a steady job, because she's concerned about being able to support a family. Believe it or not, it's hard to support a family with only $40k or less a year. Women need the assurance that they can take some time off for work after having a kid and not starve to death or get kicked out of their house for it.

Okay, so...

This is by no means the law of women, simply a cluster of observations. All of these (or even some of these) aren't always applicable to every woman. Several here on this forum will probably disagree with me. Again, we're people, like you, with personal preferences and flaws. Think about what you want in a woman, and think about what a woman might want from you. Realize that today's woman expects, generally, to have a career and a life beyond being a housewife. Realize we have aspirations and desires beyond being with men and having children. Realize that we're just as shallow as you are, and not pretty, unapproachable goddesses to be put on pedestals.

Re: Cheating, Bad Boys, Courting Girls in Relationships...

Oh, some women will be okay being with cheaters. Some women aren't. We all have different standards. I wouldn't respond well to a man who tried to court me when I'm in a relationship, I don't date people twice, and I'll only tentatively date guys who admit to cheating on women or helping other women cheat (only because I think admitting it is admirable, and even then, it's a wary relationship that has never lasted long). There are women who do exactly the opposite, because we're not all alike.

And this is just my opinion here.

Some women like nerds. Some women like jocks. Some women don't give a poo for money, for others it can make or break the deal. There is no ideal kind of man that all women like.... I can't imagine being with guys who won't match my ambition career-wise, can't bother going on the occasional adventure, and don't like video-games, reading, or higher thought and debate. Does having this preference make me shallow? No, just aware of what would work well with me -- could you date a girl who told you to put down all video games? Probably not, if you're asking for advice on girls on a gaming forum (no offense!). Do you want to date a leggy blonde with blue eyes, and won't consider dating anything else, even if you find her personality attractive, and her physical appearance not detestable? That's not a horrible thing, but that's different from having a list of character traits that you'd like in a mate.

This is most awkward post I've made on any forum. Ever. <_<

[Volus Warlord]

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

No, its your absolute zero frozen heart that radiates coldness, making them chilly.

Wow, that was a very nerdy joke.

[KenKenpachi]

Volus Warlord wrote...

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

No, its your absolute zero frozen heart that radiates coldness, making them chilly.

Wow, that was a very nerdy joke.

Its obvioulsy the work of a Wizard.

[Druss99]

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

Women are actually cold blooded like reptiles and require constant heat. They don't work so well in the cold. Try breathing on one or rubbing it to heat it up and watch it suddenly get a burst of energy. Its science, try it.

[KenKenpachi]

Hmm what Druss says is words of the wise, given to him by the gods, you should listen to him Dino.

[slimgrin]

Druss99 wrote...

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

Women are actually cold blooded like reptiles and require constant heat. They don't work so well in the cold. Try breathing on one or rubbing it to heat it up and watch it suddenly get a burst of energy. Its science, try it.

I always thought shaking them like those little pocket warmers did the trick.

[Tirigon]

Looks (or alcohol) is what gets one started, personality (or money) is what makes it last.

[Druss99]

slimgrin wrote...

Druss99 wrote...

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

I have a question. Why do girls always say "I'm cold" whenever I'm hanging out with them? It's almost as if they're implying I do something about it, I just don't understand women. I think it's one of those mating rituals women have.

Women are actually cold blooded like reptiles and require constant heat. They don't work so well in the cold. Try breathing on one or rubbing it to heat it up and watch it suddenly get a burst of energy. Its science, try it.

I always thought shaking them like those little pocket warmers did the trick.

I think you have to pay extra to get one that works like that. Free if you pre-order though.*

* Specific retailers only.