Soundsystem wrote...
I never said all trans* people are against it. Some reclaim it, but that is a personal thing.
Tranny is a slur in the same way that **** or ****** or an racial slur is. There is a difference between word police and asking for a slur not to be used. Trans* people are able to stand up for themselves, but that doesn't mean I must stay silent when a slur is used. I would expect anyone to do the same in regards to slurs, especially on a topic discussing progressiveness.
Well, you should know that not everybody appreciates the act, whether there is misguided goodness behind it or not.
Every time you jump in and reprimand someone for their choice of words when they didn't mean any harm at all, you stand a chance of creating resentment. People should resent it. It's rude control-freakery.
It's patronising. and it's suggestive of latent racism/ sexism /homophobia/ etc. to assume all members of these groups agree with what you're doing (because self-interest trumps any kind of personal principles when you're a lowly minority amirite?), and all need defending by you.
For my part, I just think "who on Earth do you think you are?" when some "well meaning" person leaps to my defence to police other people's words. I don't know you, I don't need you to defend me, I don't want What I Am
associated in people's minds with some sort of low-level repression, which you are busy doing.
If you stop and think about how people outside your head perceive it, you know I'm right.
Modifié par Gotholhorakh, 16 mars 2011 - 08:55 .