You know, in Mass Effect 2 and DA:O I was a devoted fan girl to one specific romance option throughout my play thoughts, (even while trying out the others.)

Dragon age 2 makes this path hard to continue, I enjoyed both romance options tremendously! I know I know I want to pick a side, I feel... wicked... but I can't just yet!
To be honest this is not something I am sad about. If anything it means Bioware is doing a better job at creating these characters us ladies love to, well, love.
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But in my opinion I think the best path for, "Romance" in Dragon age 2 is to play as a mage defending Rogue/ Warrior and romance Anders. It gives the best, "wow" factor at the end for the sheer fact you stuck your characters neck on the line for him only for the inevitable... boom. (Oh yeah and your sister, I guess I should stick up for mages for her too )

2nd play through romance Fenris as a Mage, his character is adorable but come on girls, mean fenris is a lot better than nice fenris... Rivalry romance for him is by FAR the way to go. (Besides, I know you were a good little girl on your first play through, now you can roll a blood mage and be the little **** you always wanted to be.)

But seriously, props to Bioware for making two amazing male characters to push our emotions during another one of their epic games. I know the guys out number us by a butt load when it comes to consumers who play your games, but you all have no clue how much we appreciate you taking the time to add this stuff in for us femnerd