Kriselia wrote...
Btw, the convo Batteries mentioned goes like this:
Hawke: I've heard a lot about the knight-commander. What's she really like?
Cullen: She is not an easy taskmaster. But it is not an easy task. I would not have liked her when I was younger. I thought mages deserved a softer touch. But Meredith is never fooled by a sweet face. She always sees the demon behind it.
(Edit: New page, new Cullen. This time with puppy eyes
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I like Cullen with puppy eyes.
So, from what i understand he says that no matter what your origns is. So he propably had a crush on a f-mage and just comments on that, justifying his previous belief. You know, something like that:
You know, you can be fooled by a sweet face but Meredith can see behind that and recognise the danger all mages represent
As for Anders, he could have escaped for the last time before Cullen was tranported there, so he may knew the name but not the face. We dont know for how long Cullen has served in the COM and when Anders escaped for good. I suspect Cullen hadnt spent that much time in the COM, well, long enough to fell in love with a mage but not that long to has his beliefs and views changed by the other templars and their behaviour towards mages. What im trying to say is that had Cullen served long enough there he eventually had started seeing mages with diferent eyes, since most of the templars there were not mage friendly as him.
But he generally has a friendly approach both in DAO and DA2 towards mages, that is clear to see.