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[Numara]

Are we really discussing this?XD

err... i think Mhawk and anders just switch ( since Anders can be so sweet but some times hes totally a beast)

[lillegraa]

this is the best thread ever.

anyway, I think top. I've only romanced him as a lady char though.

[leggywillow]

Perhaps I've found evidence that Anders does, in fact, prefer to be on top:

Anders: Sometimes, I think you have the right idea.
Isabela: Handcuffs, whipped cream, always be on top?

Sure, he claims to be talking about something else, but whatever.

[rft]

LOL random post =P to answer that, top

[MsKehoe]

leggywillow wrote...

Perhaps I've found evidence that Anders does, in fact, prefer to be on top:

Anders: Sometimes, I think you have the right idea.
Isabela: Handcuffs, whipped cream, always be on top?

Sure, he claims to be talking about something else, but whatever.

Isabela and I are on the same mental wavelength.

I don't know about Fenris being a top. I can't help giggling at a line M!Hawke says after they do the deed~
IT'S A LOT TO TAKE IN, I KNOW.

[The Cannibal Factory]

Fenris can't be a top - snarky Hawke cracks a joke about "it being a lot to take in" after they first do It. The sly look gives no leeway as to what he means.

Anders... harder to say. But in my world, he's the top, Mainly because of the way he climbs on top of Hawke before the scene fades out... it's all we have to go on (sadly).

Anyway, I love that this is being discussed. And has gone 4 pages already. Comedy thread ftw!

[Ryzaki]

Fen's an elf. That's all that need to be said.

Elves are always on the bottom.
*puts on childish hat*

Modifié par Ryzaki, 24 mars 2011 - 12:36 .

[Sarielle]

Ryzaki wrote...

Fen's an elf. That's all that need to be said.

Elves are always on the bottom.
*puts on childish hat*

You know, with all that latent aggression I'd have thought he'd have been on top, but from the fem side (rivalmance) he's the one that got pinned up against the wall....

Looks like Bioware agrees.

Anders seems like mostly a top. Seeing as how he does that "thing with lightning" I'd imagine he'd be open to whatever, though.

Also, great thread OP.

[fluorine7]

Ryzaki wrote...

Fen's an elf. That's all that need to be said.

Elves are always on the bottom.
*puts on childish hat*

Fenris = 年下攻

[Critical Miss]

I'm amazed Anders gets laid. *shivers*

[SgtElias]

fluorine7 wrote...

Fenris = 年下攻

I admit I only recognize the first two of those Kanji, but  I have a pretty good guess what you're getting at.

And as someone that has yet to romance Fenris, I can't disagree.

[Kawamura]

fluorine7 wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Fen's an elf. That's all that need to be said.

Elves are always on the bottom.
*puts on childish hat*

Fenris = 年下攻

中国語？

[Sarielle]

Critical Miss wrote...

I'm amazed Anders gets laid. *shivers*

Who doesn't find being potentially cannibalized hot?

...what?

[Kawamura]

Critical Miss wrote...

I'm amazed Anders gets laid. *shivers*

Some folks like the crazy tortured revolutionary.

[Kyriani Agrivar]

One thing I think not many folk realize... Just because you are the bottom does not necessarily make you submissive just as being a top does not necessarily make you dominant. From a straight point of view how many ladies here on these forums would consider themselves the dominant party in their relationships? Sure you may be the ones being penetrated but that does not magically turn the role of dominance over to the male. In the same way from a gay perspective, the person doing the penetrating isn't necessarily the one calling all the shots in the relationship. There's just as many bossy bottoms out there as needy eager to please tops.

Consider Isabella for a moment... would you say shes a "top" or a "bottom" I'd vote her for being a "top" any day

[Kawamura]

Kyriani Agrivar wrote...

One thing I think not many folk realize... Just because you are the bottom does not necessarily make you submissive just as being a top does not necessarily make you dominant. From a straight point of view how many ladies here on these forums would consider themselves the dominant party in their relationships? Sure you may be the ones being penetrated but that does not magically turn the role of dominance over to the male. In the same way from a gay perspective, the person doing the penetrating isn't necessarily the one calling all the shots in the relationship. There's just as many bossy bottoms out there as needy eager to please tops.

Consider Isabella for a moment... would you say shes a "top" or a "bottom" I'd vote her for being a "top" any day

Oh, pish posh, penetration defines dominance, clearly.

: D

[Kitimandiri]

Kyriani Agrivar wrote...

One thing I think not many folk realize... Just because you are the bottom does not necessarily make you submissive just as being a top does not necessarily make you dominant. From a straight point of view how many ladies here on these forums would consider themselves the dominant party in their relationships? Sure you may be the ones being penetrated but that does not magically turn the role of dominance over to the male. In the same way from a gay perspective, the person doing the penetrating isn't necessarily the one calling all the shots in the relationship. There's just as many bossy bottoms out there as needy eager to please tops.

Consider Isabella for a moment... would you say shes a "top" or a "bottom" I'd vote her for being a "top" any day

Among my friends we always refer to it as who wears the pants rather than top or bottom...

Huh. On that note Anders wears a dress robes. My Hawke's always wear pants, even my mage.

[Sarielle]

Kyriani Agrivar wrote...

One thing I think not many folk realize... Just because you are the bottom does not necessarily make you submissive just as being a top does not necessarily make you dominant.

I'm assuming most couples these days switch it up anyways. But maybe I assume too much.

EDIT: LOL I just noticed the "Goddamnit Anders!" sigs floating around. I think I might have actually said that out loud at the time he made things go pearshaped.

Modifié par Sarielle, 24 mars 2011 - 04:08 .

[Kyriani Agrivar]

Kitimandiri wrote...

Kyriani Agrivar wrote...

One thing I think not many folk realize... Just because you are the bottom does not necessarily make you submissive just as being a top does not necessarily make you dominant. From a straight point of view how many ladies here on these forums would consider themselves the dominant party in their relationships? Sure you may be the ones being penetrated but that does not magically turn the role of dominance over to the male. In the same way from a gay perspective, the person doing the penetrating isn't necessarily the one calling all the shots in the relationship. There's just as many bossy bottoms out there as needy eager to please tops.

Consider Isabella for a moment... would you say shes a "top" or a "bottom" I'd vote her for being a "top" any day

Among my friends we always refer to it as who wears the pants rather than top or bottom...

Huh. On that note Anders wears a dress robes. My Hawke's always wear pants, even my mage.

Some of my best male friends who are tops also wear dresses! (hey even a drag queen has to make a living right?)

[Kitimandiri]

I think I would see my Hawke being more in charge of the relationship. She's less bat**** insane. I think we/she also sort of see Justice as almost child like in his narrow minded focus.

The big people need to make decisions now, Justice, shoo! So, Anders...pink or red? *holds up robe-dress*

[Celes247]

I don't know about Anders yet. I fully intended to romance him, but Fenris somehow managed to snag my Hawke (despite my best efforts to not like him).

In the Female Hawke/ Fenris romance, I can't imagine Fenris being the submissive partner. His personality is way too aggressive and domineering. The scene where F!Hawke is pinning him? That's because he's letting her. It's the least he could do after almost killing her.

[Illeuad]

I love that this is even a thread. *wipes tear away*

Truly tho, I'm pretty sure the ambiguity on the subject is done on purpose. This way, their sexual... er.. (attempting to be PC, attempt failing) positions -- are left to the players'/RP ideal.

dujh wrote...

who cares he's still going to get aids

BAHAHAHAHAHAHA 

Modifié par Illeuad, 24 mars 2011 - 04:43 .

[Kitimandiri]

Celes247 wrote...

In the Female Hawke/ Fenris romance, I can't imagine Fenris being the submissive partner. His personality is way too aggressive and domineering. The scene where F!Hawke is pinning him? That's because he's letting her. It's the least he could do after almost killing her.

My F!Hawke let him pin her in the first place. I/she don't like being touch just as much as Fenris, minus the tragic past bit. She chose to touch him in the first place and invite a response. 

He's definitely not submissive when treated as an equal. Maybe in a master/slave situation like he was in but not in DA2 relationship canon as far as I can tell. I don't necessarily see him or Anders as dominant either. Hawke is a strong lead regardless of the role. Must be that being a main character thing.

Modifié par Kitimandiri, 24 mars 2011 - 04:45 .

[_Aine_]

My first character was a sweet as honey, sarcastic little rogue.  She would do it anyway Anders wanted (and did!).    My current one(ok one of my current ones)  though?   



Makes Aveline looks sweet, subtle and understated (which was the intent)  lol    My guess:  Basically, Anders does it her way, or with someone else. She would get along swimmingly with Justice, if only she were a mage...  

So, I *think* Anders is a switchy sort.    Maybe he kind of depends on who YOUR character is as to which side of him you will bring out.   He always was kind of a free spirit.  I would actually peg him for: vertical, passionate and fevered, almost desperate in its intensity.  Not that I...errrr.....was thinking too much about it.