Edit: So yes I agree, but this would be an elegant solution and makes it obvious if you don't want to go there, you never have to.
Modifié par Naltair, 22 mars 2011 - 06:53 .
Modifié par Naltair, 22 mars 2011 - 06:53 .
Naltair wrote...
This is pretty much my thoughts exactly.Nashiktal wrote...
I think that if pre-existing characters are to become BI in ME3, it should be initiated by shep himself with its own separate conversation tree.
Problem solved for everyone eh?
coolair74 wrote...
Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I agree with all this, but to put it in another form -
Just because someone likes the opposite sex does not mean they are DEFINITELY straight.
Just because someone likes the same sex does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay.
Just because someone does not rush to romance Shepard does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay, bi, or straight.
Just because someone does rush to romance Shepard does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay, bi, or straight.
1) I'm a man. I like women only. But I'm also possibly bisexual?
2)Then what are they? STRAIGHT?
I can see the point they are trying to make but they arnt really doing it well.
Just because someone likes the opposite sex does not mean they are DEFINITELY straight.
But its prolly something you should assume.
Just because someone likes the same sex does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay.
Same as above.
Just because someone does not rush to romance Shepard does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay, bi, or straight.
Wat? They all rush it.
Just because someone does rush to romance Shepard does not mean they are DEFINITELY gay, bi, or straight.
This is where Garrus comes out after 3 or 4 years and suddenly wants your manmeat?
coolair74 wrote...
Naltair wrote...
This is pretty much my thoughts exactly.Nashiktal wrote...
I think that if pre-existing characters are to become BI in ME3, it should be initiated by shep himself with its own separate conversation tree.
Problem solved for everyone eh?
I like the DLC idea better, id rather not have it in the game as I am against any "adding" to the characters bio in that way. They are fine as is.
I can imagine that you don't like to have a non-hetero relation. I am a hetero myself. Being trapped into one is not something I would like. ME2 had a better approach to romances than ME1. DA2 even improved on this. So, if it is not forced on you it becomes a choice and thus can be avoided. Maybe that clears up a bit of your first question. About your second question... I can't find rational objections to the way BW handles romances, other than homophobic ones.Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
Who said anyone was being trapped into a romance?AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I am a bit puzzled by the original post. Unlike some other BW titles I never felt that I was being trapped into a romance by accident. The non-hetero group happens to play games too and thus is a potential market. Instead of ignoring them BW serves them with the same kind of attention and respect as the hetero group. I think that's a good thing and I hope they'll never give in to the homophobes.
And who's being a homophobe? No one is doing that here. Can we stop calling people homophobes because their opinion differs from your yours?
coolair74 wrote...
Naltair wrote...
This is pretty much my thoughts exactly.Nashiktal wrote...
I think that if pre-existing characters are to become BI in ME3, it should be initiated by shep himself with its own separate conversation tree.
Problem solved for everyone eh?
I like the DLC idea better, id rather not have it in the game as I am against any "adding" to the characters bio in that way. They are fine as is.
I would be most happy with new characters or player-driven romance, that is easily identifiable as romance/flirt choices.Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
I'm with the new characters idea. Leave everyone as is and just add more that are bi or gay.
Hellbound555 wrote...
shepard needs a rabid gay stalker fan just so the people on the forums gets a taste of what we do to the other characters in the game.
AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I can imagine that you don't like to have a non-hetero relation. I am a hetero myself. Being trapped into one is not something I would like. ME2 had a better approach to romances than ME1. DA2 even improved on this. So, if it is not forced on you it becomes a choice and thus can be avoided. Maybe that clears up a bit of your first question. About your second question... I can't find rational objections to the way BW handles romances, other than homophobic ones.Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
Who said anyone was being trapped into a romance?AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I am a bit puzzled by the original post. Unlike some other BW titles I never felt that I was being trapped into a romance by accident. The non-hetero group happens to play games too and thus is a potential market. Instead of ignoring them BW serves them with the same kind of attention and respect as the hetero group. I think that's a good thing and I hope they'll never give in to the homophobes.
And who's being a homophobe? No one is doing that here. Can we stop calling people homophobes because their opinion differs from your yours?
Guest_Nyoka_*
Words. You want different experiences depending on the sex or the sexual orientation of the player.Naltair wrote...
One stop playing the victim, I want parity not equality.
Because it's not an argument, is your personal view, based on your experience and your environment.you never countered my argument about how gender/sexuality frames people's views.
Right, that's why Sky prefers female characters. Oh wait, Sky also prefers male characters when you play as a man.if character x is romanceable by a female character in universe 1 and not so for a male characcter in universe 2, then we can conclude that at this juncture that character x prefers female characters.
Well, at least you offer the possibility that it can be. I hope that "until" will be fulfilled in ME3.If I as a man date girl y, then I will presume that girl y likes men until I am shown otherwise.
But you happily buy the idea that people magically resurrect like Jesus or are mysteriously absent, or even the whole structure of galactic government is different. Because to you, sexual orientation is apparently more important than life itself. I see gay Kaidan as a minor change if you compare it to dead Kaidan, sorry. And still, why should you care about someone else's Mass effect being different? Yours is still yours. Mine has nothing to do with yours.I don't buy into the idea that each universe should magically shift sexual orientations because the player chose male or female.
Experiencing the same game regardless of sex or sexual orientation matches perfectly the definition of equality. Everyone gets equal experience. Cool.This is not a sign of inequality.
Missing the point. It's not about having options, it's about having the same options. The same game and experience. What you propose is called segregation. It's like fighting racism in the military by establishing black platoons instead of making people treat black people equally. Sorry, it's not acceptable.What I do support is that there be options for all orientations but like anything else it does not have to be every character. It should hopefully be about equal, and equally compelling but it does not need to be every character. That to me is good storytelling.
Modifié par Nyoka, 22 mars 2011 - 07:11 .
Modifié par UsagiVindaloo, 22 mars 2011 - 07:15 .
UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I have a thought question for those who are against the idea of existing characters "coming out" for Shepard, as it were, specifically those who would say "it ruins the character".
Say you have a best friend of the same gender who has so far only shown interest in the opposite gender. You figure they're straight, fair enough. Then one day, perhaps when you both have a few too many beers, or you're about to move away, or something, he/she suddenly drops the bombshell; they have feelings for you. And they have had them for years, but have been too awkward to admit it. You had absolutely no inkling of this. Your friend does admit that their attraction to the opposite sex was genuine (i.e. it wasn't a front), but there's just something about YOU specifically that they are attracted to.
Do you think this would "change" who your friend is? Do you think it would somehow negate all the interactions you have had up until this point? Would you think of them as straight, bisexual, gay, straight-with-one-exception? Would you complain about bad or lazy writing? (Okay, that's more a joke, but you get the idea) Would it seem unrealistic? What would you do?
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being honest here. These characters may not be our friends, but we've grown with them and are certainly attached to them. If you treated a new aspect of their sexuality the same way you'd treat your friend in the above situation, how would you feel about it?
But in this case the book is interactive and you have a choise what parts of the book to avoid without missing the story. That's a cool feature. And they have just done that. Pretty neat, don't you think?Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I can imagine that you don't like to have a non-hetero relation. I am a hetero myself. Being trapped into one is not something I would like. ME2 had a better approach to romances than ME1. DA2 even improved on this. So, if it is not forced on you it becomes a choice and thus can be avoided. Maybe that clears up a bit of your first question. About your second question... I can't find rational objections to the way BW handles romances, other than homophobic ones.Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
Who said anyone was being trapped into a romance?AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I am a bit puzzled by the original post. Unlike some other BW titles I never felt that I was being trapped into a romance by accident. The non-hetero group happens to play games too and thus is a potential market. Instead of ignoring them BW serves them with the same kind of attention and respect as the hetero group. I think that's a good thing and I hope they'll never give in to the homophobes.
And who's being a homophobe? No one is doing that here. Can we stop calling people homophobes because their opinion differs from your yours?
Say I wrote a book for the whole world to see.. None of the characters in the story are bisexual or gay. Does that make me a homophobe?
No it doesn't. It's just that I didn't decide to put one in there.
AngryFrozenWater wrote...
But in this case the book is interactive and you have a choise what parts of the book to avoid without missing the story. That's a cool feature. And they have just done that. Pretty neat, don't you think?Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I can imagine that you don't like to have a non-hetero relation. I am a hetero myself. Being trapped into one is not something I would like. ME2 had a better approach to romances than ME1. DA2 even improved on this. So, if it is not forced on you it becomes a choice and thus can be avoided. Maybe that clears up a bit of your first question. About your second question... I can't find rational objections to the way BW handles romances, other than homophobic ones.Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
Who said anyone was being trapped into a romance?AngryFrozenWater wrote...
I am a bit puzzled by the original post. Unlike some other BW titles I never felt that I was being trapped into a romance by accident. The non-hetero group happens to play games too and thus is a potential market. Instead of ignoring them BW serves them with the same kind of attention and respect as the hetero group. I think that's a good thing and I hope they'll never give in to the homophobes.
And who's being a homophobe? No one is doing that here. Can we stop calling people homophobes because their opinion differs from your yours?
Say I wrote a book for the whole world to see.. None of the characters in the story are bisexual or gay. Does that make me a homophobe?
No it doesn't. It's just that I didn't decide to put one in there.
You are way too extreme here, you are equating this to real world analogues that have much greater depth and impact than a simple choice of hey I want to sleep with you in the Mass Effect video game. I am not against your idea of having same sex LIs I am just saying that it should be done well.Nyoka wrote...
Missing the point. It's not about having options, it's about having the same options. The same game and experience. What you propose is called segregation. It's like fighting DADT by establishing gay platoons. "Hey, that way you can be openly gay in the military and we don't freak out at the notion that a gay person might be close to us, gays belong in their own pink platoons and we have our own! Neat!" Sorry, it's not acceptable.
Modifié par Naltair, 22 mars 2011 - 07:16 .
Yeah it would change our relationship, the same as with a hetero situation. I think it could be overcome but it would change things.UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I have a thought question for those who are against the idea of existing characters "coming out" for Shepard, as it were, specifically those who would say "it ruins the character".
Say you have a best friend of the same gender who has so far only shown interest in the opposite gender. You figure they're straight, fair enough. Then one day, perhaps when you both have a few too many beers, or you're about to move away, or something, he/she suddenly drops the bombshell; they have feelings for you. And they have had them for years, but have been too awkward to admit it. You had absolutely no inkling of this. Your friend does admit that their attraction to the opposite sex was genuine (i.e. it wasn't a front), but there's just something about YOU specifically that they are attracted to.
Do you think this would "change" who your friend is? Do you think it would somehow negate all the interactions you have had up until this point? Would you think of them as straight, bisexual, gay, straight-with-one-exception? Would you complain about bad or lazy writing? (Okay, that's more a joke, but you get the idea) Would it seem unrealistic? What would you do?
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being honest here. These characters may not be our friends, but we've grown with them and are certainly attached to them. If you treated a new aspect of their sexuality the same way you'd treat your friend in the above situation, how would you feel about it?
Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I have a thought question for those who are against the idea of existing characters "coming out" for Shepard, as it were, specifically those who would say "it ruins the character".
Say you have a best friend of the same gender who has so far only shown interest in the opposite gender. You figure they're straight, fair enough. Then one day, perhaps when you both have a few too many beers, or you're about to move away, or something, he/she suddenly drops the bombshell; they have feelings for you. And they have had them for years, but have been too awkward to admit it. You had absolutely no inkling of this. Your friend does admit that their attraction to the opposite sex was genuine (i.e. it wasn't a front), but there's just something about YOU specifically that they are attracted to.
Do you think this would "change" who your friend is? Do you think it would somehow negate all the interactions you have had up until this point? Would you think of them as straight, bisexual, gay, straight-with-one-exception? Would you complain about bad or lazy writing? (Okay, that's more a joke, but you get the idea) Would it seem unrealistic? What would you do?
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being honest here. These characters may not be our friends, but we've grown with them and are certainly attached to them. If you treated a new aspect of their sexuality the same way you'd treat your friend in the above situation, how would you feel about it?
If my friend was bisexual, and he was attracted to me, yes, I would treat him differently, because now the relationship is different. (if that's what you are asking).
I'm not a homophobe, because I would feel the same way if it was a girl I didn't like that way and I was friends with.
Nyoka wrote...
jeweledleah wrote...
its not going to be delicately done. its going to be pushed in a manner of: "oh but you never heard me say I wasn't, oh and by the way - I've had that boyfriend/girlfriend before you that I just never told you about and I'm not going to tell you about it still, unless you show same sex romantic interest in me" I know that there are plenty of people who actually prefer their npc's to be different from game to game. to me - it completely ruins them. call it meta gaming, but when I play through the game multiple times, exploring different dialogue options, including romance ones when applicable, and then I decide to play a different gender and all of a sudden - the character I've gotten to know pretty well at that point - tells me something I've never once seen any hint of, just because I'm playing a different gender?
Hmmm. I don't get your point. The first part says you don't want to see it done, but then you say its not being done ruins npc's. With 'from game to game' you mean from profile to profile or from ME2 to ME3?
Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I have a thought question for those who are against the idea of existing characters "coming out" for Shepard, as it were, specifically those who would say "it ruins the character".
Say you have a best friend of the same gender who has so far only shown interest in the opposite gender. You figure they're straight, fair enough. Then one day, perhaps when you both have a few too many beers, or you're about to move away, or something, he/she suddenly drops the bombshell; they have feelings for you. And they have had them for years, but have been too awkward to admit it. You had absolutely no inkling of this. Your friend does admit that their attraction to the opposite sex was genuine (i.e. it wasn't a front), but there's just something about YOU specifically that they are attracted to.
Do you think this would "change" who your friend is? Do you think it would somehow negate all the interactions you have had up until this point? Would you think of them as straight, bisexual, gay, straight-with-one-exception? Would you complain about bad or lazy writing? (Okay, that's more a joke, but you get the idea) Would it seem unrealistic? What would you do?
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being honest here. These characters may not be our friends, but we've grown with them and are certainly attached to them. If you treated a new aspect of their sexuality the same way you'd treat your friend in the above situation, how would you feel about it?
If my friend was bisexual, and he was attracted to me, yes, I would treat him differently, because now the relationship is different. (if that's what you are asking).
I'm not a homophobe, because I would feel the same way if it was a girl I didn't like that way and I was friends with.
Modifié par Nashiktal, 22 mars 2011 - 07:19 .
Modifié par coolair74, 22 mars 2011 - 07:19 .
Naltair wrote...
Terrible reasoning, men can't be emotional for other men?trickfred wrote...
And for those that say it would be against his character, well, have you seen how emotionally Kaidan reacts to a DudeShep on Horizon in ME2? I totally believe he could be bisexual, based on that alone.
If I thought one of my best friends died and I saw them again I would be super emotional too, that does not mean I have a torch for him or want to secretly sleep with him.
I hate to say it but yeah it would change my opinion of him, not really a negative one but just different. I think for many people it would change how you see someone.UsagiVindaloo wrote...
OK, I'll concede that if the attraction is to you that that can change the relationship somewhat (even though it shouldn't mess with your friendship). I went for that because I was thinking more in terms of the LIs being attracted to "you"/Shepard.
But what if your buddy happened to mention that they were attracted to a specific guy that wasn't you? (Sorry, am guessing you are male, please correct if wrong) Would that change your opinion of him? Would you think it "changed" him? And if it doesn't... why would it 'change" any of Bioware's characters if the situation is pretty much the same (straight, but develop a massive crush on same-sex-Shepard)?