optimates0193 wrote...
I'm going to disagree with you strongly on your points. First off, while you may be correct that sexuality and attraction extend beyond simple gender, what you're ignoring is the effects of culture and a society's values. While everyone may be bisexual to some degree (a notion which I don't necessarily agree with) that doesn't mean that everyone would act on it or even consider it for that matter. We're just as shaped by our culture and environment and many societies simply don't encourage this, at least openly. Considering the fact that you're dealing with what is obviously a society based on medeival times which includes a strong, dogmatic church, it seems unlikely the game world would support it either.
I'm not ignoring culture or society. If you read the authors I mentioned (particularly Woolfe and to a lesser extent Winterson, who was influenced by Woolfe) they pay particular attention to culture and society. The entire point of Orlando is to show how different time periods affect the same person (the novel, if you don't know, is about a man who lives for about a hundred years, becomes a woman, lives for a few hundred more, and never ages more than thirty or forty or years). We are absolutely shaped by our culture. That's where the term "gender roles" originates. Roles, from a sociological standpoint, are the cultural expectations of our statuses. One status is gender. Thus, gender role.
However, none of this has any bearing on sexual attraction. We're attracted to whoever we're attracted to. What we choose to do with it, how we acknowledge it (
if) we acknowledge it, that's culturally and socially influenced. Yet you make the mistake in assuming Thedas is like Earth. It's already been stated by the devs that Thedas has no moral hang-ups on homosexuality.
I'm not going to get all preachy about why homosexuality or "queer" attitudes have faced a hard time in the West. That's an issue for a different board. I will say it's definitely culturally based, and Thedas--influenced by medieval times or not--does not share that culture.
As to your point regarding realism, it's really a simple point to get. All creative media takes advantage of something called suspension of disbelief. A game has to create a believable world. The creators do this by setting rules. These rules have to make logical sense, and they're going to be influenced by a person's judgement and value. If I'm playing a fantasy game, I expect to see dragons. It's a long standing mythological creature, it's not going to break my suspension of disbelief, because it makes logical sense to be within the game, along with wizards tossing fireballs.
On the other hand, when every character is bisexual, that doesn't make any logical sense. It's gamey, clearly done to make every romance accessible. It doesn't make sense within either world (The real world or the game world) and so all it accomplishes is to distance the player from the game.
We'll have to agree to disagree on this one. First, not every character is queer. You can flirt with Aveline, but she's only interested in Donnic and expresses no interest in females at all. There's also Sebastian, a quasi-romance open only to females. There is some sense of heterosexuality here. It's not gone. And each of the queer characters is queer in a different way, as you would expect of something as dynamic as sexuality.
Perhaps it's the queer-friendly area I live in. Perhaps it's who I choose to associate with. But it's not uncommon at all where I am to have four queer friends. You'll notice (maybe) I use the word queer instead of bisexual. Personally, I like the term more. I think it breaks us out of those binary definitions so many like to insist upon. Secondly, it happens to be more accurate, especially with regards to Anders, who sees sexual attraction as separate from gender.
Realisim is open to interpretation as much as reality is subjective. I percieve DA2's treatment of sexuality as realistic because the characters approach it in distinct ways, each influenced by their past experiences. I suppose if you live in an area where queer culture is largely closeted or if you choose to ignore it, then it comes across as unrealistic. That doesn't make it so. It just means your reality is different from mine.
Wow, that got really post-modern.