Because I'm lazy and lame, I'll just repost what I wrote earlier today on the Fenris thread as to my opinion on why he is the way he is.
I think I tried to make this argument before, but probably made it poorly
or incoherently. Hey, I should get points for persistence!
Memory is integral to the formation of identity. Experience is a composite of
memory, and the eventual understanding or reflection that comes from
returning to that memory. Conversely, it is in this network of memories
and experiences that our worldview takes shape. There is a reason why
nostalgia colors everything with emotion. Our thoughts, actions, and
relationships are tied together by these experiences and memory is what
allows us to make the connections.
Fenris’s trouble comes from more than just loosing memory and thusly only having the cruelty of
slavery being his only memory. Fenris’s trouble is derived from the
existing person that was pre-memory loss being irreconcilable to the
person that he is post-memory loss. The person that Fenris was before
then exists in a existence that is stagnant and in stasis just out of
grasp. It is this person that possesses a strong tie to family and is
the reason why he has that need to put down roots.
His quest “Alone” seems to hint at this subtlely and allude to this stagnant
duality. The person that Varania describes (Leto) seems noble, and
self-sacrificing in that he gave up his identity to free his mother and
sister from slavery. This is why I think the bitterness, the hate for
magic that he clings to is so debilitating. Leto and Fenris are not
the same people and yet they are at the same time (which is why I think
Fenris’s reaction to Ander’s possession is so very ironic). Varania’s
revelation sickens him to think that he asked for the very things he
feels cursed him. In that instance, he finally comes come to grips with
both personas in particular, the one does possess memories of pleasant
things like family, love and friendship and the other persona who has
inexperienced intolerable cruelty and degradation. This is why he
lashes out at Hawke about being alone and if Hawke is in love with him,
he/she can try try to help in that reconcillation by reminding him that
he is not. I imagined that in order for him to cope with those lyrium
marking he had to focus the onus of his bitterness on external forces
(i.e slavery, magic and Danarius). This is why I will ALWAYS let
Varania live because this is something that NEEDS to happen for Fenris.
My hope is that he will evetually achieve parity with both personas.
Sorry for the length, but I wanted to stick up a little for Fen.

I have some thoughts on Isabela but I'll save those for next time. Only one boring wall of text per day is my rule.
EDIT: Weird formatting error...I dunno.
Modifié par Village Idiot, 25 mars 2011 - 01:24 .