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Shawn Ogg

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Dark83 wrote...
This is because playing a bisexual dwarf who carries a stepladder with him is hilarious. The world's second greatest lover - but he tries harder. {smilie}


Long life to Terry Pratchett ^^

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I don't control who or what gives me an erection. I can attempt to suppress my body's response by redirecting my thoughts and focusing on something else, but the cause is beyond my control.

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Hah, I just talked about my erections on a semi-public forum. That's a first for me. Sorry if anyone thought that was TMI. >_>

This.
Many people seems to believe that homosexuality is a choice. Is not. Believe me if it was it could have saved me a lot of troubles (and the ones yet to come).
Anyway I agree with centauri this is not a debate we should start here.

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Why does it always come down to Black people?  If I was Black I would kinda get tired of people useing my race as a tired example of oppressed minorites.

As far as sexual oreientation goes, it is debate able to what extent homesxuals pick their sexuality. I have been reading some scientific articles on this a while back. From what I gathered homosexuality is gentetic to the extent that scientists have linked homosexuality to a certain gene or something to that effect. Just like they have linked prayer to a certain gene or any other activity to a certain gene. Yet prayer is still a person's choice.

Clearly though more research is needed to find out hommuch genetics play a role in homosexuality. PM me and I will give you some sources, it you want. :)


1.  It's an example that's recent and easy to relate to.  Even if you weren't around for the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s, you still learned about it in school and you're still seeing anti-black racism today.  It's much harder to relate to, say, the anti-Irish movement.

2.  The NAACP, affirmative action, black-only scholarships, and Al Sharpton don't seem to be tired of it, yet.

In any case, it's a good analogy.  One can no more choose his sexual orientation than he can choose his skin color.  Being anti-gay is no better than being anti-black and the idea that you can "love the sinner, but hate the sin" doesn't fly in this case.  It's nothing more than a cop-out to make you feel less homophobic.

Yeah, I used that label again.  I'm going to keep doing it everytime someone posts nonsense like this.

This is incorrect.

1. It's a bad example, because blacks have absolutely no control over the physical appearance they are born into the world with. Indeed, physiology cannot be helped and is never something we equate the idea of 'choice' to. On the other hand, behavior is a different matter entirely and raises additional questions.


Sexual orientation is not a choice.

A) There is no scientific proof of the "gay gene." I realize that people like to pretend there is and act as if this has been a long and established matte, but it has not. The individuals who concocted this nonsense had an agenda.

B) Even so, sexuality is determined biologically . . . at least to the same extent one can say it is determined sociologically (i.e. upbringing/ life experiences). However, the same can be said for EVERY behavior. Indeed, some people are less inclined to behave violently or engage in intense physical behavior due to traits they inherited hereditarily. Some people are better talented and artistry or chess than others who had similar level of practice due to genetics alone. It's how the world works. People's actions and characteristics are a combination result of nature and nurture.

C) So in other words, if we are to take this "one can't help something they are born with" to its logical limits, we first conclude that any action which one has no control over is justified. From that, we conclude that ALL actions are justified.  Rape? Murder? Thievery? Individuals cannot help who their parents are or what home they grow up (therefore determining their life experiences); they have no choice. Thus, in order to be consistent, we must tolerate rapist, murderers and thieves.:lol:


Sexual orientation is not a behavior.  Choosing to engage in gay sex is, but so is engaging in heterosexual sex.  So what?  Why is your sex okay and not theirs?

Remember, sexual orientation is not a choice.

All that being said, this is not to compare homosexuals to rapist, murders and thieves. Far from it. I'm simply explaining to you that your logic (or rather, should I say the "logic" which the media and other influential groups with a specious agenda) doesn't come without consequences.  Homosexuals should have the same rights (at least in our country) as heterosexuals as church and state are separated. Lets leave it at that and go no further in the fight for "equality" as I fear the logical implications of the utter nonsense you and others like to present shall lead to the destruction of our society.


Yes, they should have the same rights.  Because sexual orientation is not a choice.  I feel like I'm repeating myself, here!

I have no "agenda" and the idea that homosexuality is a political topic disgusts me.  I want to tell you to **** off, but that's against the ToS.  Instead, I'll just remind you that sexual orientation is not a choice.

Oh yeah and as for 2 . . .

2) Two wrongs don't make a right.


That was in direct response to the guy who said black people should be tired of being the analogy of an oppressed minority.  That's obviously not true of all black people and I provided counter examples.  Nothing more, nothing less.

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Hasn't it already been proven that sexual orientation isn't a choosable/changeable? Sexuality and how you react and act upon your sexual orientation are different things altogether. There are many gay people who for some reason or another are in relationship with opposite sex, usually with disastrous consequences.

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Captain Cornhole wrote...

centauri2002 wrote...

Let's not start the choice debate. It's not even a factor in this discussion and it's something a lot of people feel strongly about. 


I think it is a factor to a certain extent in this discussion, but your probably right that we shouldn't go there.


Ah, I see "select your sexuality" in RPG is some sort of nightmarish choise theory to peeps here.

Lol.

I wonder what they have done when they have played Pen & Paper or whatever RPG and defaulted to gay or hetero. Or maybe they just don't understand they have chosen the default sexuality for them.

If I would RP a gay in DA I would romance Zevran. I would chose my char is a gay.

Does "chose your sexuality" in RPG make people insecure LLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!

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Cadaveth wrote...

Hasn't it already been proven that sexual orientation isn't a choosable/changeable? Sexuality and how you react and act upon your sexual orientation are different things altogether. There are many gay people who for some reason or another are in relationship with opposite sex, usually with disastrous consequences.


I think gay reacts differently to Isabella hitting on her than Anders hitting on her. Not sure though? Well, I know my reactions would change depending on my chars sexuality.

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[sarcastical] Not sure if I should facepalm.

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Captain Cornhole wrote...

Why does it always come down to Black people?  If I was Black I would kinda get tired of people useing my race as a tired example of oppressed minorites.

As far as sexual oreientation goes, it is debate able to what extent homesxuals pick their sexuality. I have been reading some scientific articles on this a while back. From what I gathered homosexuality is gentetic to the extent that scientists have linked homosexuality to a certain gene or something to that effect. Just like they have linked prayer to a certain gene or any other activity to a certain gene. Yet prayer is still a person's choice.

Clearly though more research is needed to find out hommuch genetics play a role in homosexuality. PM me and I will give you some sources, it you want. :)


1.  It's an example that's recent and easy to relate to.  Even if you weren't around for the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s, you still learned about it in school and you're still seeing anti-black racism today.  It's much harder to relate to, say, the anti-Irish movement.

2.  The NAACP, affirmative action, black-only scholarships, and Al Sharpton don't seem to be tired of it, yet.

In any case, it's a good analogy.  One can no more choose his sexual orientation than he can choose his skin color.  Being anti-gay is no better than being anti-black and the idea that you can "love the sinner, but hate the sin" doesn't fly in this case.  It's nothing more than a cop-out to make you feel less homophobic.

Yeah, I used that label again.  I'm going to keep doing it everytime someone posts nonsense like this.


Speaking as a black person:  Its a terrible analogy.  Risking this touching too much on a political note (That line would of already been crossed anyways) - its just a cheap way to attatch an already established horror/emotion (Racism is bad) to whatever cause you want.

You can cross your arms, and shake your head all you want, the debate as to if there is a choice in homosexuality will continue.  Simplying saying "Hey, there's no choice in the matter!" is about as much as a fact as that guy rambling about chemtrails.

Feel free to throw homophobic around, it'll just shred what little meaning the term has left (Much as accusing someone of being a racist has gone from being one of the worst accusations against someone you can make, to a slight wound).  Unless I missed something, he hasn't done anything that would present a fear of homosexuality at all.  What you seem to be doing is saying "He doesn't agree with my views on homosexuality, and -so he must be a bigot-."

To actually -get back on topic-:

How exactly is it good for the depth of the game for a character's sexuality to change regardless of who you are?  Is it  a good thing that I can be a complete dick to Isabela, Merrill, Anders, or Fenris and still romance them?  Certainly for some characters (Merrill) it might make sense that challenging them could inspire a sort of romance, but -all of them-?  It cheapens the experience and lessens the whole notion that actions have consquences.  There aren't -really- any consquences, because all actions drive toward the same end.  I can romance you by challenging you, surpressing your opinion, and being a general dick toward you, or I can romance you by...actually being nice.

Likewise, how does it make sense that everyone is attracted to Hawke regardless of gender?

Lelianna and Zev benefited from being bi and having that as something unique to them.  In Lelianna's case, for example, it furthered the concept of her being in love with you because of what you represented to her (Her dream/vision).  It made sense that gender wouldn't be an issue for her, you (sort of) represented the Maker's will to her.

In other words, it fit her personality.

You can say that sexuality isn't a part of identity, but how can any honest person say that?  A gay pride parade or your stereotypical homophobe (Read:  Not 99% of the people being accused of it here) disproves that.  Those people cling to sexuality as an identity (A good example would be the gay groups who, humorously enough, attack bisexuals).

It doesn't fit Ander's personality to have him gaga over someone who wants to have Mage's in chains.  Likewise why should -all- (romanceable) characters be attracted to both genders?

Its fine if Bioware wants to put homosexual characters, bi characters, and straight characters in their games.  And its fine if a gay character approaches me, htis on me, but stops when I turn them down (Thats real life people. stop freaking out over it).  But I think the characters suffer when their sexuality becomes, in effect, a blank slate.  Bioware made romances (and sexuality) a part of characters and their games, and guess what?  It doesn't matter how legendary or charismatic you are, some people will never be attracted to you because of your gender.

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moilami wrote...

I think gay reacts differently to
Isabella hitting on her than Anders hitting on her. Not sure though?
Well, I know my reactions would change depending on my chars sexuality.


That's exactly it. Your motivations and intentions don't matter, it is what you do that determine who you are. If you make Hawke act gay, then Hawke is gay, regardless of what you wrote down ahead of time. It's your reactions that count, it's your reaction that is perceived.

This is why pre-selecting sexuality is meaningless. It doesn't do anything. The only way for such an option to do something is if it removes the other options from the game altogether - which becomes a segregationist issue.

Modifié par Dark83, 28 mars 2011 - 06:43 .


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Who says there has to be "force?" Perhaps they can make it to where you're automatically "bisexual" and that players have the option to toggle. There. Easy as pie. You don't have to worry about "force" and players who are concerned about this can do as they please. Everyone wins.:)

As for your personality in general comparison, I don't see any complaints about any altercations caused through the current personaity system set up, so your example doesn't fly. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.;) That said, I was annoyed when a certain character related to Hawke died later in the game. I had mostly been choosing the humorous dialogue option, thus it seemed pretty inappropriate when Hawke was talking about this person's death with Gamlen, only to throw out that humorous line. WTF? Someone just died. Just because I like being humorous most of time, it doesn't mean I'd want to be humorous then. What were the writers thinking?<_<


Sometimes I use stronger words that I should, it is a side effect of communicating with obvious trolls. No, that's not an ad hominem, it's a statement of opinion based upon observation and is no way a dismissal of his arguments based entirely on the my opinion that he's an obvious troll.
The fact remains that my character is then defined by the game as bisexual. Ok, that's pretty much irrelevant, but it annoys me that it should be considered necessary. Do we feel the need to define the sexuality of "the marine" in Doom? Why should we define our characters far in advance of relevance? Do we have level 1 spirt healer force mages?

It's called an analogy... pointing out how ridiculous the request is in terms of something else which is almost exactly the same and which has, as you say, faced no complaints. Like you say, if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
It's actually quite amusing that you then go on to point out the horror of those lines which are defined by your previous interactions. Do you see why it is ridiculous to predefine your personality then?
Leave the unneccessary aspects undefined and allow us to RP instead of just G.

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You can say that sexuality isn't a part of identity, but how can any honest person say that?  A gay pride parade or your stereotypical homophobe (Read:  Not 99% of the people being accused of it here) disproves that.  Those people cling to sexuality as an identity (A good example would be the gay groups who, humorously enough, attack bisexuals)..


Ill quote myself:

-To those who where surprised when seeing Anders approaching them. Dont
be so surprised. In DA:O Zevran only lacked a rainbow unicorn to make
his interests more clear but so you know thats not the usual thing on
the real world. Im the first to admit that you can see lots of guys who
cant put it clearlier even if they tatto GAY on their foreheads, and
although this constant stereotype is being used and abused everywhere
its far from being an standard. TOO FAR. Most of gays you wouldnt
recognize them until its too late.... wua hahahaha... ok just joking :P .
But it is true that although some guys, and thats an attitude Id never
understand, just seems to build all his life/personality around the fact
they are gay, they are just a minority, a noisy one, but still a
minority. So yes someone like Anders can be gay, even the Arishock.



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Double post sorry :(

Modifié par Shawn Ogg, 28 mars 2011 - 06:52 .


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Seifz wrote...

Perfect-Kenshin wrote...

Seifz wrote...

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Why does it always come down to Black people?  If I was Black I would kinda get tired of people useing my race as a tired example of oppressed minorites.

As far as sexual oreientation goes, it is debate able to what extent homesxuals pick their sexuality. I have been reading some scientific articles on this a while back. From what I gathered homosexuality is gentetic to the extent that scientists have linked homosexuality to a certain gene or something to that effect. Just like they have linked prayer to a certain gene or any other activity to a certain gene. Yet prayer is still a person's choice.

Clearly though more research is needed to find out hommuch genetics play a role in homosexuality. PM me and I will give you some sources, it you want. :)


1.  It's an example that's recent and easy to relate to.  Even if you weren't around for the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s, you still learned about it in school and you're still seeing anti-black racism today.  It's much harder to relate to, say, the anti-Irish movement.

2.  The NAACP, affirmative action, black-only scholarships, and Al Sharpton don't seem to be tired of it, yet.

In any case, it's a good analogy.  One can no more choose his sexual orientation than he can choose his skin color.  Being anti-gay is no better than being anti-black and the idea that you can "love the sinner, but hate the sin" doesn't fly in this case.  It's nothing more than a cop-out to make you feel less homophobic.

Yeah, I used that label again.  I'm going to keep doing it everytime someone posts nonsense like this.

This is incorrect.

1. It's a bad example, because blacks have absolutely no control over the physical appearance they are born into the world with. Indeed, physiology cannot be helped and is never something we equate the idea of 'choice' to. On the other hand, behavior is a different matter entirely and raises additional questions.


Sexual orientation is not a choice.


A) There is no scientific proof of the "gay gene." I realize that people like to pretend there is and act as if this has been a long and established matte, but it has not. The individuals who concocted this nonsense had an agenda.

B) Even so, sexuality is determined biologically . . . at least to the same extent one can say it is determined sociologically (i.e. upbringing/ life experiences). However, the same can be said for EVERY behavior. Indeed, some people are less inclined to behave violently or engage in intense physical behavior due to traits they inherited hereditarily. Some people are better talented and artistry or chess than others who had similar level of practice due to genetics alone. It's how the world works. People's actions and characteristics are a combination result of nature and nurture.

C) So in other words, if we are to take this "one can't help something they are born with" to its logical limits, we first conclude that any action which one has no control over is justified. From that, we conclude that ALL actions are justified.  Rape? Murder? Thievery? Individuals cannot help who their parents are or what home they grow up (therefore determining their life experiences); they have no choice. Thus, in order to be consistent, we must tolerate rapist, murderers and thieves.:lol:


Sexual orientation is not a behavior.  Choosing to engage in gay sex is, but so is engaging in heterosexual sex.  So what?  Why is your sex okay and not theirs?

Remember, sexual orientation is not a choice.


1) Attraction is linked to behavior and can easily be influenced by one's experiences. Skin color cannot. This is why your comparison doesn't work.

2) Lay off the strawman and calm down. Nowhere in my post did I insinuate that I was here to argue what sex was okay and what wasn't. Leave your emotions at the door when responding to me. Thanks.

3) Sexual orientation is no less of a choice than any other behavior. I've already laid out a case for why this is so. If you have no intention of addressing my points, there's nothing else for you to say.

Yes, they should have the same rights.  Because sexual orientation is not a choice.  I feel like I'm repeating myself, here!

Your repeating yourself because there's not much else to do when you aren't inclined to address one's argument.:P

Again, using the reasoning you've laid out before us, we conclude that there is a lack of "choice" in every behavior. Does one choose where they are born or what their upbringing is like? One cannot help the actions tat follow because of this. "No choice, ergo its right" has deadly complications for those who seriously believe it.

I have no "agenda" and the idea that homosexuality is a political topic disgusts me.  I want to tell you to **** off, but that's against the ToS.  Instead, I'll just remind you that sexual orientation is not a choice.

I don't know if YOU have an agenda, but I do know the people you get your talking points from DO have an agenda. I agree it's pretty disgusting of them, but what can you do in a world where people are corrupt enough to focus on some issues (which they don't truly care about) in order to downplay ones that actually matter.:?

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Jalem001 wrote...

Seifz wrote...

Captain Cornhole wrote...

Why does it always come down to Black people?  If I was Black I would kinda get tired of people useing my race as a tired example of oppressed minorites.

As far as sexual oreientation goes, it is debate able to what extent homesxuals pick their sexuality. I have been reading some scientific articles on this a while back. From what I gathered homosexuality is gentetic to the extent that scientists have linked homosexuality to a certain gene or something to that effect. Just like they have linked prayer to a certain gene or any other activity to a certain gene. Yet prayer is still a person's choice.

Clearly though more research is needed to find out hommuch genetics play a role in homosexuality. PM me and I will give you some sources, it you want. :)


1.  It's an example that's recent and easy to relate to.  Even if you weren't around for the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s, you still learned about it in school and you're still seeing anti-black racism today.  It's much harder to relate to, say, the anti-Irish movement.

2.  The NAACP, affirmative action, black-only scholarships, and Al Sharpton don't seem to be tired of it, yet.

In any case, it's a good analogy.  One can no more choose his sexual orientation than he can choose his skin color.  Being anti-gay is no better than being anti-black and the idea that you can "love the sinner, but hate the sin" doesn't fly in this case.  It's nothing more than a cop-out to make you feel less homophobic.

Yeah, I used that label again.  I'm going to keep doing it everytime someone posts nonsense like this.


Speaking as a black person:  Its a terrible analogy.  Risking this touching too much on a political note (That line would of already been crossed anyways) - its just a cheap way to attatch an already established horror/emotion (Racism is bad) to whatever cause you want.

You can cross your arms, and shake your head all you want, the debate as to if there is a choice in homosexuality will continue.  Simplying saying "Hey, there's no choice in the matter!" is about as much as a fact as that guy rambling about chemtrails.


http://en.wikipedia....ual_orientation

Yes, it's Wikipedia, but it links to a fantastic number of real sources.  The evidence is overwhelmingly in favor of the theory that sexual orientation is not a choice.  Nearly all of the research finding the opposite is sponsored by converative religious organizations.

And it's a fantastic analogy.  You didn't choose to be black and my sister didn't choose to be bisexual.

Feel free to throw homophobic around, it'll just shred what little meaning the term has left (Much as accusing someone of being a racist has gone from being one of the worst accusations against someone you can make, to a slight wound).  Unless I missed something, he hasn't done anything that would present a fear of homosexuality at all.  What you seem to be doing is saying "He doesn't agree with my views on homosexuality, and -so he must be a bigot-."


No, that's not it at all.  I've only used the term in reference to a handful of people and all of those people have said that homosexuality is unnatural, that homosexuals can choose not to be homosexual, that homosexuals should not practice homosexuality, that homosexuals should not have the same rights as heterosexuals, and/or that games should be designed for the "straight male gamer".

It isn't my fault that we chose the term "homophobic" to be analogous to racist, sexist, etc.  In common usage, the term goes beyond simple fear of homosexuality and also describes the racist-equivalent bigots that oppose homsoexuality on "moral" grounds.  If you don't like it, tough.

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3) Sexual orientation is no less of a choice than any other behavior. I've already laid out a case for why this is so. If you have no intention of addressing my points, there's nothing else for you to say.


Sexual behaviour IS  a choice.
Sexual orientation IS NOT a choice.

behavoiur =/= orientation

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Dark83 wrote...

moilami wrote...

I think gay reacts differently to
Isabella hitting on her than Anders hitting on her. Not sure though?
Well, I know my reactions would change depending on my chars sexuality.


That's exactly it. Your motivations and intentions don't matter, it is what you do that determine who you are. If you make Hawke act gay, then Hawke is gay, regardless of what you wrote down ahead of time. It's your reactions that count, it's your reaction that is perceived.

This is why pre-selecting sexuality is meaningless. It doesn't do anything. The only way for such an option to do something is if it removes the other options from the game altogether - which becomes a segregationist issue.


Have you ever RPed?

Normally when you RP you first create your character. It can be very detailed or not so detailed description of your character. After you have created your character you play the game from your character's point of view. That's why "sexuality" is especially in DA series next to mandatory choise. If your character does not have sexuality he would not know how to react when for example Anders advances on him.

Note HC RPers could create a detailed description of sexuality like "feels uncomfortable if heteros advance her" or "is sexually very active" or "is sexually very restricted" or even "is insecure of his sexuality" (pun intended).


(There is no hand big enough in the world for me to describe how much of a facepalm this is I have to describe in cRPG forum about basics of RP.)

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Reznore57 wrote...

Not to be mean or anything but i found the whole problem ridiculous...
feeling threated by other people sexuality is non sense for me.
It's just flirt.
Maybe people should realise that there are people who suffered from REAL sexual abuse.
Put your energy into fighting a real threat not an imaginary one ...


[sarcastic/witty] Fighting real problems demands effort. Whining on a forum can be done while watching porn. Easy choice.

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Shawn Ogg wrote...

Dark83 wrote...
This is because playing a bisexual dwarf who carries a stepladder with him is hilarious. The world's second greatest lover - but he tries harder. {smilie}


Long life to Terry Pratchett ^^


Oh my f*cking god..... I actually had to think until I figured out why you talk about Pratchett here.....

Shame on me, to forget about Casanunda:(

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moilami wrote...

(There is no hand big enough in the world for me to describe how much of a facepalm this is I have to describe in cRPG forum about basics of RP.)


We´re in DA2 forum. No roleplaying here, except for Isabela and Hawke roleplaying during sex.

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It doesn't matter how legendary or charismatic you are, some people will never be attracted to you because of your gender.

They're all damaged goods. For the most part, they're completely plausible.

Fenris a memory-less slave who's been on the run and without any actual social contact for a while. Hawke is the first person he thinks he can rely on, and (if you romance him) keeps seeing him. If you didn't befriend him, and if gay-Hawke didn't try to get into his pants, Fenris is straight and bones Isabela (if she's available).

Isabela, of course, is one of those people who wield their sexuality like a weapon - she is aggressive as a defensive measure. But her orientation (loose) was never in question.

Merrill is an outcase in her tribe - she never had friends, the tribe is hostile to her. The question of which way she swings normally if you never romance her is up in the air. Regardless, Hawke takes her away from her hostile tribe, and if les-Hawke romanced her, is her first house guest, introduces her to a new "family" (Isabela and Varric, particularly) and so on. Hawke is still a constant presence for years, and helps her (even if she ultimately disagrees, Hawke is still fighting alongside Merrill) with her goals.

Anders explains why he was boinking Karl quite reasonably, and any discrepancy in character can be written off as being Justice's fault. He's also lonely with his big secret, that apparently not even Karl knew about. Defending him from the Templar, revealing his secret to Hawke and not having him run away screaming, visiting him and befriending him (if gay-Hawke romances him) - it's all rather understandable.

I don't see how their attraction to Hawke in a particular narrative is contrived for the sake of fanslash. It all seems fairly well characterized.

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Shawn Ogg wrote...

Jalem001 wrote...

You can say that sexuality isn't a part of identity, but how can any honest person say that?  A gay pride parade or your stereotypical homophobe (Read:  Not 99% of the people being accused of it here) disproves that.  Those people cling to sexuality as an identity (A good example would be the gay groups who, humorously enough, attack bisexuals)..


Ill quote myself:

-To those who where surprised when seeing Anders approaching them. Dont
be so surprised. In DA:O Zevran only lacked a rainbow unicorn to make
his interests more clear but so you know thats not the usual thing on
the real world. Im the first to admit that you can see lots of guys who
cant put it clearlier even if they tatto GAY on their foreheads, and
although this constant stereotype is being used and abused everywhere
its far from being an standard. TOO FAR. Most of gays you wouldnt
recognize them until its too late.... wua hahahaha... ok just joking :P .
But it is true that although some guys, and thats an attitude Id never
understand, just seems to build all his life/personality around the fact
they are gay, they are just a minority, a noisy one, but still a
minority. So yes someone like Anders can be gay, even the Arishock.


Where did I say a character needed to be blatantly gay?  I said that homosexuality *could* be a part of identity.  Not that one -had- to be flamoyantly, outrageously, obviously gay.

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sexual orientation is NOT a choice, ffs.

I can CHOOSE to TRY get hard looking at vaginas and breasts and stick it in, does not mean I all of the sudden choose to be straight or that I am straight.

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Tirigon wrote...

moilami wrote...

(There is no hand big enough in the world for me to describe how much of a facepalm this is I have to describe in cRPG forum about basics of RP.)


We´re in DA2 forum. No roleplaying here, except for Isabela and Hawke roleplaying during sex.


[mr. obvious] Oh, forgot that DA2 is not an RPG. It is arcade adventure game. My bad.

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1) Attraction is linked to behavior and can easily be influenced by one's experiences. Skin color cannot. This is why your comparison doesn't work.


[Citation Needed]

2) Lay off the strawman and calm down. Nowhere in my post did I insinuate that I was here to argue what sex was okay and what wasn't. Leave your emotions at the door when responding to me. Thanks.


Except for the part where you compared gay sex to rape and murder.  Or the part where you implied that we had to justify gay sexual behavior, as if it wasn't just as natural and normal as heterosexual behavior.

Yes, I saw the disclaimer that you didn't want to compare gay sex with rape and murder.  No, that doesn't change what you said.

3) Sexual orientation is no less of a choice than any other behavior. I've already laid out a case for why this is so. If you have no intention of addressing my points, there's nothing else for you to say.


But you have absolutely no evidence to support that claim.  The evidence overwhelmingly points to sexual orientation not being a choice.  The only choice is whether people act on their sexuality.  And why should't they? 

Unless you mean to say that gay sex is not just as natural and acceptable as straight sex?

Again, using the reasoning you've laid out before us, we conclude that there is a lack of "choice" in every behavior. Does one choose where they are born or what their upbringing is like? One cannot help the actions tat follow because of this. "No choice, ergo its right" has deadly complications for those who seriously believe it.


No, that's how you falsely interpreted what I wrote.  You seem to be confusing "gay" with "gay sex".  They aren't the same.  That said, opposing either one is wrong.  If you oppose someone for their sexual orientation, then that's no better than being a racist.  If you oppose someone for actually engaging in homosexual behavior, then you're saying that straight sex is more natural and accepted than gay sex.  Either way, that sounds pretty bigoted to me.

I don't know if YOU have an agenda, but I do know the people you get your talking points from DO have an agenda. I agree it's pretty disgusting of them, but what can you do in a world where people are corrupt enough to focus on some issues (which they don't truly care about) in order to downplay ones that actually matter.:?


I don't "get" my "talking points" from anyone.  I say what I say because I want to say it, because the research overwhelmingly supports it, and because I'm tired of how socially acceptable it is to hate on gays.

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MaximusPhoenix wrote...

sexual orientation is NOT a choice, ffs.

I can CHOOSE to TRY get hard looking at vaginas and breasts and stick it in, does not mean I all of the sudden choose to be straight or that I am straight.


[Naughty] god made u gay ?

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Seifz wrote...

Jalem001 wrote...

Seifz wrote...

Captain Cornhole wrote...

Why does it always come down to Black people?  If I was Black I would kinda get tired of people useing my race as a tired example of oppressed minorites.

As far as sexual oreientation goes, it is debate able to what extent homesxuals pick their sexuality. I have been reading some scientific articles on this a while back. From what I gathered homosexuality is gentetic to the extent that scientists have linked homosexuality to a certain gene or something to that effect. Just like they have linked prayer to a certain gene or any other activity to a certain gene. Yet prayer is still a person's choice.

Clearly though more research is needed to find out hommuch genetics play a role in homosexuality. PM me and I will give you some sources, it you want. :)


1.  It's an example that's recent and easy to relate to.  Even if you weren't around for the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s, you still learned about it in school and you're still seeing anti-black racism today.  It's much harder to relate to, say, the anti-Irish movement.

2.  The NAACP, affirmative action, black-only scholarships, and Al Sharpton don't seem to be tired of it, yet.

In any case, it's a good analogy.  One can no more choose his sexual orientation than he can choose his skin color.  Being anti-gay is no better than being anti-black and the idea that you can "love the sinner, but hate the sin" doesn't fly in this case.  It's nothing more than a cop-out to make you feel less homophobic.

Yeah, I used that label again.  I'm going to keep doing it everytime someone posts nonsense like this.


Speaking as a black person:  Its a terrible analogy.  Risking this touching too much on a political note (That line would of already been crossed anyways) - its just a cheap way to attatch an already established horror/emotion (Racism is bad) to whatever cause you want.

You can cross your arms, and shake your head all you want, the debate as to if there is a choice in homosexuality will continue.  Simplying saying "Hey, there's no choice in the matter!" is about as much as a fact as that guy rambling about chemtrails.


http://en.wikipedia....ual_orientation

Yes, it's Wikipedia, but it links to a fantastic number of real sources.  The evidence is overwhelmingly in favor of the theory that sexual orientation is not a choice.  Nearly all of the research finding the opposite is sponsored by converative religious organizations.

And it's a fantastic analogy.  You didn't choose to be black and my sister didn't choose to be bisexual.

Feel free to throw homophobic around, it'll just shred what little meaning the term has left (Much as accusing someone of being a racist has gone from being one of the worst accusations against someone you can make, to a slight wound).  Unless I missed something, he hasn't done anything that would present a fear of homosexuality at all.  What you seem to be doing is saying "He doesn't agree with my views on homosexuality, and -so he must be a bigot-."


No, that's not it at all.  I've only used the term in reference to a handful of people and all of those people have said that homosexuality is unnatural, that homosexuals can choose not to be homosexual, that homosexuals should not practice homosexuality, that homosexuals should not have the same rights as heterosexuals, and/or that games should be designed for the "straight male gamer".

It isn't my fault that we chose the term "homophobic" to be analogous to racist, sexist, etc.  In common usage, the term goes beyond simple fear of homosexuality and also describes the racist-equivalent bigots that oppose homsoexuality on "moral" grounds.  If you don't like it, tough.


"No simple, single cause for sexual orientation has been conclusively
demonstrated, but research suggests that it is by a combination of
genetic, hormonal, and environmental influences."


Seifz, this is coming directly from your source (usually, I wouldn't acknowledge wikipedia alone, but you're the one who cited it, so). It says precisely what I've been telling you. Genetic and Environmental influence (hormonal too, but that can technically be umbrelled under the former or latter depending on what precisely we're talking about). This is no different than any behavior so I again have to question why "Lack of choice"  shoud automatically mean something is okay (fyi, I actually believe in free will and that it can supersede genetic/environmental influences under any condition, but that's a different matter and it doesn't seem you agree).