Torax wrote...
Pride on Merrill's part wouldn't let her listen to anyone who opposed her. Including the Keeper, Hawke and so on. She was so sure of herself, whether or not she truly was powerful enough to fend off the Pride Demon? That is the debate mostly in regards to say the Friendly or Rival romance arguments in this thread. But the writers probably were just going with the basic story of an extremely powerful pride demon that was so strong it was trapped there instead of letting go into the fade or let loose in the past.
Is it pride? Merrill wanted the restoration of a two thousand year old piece of technology she felt could help her people, since their goal is the restoration of their fallen civilization. I don't see any "pride" in her willingness to sacrifice her life for her people. Considering multiple characters follow what they believe is right, including the protagonist Hawke, I don't see how that's pride, but rather following what they think is the correct course of action.
Torax wrote...
Merrill's pride doesn't let her listen to anyone around her.
She does listen, even on rivalry if you have no faith in Merrill and refuse to support her goals, but she's following a path she believes will help save her people.
Torax wrote...
Not her entire tribe, all your companions and basically every person she's come across. I'd give her points for confidence but it's a fine line if you are willing to sacrifice everything you have and sacrifice destroying the lives of those around you.
She's not willing to destroy everyone and everything around her, because she's only risking her life when she deals with Audacity.
Torax wrote...
Blindly watching as everything falls apart by keeping your eyes shut to the problems around you. Keep your eyes shut while you fixate on a broken object that when you first knew of it actually doomed the lives of two of the very clan you claim to love.
An object that she thinks can help her people restore their lost civilization. It's no different than the Warden making the trek into the Frostback Mountains for the Urn of Sacred Ashes when there's the threat of a Blight looming over the nation of Ferelden.
Torax wrote...
It makes her lovable character have more depth and a kind of dark side. Merrill is a kind hearted character but she has a blind pride in two key parts of her life. The first is that she knows more than anyone without truly listening or trusting those around her.
Merrill never says she knows more than anyone else. She's following the path she believes to be right - which is something all the characters are guilty of. The Keeper Marethari does the same thing when she becomes an abomination and puts the entire clan at risk when there was no one close by to kill her the moment she become something other than a Dalish elf.
Torax wrote...
Lastly the pride that the Dalish are better than all other Elves.
Are we taking Fenris' accusation as fact now?
Torax wrote...
Maybe that is even more part of it. She'd be known as the one who fixed an Eluvian? Merrill the saviour of her Clan and of all Elves on Thedas? At least she is quick to admitt she doesn't understand outside cultures, even if she rarely considers them as they apply to her.
Merrill never says she'll be a savior to her people, but her focus is that she wants to save them, to help them, to restore the forgotten secrets of Arlathan. She's willing to use blood magic and lose everything and everyone she ever cared about in order to achieve this goal.