Funny this. The way I see it (over several playthroughs with both genders), Isabela is the only romance option Hawke *could* realistically be with based on how his/her character comes across when I play. Maybe that's partly down to the fact I can't resist making the odd quip. I've yet to have a totally po-faced run-through.
Merril and Anders are way too needy, as others have said, Hawke has enough responsibilities already. Fenris is just too prefjudiced and it would always be a road block at some point (not to mention a massive turn-off). Given that s/he comes from a family of apostates I can't see Hawke ever towing the Chantry line enough to get on with Sebastian.
Isabela, on the other hand, seems like a good complement. She's not an extremist one way or the other. She's not an extra pressure in his life, she's funny and would know how to have fun. I can imagine Hawke going for a drink with Isabela: a date in public with any of the others seems like a disaster waiting-to-happen. A lot of people are put off by the suggestion of an STD and the fact she supposedly gets around. Fair enough. Personally, I would judge that less harshly than consorting with demons, murder and bigotry.
Also, Isabela is the only one you can really influence for the better. Although she starts off selfish she comes back and does the right thing. Fenris never becomes well-adjusted and tolerant. Anders does what he does no matter what and Merril takes blood magic to its tragic end.
I concede that it's not the most romantic of relationships and could be better developed but I would say the same of all the romances in DA2 compared to Origins.
Modifié par freyafolk, 31 mars 2011 - 12:49 .