Godak wrote...
Volus Warlord wrote...
I've no idea what I would have done if I couldn't do that.
You had some pretty wimpy bullies!
Can't beat up half of them.
dark-lauron wrote...
Weeeell... I... was a bully. Technically.
But I am not really helpful, mainly due to the fact that I was in a small school (70 students). I myself never fought anyone, just had pleasure in crapping the hell out of people. It's a plus of my bigger stature. Why bullies do that? Well, I did what I did mainly because I was bored. I guess it's the same for everyone else. Add that to the general stupidity of youngsters and there you go.
Rose of Mars wrote...
I was bullied once (during a month). There was this big girl who liked to beat the other girls and I was the "choice of the month". Well, she bullied me indeed, untill one day she discovered I was carrying an iron pipe in my backpack. Yes, I was suspended, but I would gladly do it all over again.
Capt. Obvious wrote...
Did your teachers and/or guidance counsilors ever help you? My youngest brother is dealing with a bullying problem and according to him, his teachers act like everything is fine even when people are being verbally bullied right in front of them. I grew up pretty short and this was an issue for me back in grade school, especially when my teachers kept assuring "everything will be fine...don't worry...you'll get through it". Maybe it's because I was in containment classes for most of my time. They'll put you in with ANYBODY in those settings.
Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
No, they never helped me. I was bullied by a lot of students, and even TEACHERS, throughout most of my school years, from kindergarten to the eleventh grade. They used to call me all kinds of names, and do all kinds of crap to me
When it comes to being bullied, I have a lot of experience, and none of it is good.
KenKenpachi wrote...
Drake Sigar wrote...
Capt. Obvious wrote...
There are people that do defend for themselves and they get suspended.
Man, there were so many comments on this from teachers and parents which stated “he should have just walked away.” Is that what they’d do if someone was repeatedly punching them in the face? I doubt it.
Considering the crap I've seen some people just take up the ass, I wouldn't be surprised if they would.
But I think the main reason is most bullies I've seen fall into two groups.
Either they are from a family that causes trouble or are rich, and thus feel they can get away with anything, and for the most part they can, its just when someone pops them one, then the teachers worry. As this Family can cause trouble for them or the wealth might result in troubles. So Socially.
Then on the other hand they lack discipline of any sort, and the parents do as well. Often I've seen when such a kid gets whats coming the parents will screach at the school for letting there baby get hurt, he/she is a good kid and wouldn't hurt anyone. Or is just misunderstood and the other kid is as much at fault! My friend Mat was one of those, he did horrible things yet to his parents it was never his fault, it was always someone else that egged him to do it, which is a lie.
So normally they'll say that crap just to cover there own backside, though i've had some teachers that wouldn't do that.. Some would say your kid got what was coming, and didn't take kindly to threats. I remember one teacher in praticular told some gang kid that got in trouble that threaten to shoot him later to "You you go do that, I got a gun in my glove box and rifles at home, and I bet your ass I'm the better shot, so just try it punk." Alot of the older male teachers were that way actully.Heh tell me about it, anyone remember that girl that was gang raped in a school ball field in clear view last summer? Think it was in some subsection of LA or Berkly... Something like 300 people went by and didn't do ****. But when the rapers most of whom were hispanic were charged it turned into a race riot almost.vometia wrote...
What's really irritating is that they get away with it, too: where were those with the sympathetic ear when their victims asked for help?
I think somewhere in a number of humans they like seeing those who may have more, or they have some just general slight for, love seeing them hurt, but won't admit it. You brought back the gladiator games, and you'll see THOUSANDS of comments on it being evil etc. But I'ld bet the shirt on my back, it would be the number one watched show in the world.
Blood-Lord Thanatos wrote...
[We could summon the Bloodthirster! and gangers would have something better to do than cause trouble for the police.
KenKenpachi wrote...
Blood-Lord Thanatos wrote...
[We could summon the Bloodthirster! and gangers would have something better to do than cause trouble for the police.
What in the hell does a gangbang (by that I ment a girl being RAPED by 15+ guys) have to do with gangs and the police?
KenKenpachi wrote...
Hmm I know a guy that happend too actully.
And pft Mar there is a thrid option, be the Bully of the Bullies lulz.
marbatico wrote...
what can i say. thats a part of school. you're either the bully or you get bullied.
Modifié par Ramirez Wolfen, 31 mars 2011 - 06:33 .
Modifié par KenKenpachi, 31 mars 2011 - 06:41 .
Volus Warlord wrote...
I'd get one to screw off and have to deal with three more. I had a class of like 400 people.
' still glad I did though.
Modifié par boomgosthedino, 31 mars 2011 - 09:18 .
boomgosthedino wrote...
I never have been bullied. But I did stand up to someone who was. I think it was 10th grad when me and my friends was eating lunch when this kid called 50 walked to are table and sate down. Now 50 was the schools Esc kid real nice guy and very funny even if he was not all there. But these ****s thought it would be funny to throw their lunch at him and call him pretty hurtful names. You could tell he was pretty upset but would not stand up for himself and no one did anything at all. So I was already pissed off at the time then they pissed me off by doing that to the por kid along with none one else doing **** or saying thing. So I just got up walked over to their table with my lunch tray and slung my lunch over the two ****s and then followed threw with beating them both with the tray. Of course I'm the one who gets expelled
Ramirez Wolfen wrote...
marbatico wrote...
what can i say. thats a part of school. you're either the bully or you get bullied.
So getting verbally harassed, stabbed with ****ing pencils, textbooks thrown in a damn ditch, teachers joining in on the abuse, parents abusing me, and feeling the need to carry a firearm to school because I'm too afraid of what will happen if I don't is just PART of school?
THAT'S IT? I'm just supposed to take it like it's a part of life?
DO YOU HONESTLY KNOW WHAT THE **** I'VE BEEN THROUGH?
It's HORRIBLE, and even though I graduated a year ago, I am still haunted by all those years. Hell, I'm a damn recluse now and I only socialize here on the Internet, because you can't see me. It's because I think everyone's out to get me or they are going to make fun of me, which has happened many times.
But what I'm trying to say here is this: DON'T EVER SAY THA T IT'S JUST A "PART" OF SCHOOL.
You have NO idea what I go through, EVERYDAY.
Modifié par Gisle Aune, 01 avril 2011 - 05:27 .
Volus Warlord wrote...
saMOOrai182 wrote...
Volus Warlord wrote...
randumb vanguard wrote...
I'm with SaM here, fighting only makes things worse for all involved.saMOOrai182 wrote...
C9316 wrote...
You know what? Your brother should just fight this bully. Schools will only do something when a fight breaks out. Trust me, it happened to me in middle school. Your brother might get in trouble (which is BS) but at least something will change.
Fights happen all the time at my school. Nothing Changes. :/
I'm sorry, but you should take talk like that to a backwater hippie commune where such idiocy belongs.
not Getting into a fight where his brother can get seriously hurt is idiotic?
Cmon now. Seriously hurt? Unless he has osteoporosis or something along those lines that is very doubtful.
In all seriousness, what else can he do? Ask assistance from the teachers? Won't help. Ask them nicely to stop? Yeah, right.
The only forseeable way out of this is for him to stand up for himself. If he does not learn now, he never will. And then he will continue to be a weak little incompetant his entire life. Is that worth saving a few bruises?
Modifié par Alexine, 01 avril 2011 - 07:15 .
So what? What I did was wrong and stupid I admit it, but I can't go back. I am not defending myself either because you're right. At least partially. And you have any idea of what it means bullying in a school of SEVENTY students? 20 teachers, 70 students. It was more of a psychological war to be the "coolest" as the idiots in my class would put it. Everyone was a bully in that school and those that weren't, were not bullied. What I did was scare people a bit, but NOT out of boredom. I just stated that most bullies do that. I did not. And what people did to make me bully? Well, they pretty much lowered my self esteem to zero, put a bad word of me to the teachers so that I should do every exam at least TWICE to pass it and so on.Rose of Mars wrote...
So... because you were 'bored' you felt entitled to turn someone's life into hell? Wow man... congratulations on being an idiot.
I love when people try to fool others into thinking they "used to be" bullies in school, like trying to convince someone that things are better now. Well sherlock, try to locate one of the people YOU bullied and see if their lives are good now. They are probably mentally scarred people who can't get a nice job and are full of fears because some moron was "bored" in school. Bullied people will remember you FOREVER.<_<
Too bad we can't see anymore what I saw in my school once: There was this "big" guy who liked to bully kids, untill one day one of the smaller kids hit him with a brick from behind. Y'know, watching that monster tumbling down like a tree face first on the concrete was one of the biggest laughs I had in school.
I was bullied once (during a month). There was this big girl who liked to beat the other girls and I was the "choice of the month". Well, she bullied me indeed, untill one day she discovered I was carrying an iron pipe in my backpack. Yes, I was suspended, but I would gladly do it all over again.
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