Kartikeya wrote...
A better analogy, but still very flawed, is that Merrill decided to go play in traffic, and Marethari got hit by a truck trying to get her out of the way. Would she have been hit by that truck? Would she have been hit by another car? Would she have been perfectly fine if Marethari did nothing? We don't know. I object to the assumption that because we don't know, we should assume Merrill is correct and Marethari is wrong.
And I object to the assumption that because we don't know, we should assume that Marethari is correct and Merrill is wrong.
Boiling it down to 'Marethari is just stupid, the Dalish are just crazy, and Merrill had good intentions and anything bad that happens in reaction to what she does despite all warnings that something bad was going to happen are just these things that happen in a void because people are stupid and ignorant' is ignoring the entire point of the tragedy.
And boiling it down to "Merrill is stupid, heartless, naive, arrogant, and completely to blame for Marethari deciding to become an abomination (which was the best possible course of action), and also to blame for her clan deciding down to every last person to try to kill her" also ignores the point of the tragedy. The tragedy is that Marethari and Merrill are
both stubborn and refuse to consider the other person's point of view, and the clan takes Marethari's argument so to heart that they see Merrill as a
greater threat than any demon or monster. Marethari refuses to believe that Merrill can handle the risks, even
with help, and so
refuses that help without any kind of explanation. She then warns the clan so strenuously that they will run from a non-threatening Merrill into mortal danger. Her refusal to believe that what Merrill wants to accomplish is possible goes so far that
she triggers the very tragedy she wants to prevent and then some. Merrill stubbornly refuses to give up repairing the Eluvian despite the fact that it isolates her from the very people she's trying to help and believes that it may well kill her in the process.
Marethari and Merrill are both full of Pride and hubris, and that is the cause of this tragedy surrounding a demon of, fittingly enough, pride. If Marethari had been willing to offer a better explanation instead of simply telling Merrill "It's better left buried," would Merrill have listened? If Merrill had looked for another way to fix the Eluvian besides dealing with demons and blood magic, would Marethari have consented to help her? That's not how the story worked out, that's not who those characters are/were.
I'm willing to admit Merrill's pride. I'm willing to admit that Merrill is too willing to deal with demons and too unwilling to break deals with them. What I'm not willing to do is blame
Merrill for
Marethari's hubris. Marethari is the one who choose to definitely become an abomination as opposed to risking the possibility. And Marethari is the one who poisoned the clan towards Merrill to the point that they see a misguided youth as capable of any evil without any other evidence. Think about it, do we have
any evidence that Merrill has
ever hurt a member of her clan? That she has used one of their blood for her magic, or summoned a demon into the camp who then went on a rampage? She has engaged in risky behavior to be sure, but has that actually hurt the clan in any way? I can't even think of an instance of her using
harsh language at them, much less physical or supernatural violence. And yet, based purely on Marethari's say-so, they were willing to make her a pariah, Pol was willing to run into mortal danger, and they were willing to fight to the last person to try to kill her. I'm not willing to blame Merrill for that either.