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[CodeMyster]

ok so here's something interesting, i found a message from her back in janurary, she was still with her ex then. it was about her trying to hooking me up with her best friend that lives with her. i told her about the other day and just asking her bout it while we were texting each other the convo went like this:

Me: hey did you read that message I was talking bout the one from january?

Her : 

Me: i found it funny cus you were trying to hook me up with her but i think fate had other things in mind

Her:   me too lol

Me:  

Her: 

Modifié par CodeMyster, 03 avril 2011 - 02:30 .

[MajorStranger]

(walk back slowly...)

[Druss99]

Your trying to look for signs and convince yourself its going to work when the signs are pretty big that its not going to work. Personally I think her putting that message on her facebook where you could see it is kind of a b*tchy thing to do and shows that she cares more about liking him than possibly hurting you.

Your going to drive yourself nuts going over every tiny detail like that too and analysing everything she said. Plus doing it all on here may leave you cringing later when your over it and looking back.

[DinoCrisisFan]

OP, you should be glad you atleast get to talk to her once every few days. I'm lucky if I get to talk to my girl once a week.

[KenKenpachi]

Dude none of us can offer any advice that will help or that you'll listen too. All I can say and I'll leave it at that is, to me it seems you have two things that can happen you should prepair for, you either get the girl, or you don't.

But till she gets over him, you will never, ever, be her special person. She openly admits to having feelings for him still, your in a nasty triangle here. Maybe things will change maybe they won't. But really your end of the deal is done, its in her hands. and really theres no...good way to deal with this.

We suggest something criminal, you may go to jail, or she hates you.

We suggest you just tell her that flat, it may blow up in your face.

I can't think of much else we can say or do that will help. She has free will, thats the greatest curse and the greatest gift of mankind. You can't do anything to make her love you. You can try, but in the end it will go baddly for both of you. And texting isn't that meaningful, unless yall actully call and speak when not on dates there ain't no telling what shes doing. Then again maybe all it needs is time...when it comes to things like this I doubt anyone on this earth much less this forum can tell you 100% how it will go, how it will end.

Your barking up the wrong tree. It is best to keep an amount of detachment in all things. And to think of any eventuality and mentally prepair for it. If you truely love something then do not depend on it as the air you need. For all things come to an end and at times true love is being able to let go. I'm sure that statement won't make any sense to most...

Modifié par KenKenpachi, 03 avril 2011 - 02:54 .

[CodeMyster]

I know it may never work out, and I know it could. Besides better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I'm a hopeless romantic, I know, but she likes that about me. Will it work out, I truly don't know, but I can hope and just see where things go.

[CodeMyster]

and yes i know in the end what happens is up to us, i'm just was curious of what others think is all

[DinoCrisisFan]

CodeMyster, do you know what I find funny about this whole situation? It sounds like the situation I've been in with EVERY SINGLE GIRL I'VE EVER LIKED

[CodeMyster]

DinoCrisisFan wrote...

CodeMyster, do you know what I find funny about this whole situation? It sounds like the situation I've been in with EVERY SINGLE GIRL I'VE EVER LIKED

lol join the club, maybe we'll make a group hehe:P

[Pacifien]

Hey. You don't know me and I don't know you, and I really have no interest in your love life. But I'll give you this advice anyway, and it's just general life advice: be wary of posting conversations you've had with people up on the internet.

[CodeMyster]

Pacifien wrote...

Hey. You don't know me and I don't know you, and I really have no interest in your love life. But I'll give you this advice anyway, and it's just general life advice: be wary of posting conversations you've had with people up on the internet.

yeah i know that exactly why ive never given my name her name or any specifics just the general details:)

[DinoCrisisFan]

Pacifien speaks, now somebody do it!

[CodeMyster]

Here's a bit of advice from my dear old step dad.

"If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back hunt it down and kill it."

lmao:lol:

[Godak]

CodeMyster wrote...

"If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back hunt it down and kill it."

What a charming fellow.

[Travie]

Have you considered murder?

[smecky-kitteh]

MajorStranger wrote...

Sorry mate but I think you'll only be the rebound guy.

[_Somebody]

smecky-kitteh wrote...

MajorStranger wrote...

Sorry mate but I think you'll only be the rebound guy.