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[MajorStranger]

Read and cry.

[CodeMyster]

MajorStranger wrote...

Read and cry.

Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

Modifié par CodeMyster, 06 avril 2011 - 04:12 .

[Godak]

CodeMyster wrote...


Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

1. Well, considering that...

2. ...You say right here that she has explicitly told you that she is not over her ex means that, yes, YOU HAVE TALKED ABOUT HER EX. Actually, that kind of sounds like she's putting up some emotional and relational barriers.

3. Judging from your text messages, you aren't exactly connecting on an intellectual level. Kissing is probably the easiest romantic gesture to do a lot of.

4. Yes, but how did she introduce you?

[Milana_Saros]

MajorStranger wrote...

Read and cry.

Cos' some internet article about relationships is automatically spot on?

CodeMyster wrote...
Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

That actually doesn't sound so bad. Still, being a tad cautious is not a bad thing but you're obviously aware of that. If she seems to be willing to invest fully on a relationship you two could have then I see no reason why you shouldn't pursue it. As long as you both stay honest about how you feel and don't leave each other in the shade during harder times.

[Godak]

Milana_Saros wrote...

Cos' some internet article about relationships is automatically spot on?

It really is pretty spot on. Is it the bible of relationship advice? By no means. Is it a good jumping off point? Yes.

[Milana_Saros]

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Cos' some internet article about relationships is automatically spot on?

It really is pretty spot on. Is it the bible of relationship advice? By no means. Is it a good jumping off point? Yes.

Meh, perhaps. I just find it a tad amusing that someone should asess his love-life situation based on a web article...especially since the page isn't even very well built. I prefer to judge situations and people, not concepts. Talking about the ex all the time is obviously a bad sign but mentioning him and saying you're hurting because of a past relationship is only being open and honest. Letting go of it is an entirely different matter...only time will solve it I guess.

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

[CodeMyster]

Milana_Saros wrote...

MajorStranger wrote...

Read and cry.

Cos' some internet article about relationships is automatically spot on?

CodeMyster wrote...
Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

That actually doesn't sound so bad. Still, being a tad cautious is not a bad thing but you're obviously aware of that. If she seems to be willing to invest fully on a relationship you two could have then I see no reason why you shouldn't pursue it. As long as you both stay honest about how you feel and don't leave each other in the shade during harder times.

Yeah, like I said its different for everybody, for me im an understanding guy she told me how she felt and it was understandable cus they had dated for 2 years, and i can imagine thats hard to get over. But the important thing is she was honest with me because she really likse me. And im not one to drop her like a bad habit just for that.

[Godak]

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

[CodeMyster]

Ivandra Ceruden wrote...

Is this topic still alive??? Wow...

lol i guess my love life is interestingB)

[CodeMyster]

Ivandra Ceruden wrote...

Nah, I'm just amazed that such a topic is still alive...I'd expected it to have been hit by a mighty ban hammer from one of the mods by now...

Haven't given them a reason to yet made sure that its stayed on track and this is the Off Topic section lol

[Volus Warlord]

CodeMyster wrote...

MajorStranger wrote...

Read and cry.

Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

She's just throwing you a bone to be her lap dog while she figures out how to get her ex back, or get someone who is much better than you (at least in her opinion).

Your relationship is already built upon a cracked foundation-that is, her failed relationship with her ex. Any weight, any shake-up or storm will inevitably lead to catrostrophic failure, killing the hearts of those inside, namely yours. Since her ex is the reason you two are together, when she gets over her ex, she will get over you. Period!

As per her ex being far away, that may be a bad thing. She may romanticize the time they spent together in his absence, and forget about the times when he *exagurration, hopefully* gave her stiches. Then , when she sees him again, she will just about pounce on him leaving you in the dust.

Just nail her, or have an occasion that is simply a crazy amount of fun, and maybe she might romanticize your relationship with the next rebound guy:D.

[Milana_Saros]

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

ROFL awesome evening read, thank you

[KenKenpachi]

Milana_Saros wrote...

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

ROFL awesome evening read, thank you

I just read that...if a "woman" really wrote that I feel a strange mix of pitty and disgust. Wonder what would happen if you replaced man and woman and put that same thing in a mens magazine......ahh the US and its double standard ways...

Modifié par KenKenpachi, 06 avril 2011 - 07:12 .

[Milana_Saros]

KenKenpachi wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

ROFL awesome evening read, thank you

I just read that...if a "woman" really wrote that I feel a strange mix of pitty and disgust.

Is there something I'm missing? Cos' the article is obviously a sarcastic joke and as an ex-reader of Cosmo, I can say that those things don't even fall too far from the tree.

[KenKenpachi]

Nah acording to the the artical that was actully in a magazine, s/he was making jabs and fun of it. I just find it funny if I went... I'm speaking of the one who wrote the real document not the person making fun of it.

Your woman is dressing nice, it means shes cheating on you kick her in the crotch I'm sure some feminist movement would be beating my door down to burn me at the stake.

Kinda like if a man admits to liking a teen you'll see NBC kicking there door in, yet women have lined up to the twilight films with signs asking the ators to screw em. yet peeps is all you hear about that.

Modifié par KenKenpachi, 06 avril 2011 - 07:38 .

[Godak]

Milana_Saros wrote...

KenKenpachi wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

ROFL awesome evening read, thank you

I just read that...if a "woman" really wrote that I feel a strange mix of pitty and disgust.

Is there something I'm missing? Cos' the article is obviously a sarcastic joke and as an ex-reader of Cosmo, I can say that those things don't even fall too far from the tree.

They are making fun of actual Cosmo articles.

Modifié par Godak, 06 avril 2011 - 09:22 .

[Volus Warlord]

Ivandra Ceruden wrote...

@Volus Warlord: you truly ARE a pessimist, eh? XD

Me? Pessimist? Bah!

[CodeMyster]

She posted this on her facebook today. I know its quoted from a Disney movie, she's a disney freak, i was talking with her bout it and she said she meant every word of it. So things are getting better and better

And at last ive seen the light, and its like the fog has lifted. At last ive seen the light and its like the sky is new! Now that I have you ♥

[MajorStranger]

Yep, that's from Tangled. Who doesn't love Disney movies?

[Milana_Saros]

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

KenKenpachi wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Godak wrote...

Milana_Saros wrote...

Maybe I read too much Cosmopolitan-nonsense as a teenager. Love-life articles tend to ****** me off

Too much Cosmo is the only type of Cosmo.

ROFL awesome evening read, thank you

I just read that...if a "woman" really wrote that I feel a strange mix of pitty and disgust.

Is there something I'm missing? Cos' the article is obviously a sarcastic joke and as an ex-reader of Cosmo, I can say that those things don't even fall too far from the tree.

They are making fun of actual Cosmo articles.

Yeah I figured but damn...didn't think the real articles would really be THAT bad. Apparently they are these days

[DinoCrisisFan]

CodeMyster wrote...

MajorStranger wrote...

Read and cry.

Sign #1  We talk about everything but her ex.

Sign #2 She told told me from the get go that she's was not completely over her ex. She was honest to me about it cus she does like me and does want to get to know me.

Sign #3 The only physical factor is that we are attracted to each other and like to kiss each other. We have not gone any further than that and she not that kind of girl.

Sign #4 I've met her family and she's met my mom, she like's my mom.

As I said before thanks to what others have said to me on this forum, just because it may have been the case for others does not mean it will be the same for me.

Good luck.