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[CodeMyster]

Had a awesome time with her yesterday, ate breakfast with her at Denny's. She had an interview later so we went to her grandpa's so she could change into her interview outfit:P. She was hot to trot in that outfit. The whole time we were together we couldn't keep our hands off of each other lolB).

Modifié par CodeMyster, 08 avril 2011 - 09:03 .

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

This is not a good sign, youngling. you are not yet fully consumed by Desire, and your Pride is too large to manage. Abandon all hope, ye who defies the gods of Logic and Reason.

[CodeMyster]

I'm not a very prideful person im still amazed that she would be interested in me, cus i didnt think i was that interesting of a person, but apparently she does. And as far as desires go, I'll admit they're there I'd only be fooling myself to think otherwise. But I've been raised better than that and I won't let things get out of hand.

[The Narrator]

Volus Warlord wrote...

CodeMyster wrote...

I can't help how I feel

Yes you can.

The answer: Indifference. Tell her you do not care.

Then she may express whether or not she cares about you rather than using you as a grief dummy.

no he cant.

good luck with this, dont become a stalker, hope this works out best for you, if its not meant to be its not meant to be.

[Volus Warlord]

The Narrator wrote...

Volus Warlord wrote...

CodeMyster wrote...

I can't help how I feel

Yes you can.

The answer: Indifference. Tell her you do not care.

Then she may express whether or not she cares about you rather than using you as a grief dummy.

no he cant.

good luck with this, dont become a stalker, hope this works out best for you, if its not meant to be its not meant to be.

Yes he can. To be controlled by instinct and emotion is to be a senseless dog forever. Control your emotions; when they make you stronger express them, when they make you weaker suppress them.

You can control the way you feel, more than you may know. Saying the opposite is self-deception fed by the lies of ruthless idealism.   Your passions can make you and your relationship strong, or they can be the undoing of both.  Know when to show them and when not to.

[CodeMyster]

When you try to control your emotions, you do so by rejecting and repressing them. It’s like putting a cap over a pot of boiling water and pretending the water isn’t boiling.

[Volus Warlord]

CodeMyster wrote...

When you try to control your emotions, you do so by rejecting and repressing them. It’s like putting a cap over a pot of boiling water and pretending the water isn’t boiling.

Trying to make your emotions readily apparent to everyone without expecting negative repurcussions is like pouring gas on a fire and wondering why it got hotter.

[Godak]

C'mon. Everyone controls their emotions to some extent. If you get angry and just start throwing punches at stuff, you need to grow yourself some self-control.

[CodeMyster]

Aright read this www.peopleskillsdecoded.com/stop-trying-to-control-your-emotions/
That where I got that from and I agree with it 100%

[DinoCrisisFan]

CodeMyster wrote...

Had a awesome time with her yesterday, ate breakfast with her at Denny's. She had an interview later so we went to her grandpa's so she could change into her interview outfit:P. She was hot to trot in that outfit. The whole time we were together we couldn't keep our hands off of each other lolB).

Aww 

[Godak]

CodeMyster wrote...

That where I got that from and I agree with it 100%

Oh, come on...

" Imagine one of our ancestors in the Stone Age who is attacked by a
hungry bear, feels fear and has the impulse to run like hell.
But then, he decides: “Hey, I’m gonna control my fear and try to negotiate with this bear.”"

1. Running from the bear will incite it to chase you. Controlling your fear and backing away slowly in a deliberate manner is your best choice.

2. He then tries to say that there is a difference between managing and controlling (they are SYNONYMS).

3. The dude is full of himself, and offers no research to back up his claims.

[KenKenpachi]

Pft lies your best option is to grab a spear and strike that bear down and mount it in your viking longhouse. >>

[Volus Warlord]

CodeMyster wrote...

Aright read this www.peopleskillsdecoded.com/stop-trying-to-control-your-emotions/
That where I got that from and I agree with it 100%

And that is a bunch of feel-goody bull****. It'll get you real far:).


Is she back with her ex yet btw?

[CodeMyster]

Some of yall are very negative people, must of got burned really bad in previous relationships.

[Godak]

CodeMyster wrote...

Some of yall are very negative people, must of got burned really bad in previous relationships.

Or we've seen friends get burned after we gave them similar advice. Maybe, just maybe, someone will listen one day...

[marbatico]

i've got 2 things to say:

1:why the hell would you put all of this on the interwebz?

2:nice catch mate!

[CodeMyster]

marbatico wrote...

i've got 2 things to say:

1:why the hell would you put all of this on the interwebz?

2:nice catch mate!

1. Cus i love these forums and its not like she'll ever see it.

2. Thanks she's a nice girl very beautiful, and despite what the naysayers say she really does care for me.

[RinaB]

Is this the Densha Otoko (Train Man) of Bioware forums? haha

[Volus Warlord]

Godak wrote...

CodeMyster wrote...

Some of yall are very negative people, must of got burned really bad in previous relationships.

Or we've seen friends get burned after we gave them similar advice. Maybe, just maybe, someone will listen one day...

Indeed.

Ok, since you are going for the long haul, these are some things that could be threats to your relationship. Do your homework and be prepared.

1.) What of her friends...
        a.) Do they not hate you? This can lead to serious sabotage.
        b.) Do they like you? Also can lead to sabotage.  Some minor competition can have positive effects though.
        c.) Are they garbage? The garbageness can rub off and damn your relationship.
Real life example: A good friend of mine started dating a girl I knew. She seemed to be a decent person, was friendly, and had even been at my church on a few occasions. For some time, everything seemed to be going smoothly. However, I later found out that the girl's best friend was a textbook crack****. Liar, cheat, substance abuser, manipulator-you name it. You should know what I mean. Worse even, the girl would ask for advice a lot... she was not the strong willed type. Needless to say, their relationship fell due to the garbage influence. My friend and the girl broke up after he discovered she was giving something extra for a promotion:whistle:. He hasn't been the same since. And that was years ago.

2.) What of her family...
     a.) Parents? If they are divorced that is not good.  In some instances it means almost nothing, in others it means a crapton, and that crapton will generally not be in your favor.
     b.) Brothers and sisters if applicable? Crappy relationship history/questionable motives/blatant trampdom/damaging vices can rub off on your "precious."
Blood runs thicker than water. That sums it up.

Good luck,  oh naive one.

[CodeMyster]

Nope, nope, and nope, she a good girl, the last boyfriend I've known him since I was a kid, he a nice guy, but he made the mistake of letting her go. I haven't really met any of her friend's yet. Her mom hasn't really been the best of moms. She had to raise her little sister like her own. Her mom pays the bills but that's about all she does. Now that's not to say her mom is a bad person it's just that she's been more responsible than her mom. She's an overall nice girl and better yet I can trust her, and things are going good. But doubters will doubt.

[FreezaSama]

Okay, why is this a thread, and why does TC have a 6200k avatar?

[CodeMyster]

Yeah I just want helpful advice, just tired of ppl saying oh she gonna get back with her ex or oh she just using you as the rebound guy. Its not like that with me and her.

Modifié par CodeMyster, 11 avril 2011 - 10:59 .

[Godak]

CodeMyster wrote...

Yeah I just want helpful advice, just tried of ppl saying oh she gonna get back with your ex or oh she just using you as the rebound guy.

...And you never thought that there just might be a connection if that's the advice you're being given?