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[Dominus]

If you're a bioware fan, you probably like getting to know people. Hopefully you'll get the chance to form stronger connections as well. Even for us singles, the potential for love is still out there. So what kind of person would you look for in a soulmate? Shy and sweet, or loud and proud?

If you're already with a boyfriend, girlfriend, or assorted alien species, feel free to describe them as well. Who knows, you may just find the LI of your dreams on the BSN. <3 Or just find trolls or something. Either way it'll be a hoot.

With that said... let the lovin begin. 

Modifié par DominusVita, 08 avril 2011 - 11:17 .

[FlintlockJazz]

My ideal mate is very dominant except when I don't want her to be, super strong and can carry me about on her shoulders but is only 5 foot tall, wields a claymore, is easy to bed and cheap but also been saving herself for me, drinks beer like a man and doesn't care for messiness but will clean up after me and make my dinner, wears chainmail and shouts at people when they disagree with her except for me of course who she will take the word of everytime, etc etc bored now.

I'm not very picky or demanding I know.

[vometia]

At the risk of sounding corny, my other half, who plies me with coffee and is (almost) as enthusiastic about our sword collection.

[Ponce de Leon]

... did I hear sword collection? *is weapon collector*

Mmm... my ideal mate. Possibly :
1) someone with brown hair
2) with intense eyesight
3) with a sense of humor that understand my jokes
4) a non smoker.

That's all I ask. Nothing physical, no sexy, just someone that understands my strange humor.... but alas, such a girl is not existent on this planet.

[Nattfare]

I don't know... but if she would be able to put up with me we'd be going in the right direction..

[Milana_Saros]

I just found out that my other half had eaten my salted cookies I was supposed to enjoy with some nice pepperoni after work *shakes fist*

Don't really have any ideals anymore...as long as one keeps looking for ideal mate, s/he will never be happy with the one s/he is with now. Edit: LOL than can sound a bit bad, what I mean is that no one is perfect

My fiancé has a very similar sense of humor than what I do, he accepts me as who I am, he gives me space, he is calm which is a great balance considering that I'm rarely very calm myself. He also likes animals which is a huge deal for me.

I could never EVER be with someone who doesn't understand my love and affection for my cats and the emotional connection I feel towards animals in general. I often prefer the company of wildlife or my pet cats to a pile of "human friends". Every pet has their own personality, own life and their own place in my heart. If you can't understand the fact that I can mourn a pet's passing for months, even years, then GTFO.

Modifié par Milana_Saros, 08 avril 2011 - 01:34 .

[vometia]

Milana_Saros wrote...

I just found out that my other half had eaten my salted cookies I was supposed to enjoy with some nice pepperoni after work *shakes fist*

That's unforgiveable!  You should trade him in for a new one.

[Godak]

I'll know her when I see her!

...And by "see her" I mean "take copious amounts of time to see if our personalities mesh in an acceptable manner".

Modifié par Godak, 08 avril 2011 - 01:37 .

[Gyrannon]

Somewhat unsure about specifics here for I do not even know myself. But I guess I'll give this a try, for the forum anyways...

Generally, I'll go for any woman - race, body type, chest, butt, hair, eyes, disabilities or not, (except height, too tall women strangely intimidate me, dunno why) whatever it is I usually don't care about because of the obvious fact; the outside is not them, the inside (personality) is them, and most want to be loved for who they rather than how beautiful they are. It's the most basic truth I've lived by ever since I truly understood the meaning of relationship & commitment (after I turned 22).
So naturally, I avoid the ones that expect the unrealistic/unreasonable, have no respect for others, do not care about other people's feelings (be it anger, sorrow, or love), the one night standers, the cheaters, the abusers (met some in the past & thought I could handle it), the non monogomous (dunno if I spelled that right, feel free to correct), the ones that are not ready for commitment, and the super random (met a few, they're over expressive an highly impulsive; too erratic for my taste).
If i the woman is generally a good person with only a couplefew or less issues, then I'll give her a chance, an will usually give it my all to make it work out - But on a side note, I rarely treat every woman the same, dunno why, guess it just depends on my initial impression or vibe I get from her, thats my guess anyways.

But as a soulmate? Well, I don't wanna seem picky or too shallow, but this is what I can guess my soulmate would be (note that this just a guess an that I could be wrong on most or some of it):
My height (6' 2"), average weight (180 to 215), eyes don't matter, Caucasion/Asian, muscles don't matter, hair doesn't matter, and experienced (not a virgin).
For beliefs - Wiccan, Necromancy (Any), Pagan, Spiritism/spiritualism, buddhist, or agnostic. for the ones that involve a "one god": as long as they have an open mind, respects mine as I will hers, not try to convert me as I will do the same, and do not expect me to be of that belief just to gain any form of relationship with her.
For personality an other stuff - self-less, more of a giver than a taker, willing to help those that need it (ex. help the homeless with food or clothes or some form of help, an yes I do that as much as I can), at least knows how to defend herself (I tend to worry if she doesn't know how), caring, kind, respectful, if she drinks alchohol I rather that it be a rare occasion, if she smokes (ciggs) I'd want her to respect others if they on't like smoke around them & that she doesn't smoke around kids (I always steer clear of kds when I'm smoking as I don't want to be the reason or cause of them getting asthma, plus I think its immoral to smoke around a kid), if she is 420 friendly (does it or not, but doesn't expect other people to do it an is respectful about where she does it), understands that all men an women are different an doesn't judge people based on people she has met in the past (as I think that way as well), does not do any other drugs than the ones I specified (be it rare or often, I stay away from people who do those drugs regardless of good qualities if any), knows how to speak calmly an handle bad emotions when dispute(s) of any form has emerged, knows that she doesn't have to be jealous in any way as I only want one woman an would never exclude her from anything, honest to herself an others (small lies are ok tho), isn't afraid to speak her mind an tell me how she is feeling, is cool with games (any), likes to travel or explore, likes to cuddle, isn't afraid of public affection (however knows when its appropriate an when it's not about certain forms of it), like to make out as much as I do (long hours of it), adventurous (both outside an inside), and is willing to share herself with me as I will for her (any number of things, be activities, hobbies/interests, goals in life, and talents).

This is the best possible way I could describe my soulmate, but of course their could be more as I do not fully know myself, what I like an don't like, and that this is my best guess for a woman that could be my soul mate or woman of my dreams - but chances of meeting someone as described above is pretty slim at best and the chance of this person being in a different country or state is pretty high.
Again, it is just my personal guess - I do not have a 100% certainty that the above is my soulmate type/desire.

For the most part, I usually go with women that will meet a couple of the above. the only thing I won't list (because I know that is extremely rare an would be an extremely lucky find) is if she knew exactly what I am thinking an vice versa - mostly I'm being realistic an reasonable as I really do not expect her to possess a certain object to date me (as some people expect a car, a job - but understandable, a house or appartment to themselves, or expect the date in question to be apart of a certain political party - most of which I see as unreasonable or at the very least, not ready for an actual relationship).

Modifié par Gyrannon, 08 avril 2011 - 01:43 .

[Deathwurm]

Ideally, for me if it could be anyone it would be Tina Fey...if not her then a woman as smart, funny, and attractive.

[Drake Sigar]

I want her to be spontaneous, but only when I’m expecting it.

[Moondoggie]

I guess my partner is my ideal mate since we've been together for several years and never broken up in that time. We can always solve our disagreements and found that happy medium between time together nad time apart though most of our time together these days involves sitting next to each other on our laptops doing some work.

It's funny how it worked out because she wasn't exactly my type when we met nor the type of person i really imagined spending my life with. I think i imagined finding some blue eyed blonde with piercings and a cool fashion sense and all eco friendly and hippie-ish. Something along those lines and before we got together i had known her for an entire year though we had never had the chance to spend an entire evening together alone before so i rarely spoke to her she was just one of my friends classmates. Totally the oppersite of my type dark brown hair,Blue eyes and tall (around 5'9 or 5'10) and me being only 5'2 usually avoided very tall women since i hate to feel small. And god she had no fashion sense XD

She was coming along with my friend and i to see a movie and my friend had to cancel for some reason i can't quite remember. But anyways i wanted to see the movie but didn't want to go alone so invited her along even though i didn't really care she was there just because i didn't want to go to the cinema alone like a loser (Yes i know i'm so shallow ^-~^ And we got there pretty early so went to sit in the coffee place for a drink before the movie started and we started talking and somehow just hit it off and i realised i had a lot in common with her. We saw the movie and went out afterwards since we were enjoying talking and later on i ended up going back to her flat (apartment for you Americans) and we just stayed up all night talking.

After that we spent more time together and started dating. I guess it's funny sometimes your ideal mate isn't what you imagined they would be. I think soulmates are not always what you expect and even if you don't initially find somebody that attractive their personality can win you over to a point where you find who they are more intoxicating than any ammount of ideal looks.

[weedyfun]

Hah! found mine
she's my best friend and lover and and and..... my mother doesn't like her though...

[Seagloom]

No such thing. I used think there was a soul mate out there, but experience has taught me there are no guarantees or ideal matches. No matter how wonderful someone seems, we are both destined to make adjustments for the other's sake. If there is such a thing as an ideal mate, it would be someone I usually enjoy spending time with while we are together; and do not regret having met when we separate. That is all I dare hope for these days.

[Travie]

Someone who talks a lot, because I like listening.

ummmmm also liking games is a plus of course .

I guess I'm not that picky.

[Gyrannon]

weedyfun wrote...

Hah! found mine
she's my best friend and lover and and and..... my mother doesn't like her though...

In time she will learn to like her, but you could always ask "If you can't accept her, how can you so easily accept me?" Worked on my parent, gave her a chance an before I knew it they became good friends - asking a meaningful question can do wonders

[weedyfun]

Gyrannon wrote...

weedyfun wrote...

Hah! found mine
she's my best friend and lover and and and..... my mother doesn't like her though...

In time she will learn to like her, but you could always ask "If you can't accept her, how can you so easily accept me?" Worked on my parent, gave her a chance an before I knew it they became good friends - asking a meaningful question can do wonders

I f_cking hope so! 

[Nightodie]

Someone who loves me, for me.

[DinoCrisisFan]

A girl I know named Cheyanne.

[Dominus]

Well, time to throw my own in.

The ideal woman would be someone who had both a light and dark personality like myself - a good sense of humor, but a growling hunger for the sinister. It would certainly be 'ideal' for her to have an interest in the video game world, preferably not ones beginning with the words Mario or Farm. An interest in either classical, or metal would be fantastic. No real preference physically, though I admit I have a thing for long, dark curly hair.

Too bad she doesn't exist.