Fieryeel wrote...
Merrill understands deep down that you denying her the Arulin'home was also your way of protecting her.
She doesn't agree with you, she even hates you, but she does acknowledge you do it to protect her, and she respects and even comes to love you for it.
You know, it would be so much better - and actually make sense - if there were TWO meters.
One is for Friendship / dislike, the other for agreeing or disagreeing with their worldview.
Let´s use Merrill as example:
Refusing her quest nets you "differring opinions" points.
Then you talk about WHY you refused to help her. If you explain that you worry for her and want to protect her from herself, you can gain friendship and possibly even a rival romance in the long run.
If, on the other hand, you tell her she´s a stupid wh*re and should stop dabbling in bloodmagic like a f*cking ******, you gain Dislike points and eventually she might even turn on you / leave you.
On the other hand, Helping her gains you "shared worldview" points.
Then talking about it, you can explain your reasons. If you are nice and all you gain friendship and may end up as good friends or lovers.
If you tell her you don´t care for her quest but you hope to get a reward, or a chance to gain power for yourselves, or you say you think she´s doing the right thing here but don´t like her, you gain dislike points and - depending on your other conversations - she either may start to respect you, even though you are rivals, but united by a common goal and worldview, or she may leave you EVEN THOUGH you have the same attitude towards magic, elves and whatever simply because you don´t get along on a human level.