genocidal villain wrote...
My recent playthrough I find it hard to kill Loghain or make him a Grey Warden. It seems Howe influenced Loghain to do those deeds and it seems he is a good man who made wrong decisions especially the one in he made in Ostagar. I feel bad if I tell Alistair "everyone is out for themselves, you should know that" I'll support him even if he doesn't want to become king and he seems very loyal as a grey warden. It's a hard choice what is a good outcome. Also, I plan to do Morrigan's ritual.
Are you asking what is a good outcome for the realm as a whole or for Alistair and Loghain as individuals? Leaving any romantic relationship between Alistair and a female Warden out of the equation:
Best outcome for the realm: Hardened King Alistair + Anora > Hardened King Alistair alone > Anora alone > Unhardened King Alistair + Anora > Unhardened King Alistair alone.
I personally believe it is better for the realm if the DR is not done, but know this is unproven.
For Alistair: Being hardened >>> unhardened. Being Hardened King > Hardened Warden > Unhardened Warden >> Unhardened King >>> drunk >>>>>> soul annihilated.
Being king gives Alistair the opportunity to do the most good (something he strives for), also Alistair is likely to become disillusioned by the Wardens' ruthless tactics (as he does if the Warden dies and he stays in the order). Also, in the Fade he admits he would rather live than wind up "dead in a ditch" as a Warden.
For Loghain: Warden sacrifice > executed > Warden DR.
I'm not ordering things this way because I feel Loghain should die, but because Loghain himself would rather die saving his country than be executed. Also, I believe that he would rather die than take the risk that the DR will turn out to be a Really Bad Idea . On a personal level he'd rather be faithful to his dead wife than sleep with Morrigan. To top it off he would not be keen on living disgraced as a Warden and being transferred to Orlais, where he would have to follow the orders of Orlesians who are itching to get some payback. (I know he seems philosophical about it in Awakening, but that really can't be a good retirement for him.) Not to mention the nightmares, endless darkspawn fighting, etc. he would face as a Warden post-Blight.
So, the best outcome all around, in my opinion is:
Hardened King Alistair + Anora ruling (I also believe they come to care for each other, but understand others don't believe it.)
Loghain sacrifice
No DR
Of course, because my Warden doesn't always do the right thing, I got:
Anora alone (at least Shianni wasn't made Bann)
Hardened Warden Alistair doing the DR and running off with the CE Warden :innocent: