DrBobcat wrote...
I made this post in another thread, but I believe many of the points are still relevant...
Personally, I would be very pleased if Garrus became a m/m option in ME3. This is an opinion I've had for years now, but I've kept it to myself because I was uncertain how others would react. Garrus is an extremely popular character, after all, and one many hold in high esteem. That being said, I imagine most males would describe their attraction to him in purely platonic terms. They use words like "bro" and "best friend," not "boyfriend" or "lover." A significant number of people do not want to cross this line and I'm okay with that. What they do in their game is not my concern. That I'm not given the same amount of leeway, however, is my concern.
All romance content, regardless of type, is completely optional. If a player does not wish to experience such content, they can choose not to and will not be penalized in any way. There is no reason, in my opinion, why this system should change. Now, some individuals have mentioned "ninjamancing." This is a legitimate concern. I would be upset too if one of my characters was locked into a romance unwillingly. Even so, please try to keep the issues separate. A character's sexuality and the ambiguity of his/her dialogue options are two completely independent points of discussion. One is a matter of character development, the other a problem with the game's interface.
Fans are also worried that opening Garrus up to same-sex romance in ME3 would make continuing a friendship with him impossible. Again, the two are not necessarily related. If Bioware wanted to, they could write different sets of dialogue for each type of relationship. In fact, this seems to be exactly what they plan on doing. Shortly after confirming s/s content for ME3, Casey Hudson said, “[The] writing team has some great ideas for breaking the mold on char. interactions, which should add to non romance relationship[s].” (He also said this in response to concerns about character continuity: “I'm confident that our writing team will handle LI's in #ME3 with sophistication and preserve character continuity.”) Now, I may be biased, but this sounds like a win-win to me.
Finally, there are those who refuse to believe Garrus is (or could be) bisexual. In response, I can only ask, “How do you know?” I've been on this forum for years and have yet to hear a convincing argument for this claim. Yes, Garrus had sex with a female turian while serving in the military. This only proves that he's not a virgin. It is not a definitive statement on his sexuality. “But, Garrus is a badass vigilante with a cool voice and a dangerous past!” I completely agree. What's your point? Are you saying Garrus' personality precludes him from being bisexual? Why? What evidence do you have to back up this assertion? I'm willing to bet that this argument is entirely dependent on stereotypes. Stop. Stereotypes are rarely accurate and do not contribute to a healthy debate. Please, look up bisexuality in the dictionary and do some research before jumping to conclusions.
To be honest, I'm surprised we're even having this debate. Whether it's for romantic or platonic reasons, most of us here are fans of Garrus. Yet, if it weren't for the talented writers at Bioware, this thread wouldn't even exist. Why then do we assume the worst when it comes to this issue? The same developer that brought us Garrus Vakarian, the collar poppin', scopin' 'n dropin' stud we all love is suddenly going to drop the ball? Really? Really? Wow. I thought I was cynical... 
well theres no indication at all, what-so-ever that garrus is bi. he has absolutely no reason to hide this from shepard, its silly to think it wouldnt have come up already.
theres no arch there, it's a strictly brotherly friendship between male shepard and garrus and then suddenly the entire dynamic of the friendship suddenly changes? it makes no sense.
yes, its fesible for him to be bi, its completely possible. but only if you like cheap fanservicey writing. for him to be bi it'd have to be a really specific and impossible to do well set of circumstances and dialogue that would just well be bad.
i mean it context with the established convos male shepard and garrus have had, and the way they treat each other it makes a bi relationship with him completely unrealistic and would feel absolutely forced fanservice. im sorry but its true.
garrus is actually one of the very few characters i think would be impossible to convincingly make bi due to the established nature of their friendship, for it to be anything more than that it would have to go down a very very specific path to explain it and that path isnt one that makes good writing very likely.