Eromenos wrote...
I'm not suggesting that you said that I can't be gay as Shepard. Your proposal though, was to help convince the people who are resistant to the idea. That's honorable, but I also disagree with you because we need to get past the "coming-out" shtick. Frankly we should ignore the people who likely won't even play queer romances with Kaidan or Ashley.
You mentioned Hudson does not want any retcons or plot conflicts in the ME world. How does Shepard/Kaidan/Ashley being able to "go gay" with another human come as a retcon or conflict to you or I? I'm sure we agree about the validity of Shepard being gay/straight/bi etc from the start. So that's easy for us, but hard/impossible for others to accept when it comes to the queer parts. That's the complainers' problem, not ours, and hopefully BioWare will decide that it is not their problem either. The burden of believability should stay squarely on the folks who dig in their heels against this.
I am not proposing that Kaidan or Ashley be in-the-closet. The only times I mention such a scenario is where I'm guessing the resistant people fear such an outcome. Ironically, I fear it too but whereas those folks are against "changing" those characters at all, I'm more against having to sit through those asinine PSAs I mentioned before. Nobody needs the latter scenario. If a gay Shepard begins a romance with Kaidan or Ashley in ME3, then it should be the same as if a straight Shepard does.
sigh. again you are missing a point. I'm not suggesting that they should come out in any way. I'm assuming for the purposes of the story that they were already bi and to be honest, I would prefer it if they were shown as knowing they were bi, vs discovering through the magic of Shepard that they could be bi. they simply didn't see same sex Shepard in a romantic light in ME1. is this plausible, yes? it fits within already existing story, yes?
ability of Kaidan or Ashley or anyone else to fall in love with same sex Shepard is not in question here. but, what I personaly don't want to see is a scenario where they were in love with same sex Shepard starting with Eden prime, but instead of stumbling all over themselves and slipping up and showing it at every opportunity like they did with oposite sex Shepard, they instead hid it. hid it so well that there's no indication of them ever hiding it. revealing that they were hiding all these feelings? changes their personality, as in ME1 they do not come across as capable of hiding their feelings or opinions, unless told to shut up - with either sex Shepard. even in ME2, on Horizon which I personaly concider to be iffy writing (becasue they act too similary to each other and have practicaly identical dialogue, not to mention animations) - they aren't exactly hiding how they feel. do you see where i'm going with this, i hope?
I'm speaking purely from the perspective of the story we know so far, all the possible variations of it.
I think there should be a slightly different start to a new romantic relationship between VS and Shepard. before you get angry - start, intro, not the entire relationship, just a start of it. why? becasue dynamic is different. one is friend to lover, the other is old infatuation that they got over - being rekindled. and I feel Iike I need to say this again - this has nothing to do with anyone's sexual orientation, only prior history. I want that history to be aknowledged. the same way I would like it if whether you renegaded/paragonned them was aknowledged. same way Garrus treats you slightly differently depending on whether you recruited him in ME1 or not. same way as the conversation between a woman and her brother-in-law changes on the Wards, depending on whether you encouraged that they geneticaly modify her child, or tell him to respect her wishes about no genetic modifications. the same way the news blurbs change depending on which choices you made in various missions during ME1.
its a minor thing, but it makes the world feel reacher, more immersive.