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Eromenos wrote...

I never pass up a chance to deride that NPC. It's my way of saying she does nothing that EDI can't do better, and faster.

What is Kelly's reason for being there? "Cute (female, Katy Perry fake-lesbian)secretary."

I'm not coming down on people who actually get something out of her...quirks. My problem is that BioWare singles her out for exploitation in much the same way they do with the asari, as we were just talking about.


Well, in theory and in the lore she's mostly the crew psychiatrist, isn't she?

And I wouldn't even call her fake-lesbian. She's pretty much an "anything goes" character, which is why people mock her with the whole scale itch thing and treat it as if it were established that it was her.
I think she's fun, likable and cute.
I don't see the problem with such a character and wouldn't just see it as exploitation.
What, was Zevran exploitation for all the female gamers so they could get a hot gay elf to drool over?
it seems that a character can not be open in terms of sexuality at all without it being exploitation and that is only good if there is one for each gender and oriantation and then it is unfair. Seems weird to me.

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Eromenos wrote...

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Kelly the Human Screen Saver.


Wut? :?


I never pass up a chance to deride that NPC. It's my way of saying she does nothing that EDI can't do better, and faster.

What is Kelly's reason for being there? "Cute (female, Katy Perry fake-lesbian)secretary."

I'm not coming down on people who actually get something out of her...quirks. My problem is that BioWare singles her out for exploitation in much the same way they do with the asari, as we were just talking about.


Fake lesbian?  Seriously,  we've spent so much time suggesting there aren't certain ways that straight people and homosexuals act and suddenly we get "Fake lesbian."  I have to roll my eyes.

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Still not a fan of the face, but it does look better with actual eyes instead of those things Samara has. :unsure: They scare me.


Do not try to resist, it is futile...

:devil:

:wub:

Seriously. I was always a bit confused about my sexuality until Samara taught me not to worry about it and be a happy bi. :lol: Gazing into Samara's eyes is like... Embracing eternity!

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lets just put it this way - they never once tried to ninjamance same sex Shepard and never once mistook friendship for atraction with them.


Same-sex Shepards? Never got to happen, of course. But it did happen with my opposite-sex Shepards.

Oh, oh. I also want to point out how much I disliked our watered-down choices when Liara asks us if we're involved with the opposite-sex Kaidan or Ashley. I can't remember the exact writing or spoken words, but it seemed like the middle-ground and renegade options hinted that Shepard is actually in a relationship with the opposite-sex human. No matter what, it always felt like we were being pushed into a relationship with at least one of the 3 LIs.

Even blaming them for Eden Prime doesn't stop the attraction when they do feel it though.  to me, that's pretty telling, concidering I've been in situations where I thought someone was a friend, treated them as a friend and then found out that they were atracted (as well as being on the oposite side of that - let me tell you, its pretty heartbreaking when you are pining for them and they end up spilling their guts to you about someone else they are atracted to.)  you can even joke with them about other romantic interests and the conversation changes depending on your relationship status/gender. I guess "agree to disagree" will have to stand. 


I know those situations myself. :(  I do. From both ways, too.

I'm not discounting Kaidan and Ashley's recognizable canon feelings that most of us already know about. They would simply not be in conflict with what I've been suggesting. Ashley having the hots for male Shepard does not mean Kaidan can't have latent attraction for Shepard as well. We know BioWare compels the opposite-sex human squadmate to be our potential LI from the start. But so what? Some of us do our damndest to avoid that unnecessary script, and if in ME3 we're allowed to frame our interactions with a same-sex Kaidan or Ashley that affirms there was more going on, i.e. homoerotic subtext, then why not?

btw - Jacob doesn't ninja mance anyone, it only sounds like femshep wants him - voice direction fail.  he's pretty difficult to romance unless you use come-ons so blatant, they might as well be sledge hammers. Miss one, and you are firmly in a friendzone (found that out after having to reload couple of time on a femshep that was actualy trying to romance him).  in fact you know that you manged to start a romance if he tells you that he hasn't though of you that way  (and even then, he can still break up with you, if you push him too hard about his father)


Hmmm, that one must've been my own fault then. Oh, you're right! I remember being bored so I half-assed my way through flirtations with him, but somehow he ended up being even more of a nauseating dullard so I pushed the father-angle to either speed up to the sexin' or earn a rejection. Seriously he was putting me to sleep...anyway, clean break! I just wish the true ninjamances would've been kind enough to allow me a final exit like that....

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if by latent attraction you mean, he might have considered shepard a handsome bloke and then put it out of his mind, then yeah I can see it... but it just doesn't have the same strength as the attraction to opposite sex shepard. love it or hate it, but its there and dismissing it is akin to changing the character, even though we disagree on that part. (here's a scenario I would find beleivable given the context of the story so far:  "Well shepard I thought you were atractive, but I didn't think you went for guys/girls, so between that and regulations, I put it out of my mind" - vs scenario I would find nauseating for fresh ME3 relationship, sorry:  "oh, shepard I always loved you, I never got over you, and finaly, you feel the same way!"  >_> - but unless I'm vastly misreading the situation, a lot of people actualy would prefer to see a second scenario and I'm sorry, but THAT definitely changes the character  )

Jacob hate makes me sad :( he's a pretty interesting character IMO (corsairs, you have eden prime in common, his outlook on Cerberus, on life in general - there's a lot of possible depth to him, that we haven't seen yet) and his romance has one of the absolute best conversations in a game that many agree shouldn't have been restricted to romance alone.


plus once you friend him, he's the only character that bro fists you instead of shooing you away like everyone else

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LesEnfantsTerribles wrote...

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Meh, too late for same sex romances. Would have preferred them in 2.


'Tis never too late for same sex romances. I think the prospect of finally being able to roleplay a homosexual male Shepard is quite exciting, and something that has been sorely lacking in the series thus far.

FemSheps have been able to do so since the first game, and DudeSheps are finally being given that opportunity. It's cool.


I think it's lacking as well, but if going by ME canon, there was not a real same sex relationship in ME as femshep/Liara would be the only one following that role. In the story, she's from a mono-gendered race and that from their race perspective, gender has no meaning to them. So in a sense it isn't a same-sex relationship from the Asari point of view. Now, for the femshep, seeing Liara's appearance and the attraction to Liara and her physical aspects says differently, though femshep knows Liara's POV. Damn, that's pretty f'd up just thinking about it. I still have trouble getting my head wrapped around it. I just would rather have all relationship possibilities in ME3, so it is more clear cut.

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ExtremeOne wrote...

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As I have said I have no issue with seeing 2 women have sex . But 2 men having sex is disgusting and it has always been something I do not like at all.  Oh I hear people on complianing about the rage over this . Did you really think Bioware could do this with 0ut having some backlash .  Th


What about thoee who would find it disgusting to find fs/s encounters? If going by your standards, that should works the same way (my wife sees this conversation annoyingly funny). Would seeing a m/f be half-disgusting? Seriously, just don't make the choices where you have that encounter, you make the choices anyway. It really isn't that hard and everyone gets the win/win.

EDIT: Bioware, please fix the formatting of these forums, I hate losing what I type and placing text in another format, then copying and pasting it back gorfs the reply.

   



male and male sex is something I find disgusting and sick. I have no problem in making a statment by not buying ME 3 as a way to show my dis like for the content EA added to the game.  EA made a choice and in my opinion it is the wrong choice . I am not asking for no one to follow my standard . But I will not just bow down and say sure Bioware what ever you do is fine with me .  It may be optional content but that content is in the game with no way to disable it.  I am not changing my moral standards because of a video game .  


Super, and I am happy that you won't be getting the game for your reasons, seriously, because in all honesty, you don't deserve the honor being able to experience it anyway, IMO. Maybe Pat Robertson could get a version made just for you, where Dr Chakwas is a mental reprogrammer for the gay characters and sets them straight.

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I liked that you could only express attraction towards Samara if you were Paragon :3


I found the near romance possibility with the last convo I had with Samara one of the most tender moments in the game. It left the imagination to wonder, "what if", only because of the life struggle she endured with her free lifestyle history, then to the children she bore, to the acsetic lifestyle of a Justicar.

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Adorable pic I posted earlier in the Liara thread. I love Liara's facepalm...And Wrex is being so cute. :P
(Still sorta related to s/s...Being FemShep and Liara. :))

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Tommy6860 wrote...

Super, and I am happy that you won't be getting the game for your reasons, seriously, because in all honesty, you don't deserve the honor being able to experience it anyway, IMO. Maybe Pat Robertson could get a version made just for you, where Dr Chakwas is a mental reprogrammer for the gay characters and sets them straight.

He's just always hating, apparently we're meant to just ignore him.

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@Silent...*tears up*....That is so adorable and touching!

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Erani wrote...

@Silent...*tears up*....That is so adorable and touching!


and then you realize that the reason Liara is facepalming is becasue she's probably going to end up being the one cleaning up pyjack messes...  poor Liara :lol:

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jeweledleah wrote...

Erani wrote...

@Silent...*tears up*....That is so adorable and touching!


and then you realize that the reason Liara is facepalming is becasue she's probably going to end up being the one cleaning up pyjack messes...  poor Liara :lol:


Lol, exactly. "Oh goddess, Wrex!...Why!?"

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SilentNukee wrote...

jeweledleah wrote...

Erani wrote...

@Silent...*tears up*....That is so adorable and touching!


and then you realize that the reason Liara is facepalming is becasue she's probably going to end up being the one cleaning up pyjack messes...  poor Liara :lol:


Lol, exactly. "Oh goddess, Wrex!...Why!?"


Which is when Shep explains how it could've been much worse

"Well it was that or a Claymore...."

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paptschik wrote...

Eromenos wrote...

I never pass up a chance to deride that NPC. It's my way of saying she does nothing that EDI can't do better, and faster.

What is Kelly's reason for being there? "Cute (female, Katy Perry fake-lesbian)secretary."

I'm not coming down on people who actually get something out of her...quirks. My problem is that BioWare singles her out for exploitation in much the same way they do with the asari, as we were just talking about.


Well, in theory and in the lore she's mostly the crew psychiatrist, isn't she?

And I wouldn't even call her fake-lesbian. She's pretty much an "anything goes" character, which is why people mock her with the whole scale itch thing and treat it as if it were established that it was her.
I think she's fun, likable and cute.
I don't see the problem with such a character and wouldn't just see it as exploitation.
What, was Zevran exploitation for all the female gamers so they could get a hot gay elf to drool over?
it seems that a character can not be open in terms of sexuality at all without it being exploitation and that is only good if there is one for each gender and oriantation and then it is unfair. Seems weird to me.


The "anything goes" aspect of her I'm sure we can all detect just from arms-length.

My problem with her is that she's just like the way asari are commonly characterized by being singled-out. Why are there no male characters in ME who "lower" themselves in such ways? Emphasis on air-quotes.

The females are being singled-out for subordinate positions. It's one thing if there's diversity in portraying a group of people. But when ME2 insists on systemically portraying females primarily as sex-toys to appeal to misogynistic/homophobic douches, then it's a whole 'nother thing. DA2 had lots of female leaders and leaders-in-training, and the majority of them weren't in those positions because men valued their young-looking bodies. They were there because it is good for everyone to witness such a dynamic. ME2...not so much. A woman's future there is nothing unless it's visual. *thumbs-down*

I count Miranda and Samra's presentations in this as well. I happen to give them slightly more leeway because their BS characterizations/appearances are offset somewhat by their active roles in the squad, but we should not forget they express the scifi equivalent of plate-bikinis. Also Miranda's haphazard writing. (Judging by what's been said here recently, I can see why.)

My issue is not against Kelly, Miranda, or Samara. I am not judging you for liking Kelly, as you'll see later. My issue is the ME crew's willful irresponsibility. Keep in mind ME's hypocritical F/F exploitation. So, we have some actual queer and queer-friendly folks who actually enjoyed Liara and Kelly at face-value. Why not? Lucky for them. But their satisfaction does not alter the reality that those NPCs are cop-outs. Not for diversity. Not for awareness. Not for inclusion. They're just for titillation. The primary goal for allowing the "fake-lesbians" I referred to was to satisfy the homophobic straight people who might get off on F/F. Queer gamers and queer-friendly straight gamers who ended up liking them too were, such as yourself, accepted in a secondary capacity because supposedly that means the ME team gives a damn about queers, but unfortunately that's been far from the truth.

Where you mentioned Zevran, I do think of him in that way. Non-human "alien" like Liara. Token bisexual in a setting that insisted on heteronormativity and homophobia. Was there any good reason for maintaining segregation of sexualities among the LIs, other than to make those "some people are straight" sayers happy while DAO's "open for anything" bisexuals get thrown at queer and straight alike to supposedly feign inclusivity? We can go on and on about "personality" differences but the long and short of it is, the leading male and the leading female were "just too good for that" and BioWare was still too afraid of the wrath that a DA2 scenario provokes.

The tiniest part of me still sees Isabela as "exploitation," yet I love her character and I think she's fantastic. She has a major involvement with the story. She's nobody's servant, and she doesn't wait on anybody. She doesn't look like crap(in DA2), which is why I think of Zevran as the lesser male-version of Isabela, not the other way around. Her appearance and presentation actually fit with her character. Her accent doesn't sound faked or forced. Furthermore, this is DA2 we're talking about. All the LIs are bisexual. It's no longer exploitation or tokenism when there is no room left to allow cop-outs.

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SilentNukee wrote...

Tommy6860 wrote...

Super, and I am happy that you won't be getting the game for your reasons, seriously, because in all honesty, you don't deserve the honor being able to experience it anyway, IMO. Maybe Pat Robertson could get a version made just for you, where Dr Chakwas is a mental reprogrammer for the gay characters and sets them straight.

He's just always hating, apparently we're meant to just ignore him.


Maybe I am just getting too old to ignore this as my experiences with the "hate and vile" community has taken its toll.
Aside from one traumatic event my close friend experienced back in the late 80s as a near fatal hate attack. My wife and I have fostered kids from time to time and have been attempting to take on 15yr old girl permanently, who was abused by her mother, literally beaten to where she cannot walk correctly, because the girl is gay. Mother is out of the picture obviously, but the father wants the girl and the state social system has to abide by the laws. The girl wants to stay with us and all of the psychiatric care she has had has helped her greatly, and I fear going back may just set all of that progress back. It's been stressful to say the least, especailly for her, as my wife and I would give up
everything to take her in, she's so happy here and is totally trusting of us and our love for her. I cannot picture it going to pieces. She'snever experienced the kind of acceptance we show her, outside of getting into foster care and being with my wife and I.

Sorry for gush of emotion here, but sometimes this ****g crap just gets to me and I get very defensive.

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Adorable pic I posted earlier in the Liara thread. I love Liara's facepalm...And Wrex is being so cute. :P
(Still sorta related to s/s...Being FemShep and Liara. :))


Dear aunt Jemima, what did you do to Wrex? :sick:

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Dear aunt Jemima, what did you do to Wrex? :sick:

I don't take credit for this picture. :P It's not mine, but Wrex is acting like a "Big Uncle" in this. (That's what the drawing is called. http://metal-dragon-...allery/23653640 He has some other nice ones in there.) I wouldn't be surprised if Wrex turned out to be a softy later in life, even if it's not really in ...Krogan nature.

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Eromenos wrote...

The "anything goes" aspect of her I'm sure we can all detect just from arms-length.

My problem with her is that she's just like the way asari are commonly characterized by being singled-out. Why are there no male characters in ME who "lower" themselves in such ways? Emphasis on air-quotes.

The females are being singled-out for subordinate positions. It's one thing if there's diversity in portraying a group of people. But when ME2 insists on systemically portraying females primarily as sex-toys to appeal to misogynistic/homophobic douches, then it's a whole 'nother thing. DA2 had lots of female leaders and leaders-in-training, and the majority of them weren't in those positions because men valued their young-looking bodies. They were there because it is good for everyone to witness such a dynamic. ME2...not so much. A woman's future there is nothing unless it's visual. *thumbs-down*

I count Miranda and Samra's presentations in this as well. I happen to give them slightly more leeway because their BS characterizations/appearances are offset somewhat by their active roles in the squad, but we should not forget they express the scifi equivalent of plate-bikinis. Also Miranda's haphazard writing. (Judging by what's been said here recently, I can see why.)

My issue is not against Kelly, Miranda, or Samara. I am not judging you for liking Kelly, as you'll see later. My issue is the ME crew's willful irresponsibility. Keep in mind ME's hypocritical F/F exploitation. So, we have some actual queer and queer-friendly folks who actually enjoyed Liara and Kelly at face-value. Why not? Lucky for them. But their satisfaction does not alter the reality that those NPCs are cop-outs. Not for diversity. Not for awareness. Not for inclusion. They're just for boners. The primary goal for allowing the "fake-lesbians" I referred to was to satisfy the homophobic straight people who might get off on F/F. Queer gamers and queer-friendly straight gamers who ended up liking them too, such as yourself, were accepted as secondary because supposedly that means the ME team likes us, but unfortunately that's been far from the truth.

Where you mentioned Zevran, I do think of him in that way. Non-human "alien" like Liara. Token bisexual in a setting that insisted on heteronormativity and homophobia. Was there any good reason for maintaining segregation of sexualities among the LIs, other than to make those "some people are straight" sayers happy while DAO's "open for anything" bisexuals get thrown at queer and straight alike to supposedly feign inclusivity? We can go on and on about "personality" differences but the long and short of it is, the leading male and the leading female were "just too good for that" and BioWare was still too afraid of the wrath that a DA2 scenario provokes.

The tiniest part of me still sees Isabela as "exploitation," yet I love her character and I think she's fantastic. She has a major involvement with the story. She doesn't look like crap(in DA2), which is why I think of Zevran as the male-version of Isabela, not the other way around. Her appearance and presentation actually fit with her character. Furthermore, this is DA2 we're talking about. All the LIs are bisexual. It's no longer exploitation or tokenism when there is no room left to allow cop-outs.

Honestly...and not trying to offend you...I think you're totally overreacting and throwing around terms like misogynistic or homophobe WAY too fast.
Also, I don't see the problem with people like Zevran or Leliana. AT ALL. 
So..yeah, sorry, I don't get most of what you are saying.

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Dear aunt Jemima, what did you do to Wrex? :sick:

I don't take credit for this picture. :P It's not mine, but Wrex is acting like a "Big Uncle" in this. (That's what the drawing is called. http://metal-dragon-...allery/23653640 He has some other nice ones in there.) I wouldn't be surprised if Wrex turned out to be a softy later in life, even if it's not really in ...Krogan nature.


Somehow Wrex makes me think of The Thing now...like with Ben Grimm, there is a very mushy core under that tough skin.

Unlike with Grunt, where we have a silly little kid giggling at the thought of ripping some bugs apart.

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paptschik wrote...

SilentNukee wrote...

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Dear aunt Jemima, what did you do to Wrex? :sick:

I don't take credit for this picture. :P It's not mine, but Wrex is acting like a "Big Uncle" in this. (That's what the drawing is called. http://metal-dragon-...allery/23653640 He has some other nice ones in there.) I wouldn't be surprised if Wrex turned out to be a softy later in life, even if it's not really in ...Krogan nature.


Somehow Wrex makes me think of The Thing now...like with Ben Grimm, there is a very mushy core under that tough skin.

Unlike with Grunt, where we have a silly little kid giggling at the thought of ripping some bugs apart.


Yep, I figure the same thing as well. 

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AngelicMachinery wrote...

Eromenos wrote...

paptschik wrote...

Eromenos wrote...
Kelly the Human Screen Saver.


Wut? :?


I never pass up a chance to deride that NPC. It's my way of saying she does nothing that EDI can't do better, and faster.

What is Kelly's reason for being there? "Cute (female, Katy Perry fake-lesbian)secretary."

I'm not coming down on people who actually get something out of her...quirks. My problem is that BioWare singles her out for exploitation in much the same way they do with the asari, as we were just talking about.


Fake lesbian?  Seriously,  we've spent so much time suggesting there aren't certain ways that straight people and homosexuals act and suddenly we get "Fake lesbian."  I have to roll my eyes.


What would you call Katy Perry? An ally to queer folks? Or just some glam princess who profits because a few too many emotionally-brutalized queer people think she's their friend all because she made fake-lesbians titillating and "popular" among lots more people who know nothing about queer theory or queer history in the U.S.?

I dredge her up all the time when I talk about the asari and Kelly because their formula is not-coincidentally identical to hers.

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Tommy6860 wrote...

SilentNukee wrote...

Tommy6860 wrote...

Super, and I am happy that you won't be getting the game for your reasons, seriously, because in all honesty, you don't deserve the honor being able to experience it anyway, IMO. Maybe Pat Robertson could get a version made just for you, where Dr Chakwas is a mental reprogrammer for the gay characters and sets them straight.

He's just always hating, apparently we're meant to just ignore him.


Maybe I am just getting too old to ignore this as my experiences with the "hate and vile" community has taken its toll.
Aside from one traumatic event my close friend experienced back in the late 80s as a near fatal hate attack. My wife and I have fostered kids from time to time and have been attempting to take on 15yr old girl permanently, who was abused by her mother, literally beaten to where she cannot walk correctly, because the girl is gay. Mother is out of the picture obviously, but the father wants the girl and the state social system has to abide by the laws. The girl wants to stay with us and all of the psychiatric care she has had has helped her greatly, and I fear going back may just set all of that progress back. It's been stressful to say the least, especailly for her, as my wife and I would give up
everything to take her in, she's so happy here and is totally trusting of us and our love for her. I cannot picture it going to pieces. She'snever experienced the kind of acceptance we show her, outside of getting into foster care and being with my wife and I.

Sorry for gush of emotion here, but sometimes this ****g crap just gets to me and I get very defensive.


This is a heartbreaking story. I truly hope you and your wife can help this girl. It is difficult to ignore the frothing-at-the-mouth hatemongers that find their way in here at times, but there's not a whole lot we can do about them. We can report them when they break site rules and such, but other than that we just have to let them rant incoherently. Honestly, they're doing us a favor, people need to see exactly what 'the other side' consists of sometimes.:?

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Eromenos wrote...

What would you call Katy Perry? An ally to queer folks? Or just some glam princess who profits because a few too many emotionally-brutalized queer people think she's their friend all because she made fake-lesbians titillating and "popular" among lots more people who know nothing about queer theory or queer history in the U.S.?

I dredge her up all the time when I talk about the asari and Kelly because their formula is not-coincidentally identical to hers.


I'd call Katy Perry a person with a very annoying stage etc. persona.
I don't even know what this has to do with anything queer though and I don't see it in ANY way similar to Kelly or Asari.
I think you should stop acting like gay/bi people are all of one and the same opinion anyway. What about gay and bi people that happen to like Zevran or Kelly or Liara for the same reasons a straight person would: Because they're fun and likeable?

I mean, you act like only women hating men would like Kelly or Asari...yet Kelly is probably the favorite or second favorite ME character of my very female best friend .

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Tommy6860 wrote...

SilentNukee wrote...

Tommy6860 wrote...

Super, and I am happy that you won't be getting the game for your reasons, seriously, because in all honesty, you don't deserve the honor being able to experience it anyway, IMO. Maybe Pat Robertson could get a version made just for you, where Dr Chakwas is a mental reprogrammer for the gay characters and sets them straight.

He's just always hating, apparently we're meant to just ignore him.


Maybe I am just getting too old to ignore this as my experiences with the "hate and vile" community has taken its toll.
Aside from one traumatic event my close friend experienced back in the late 80s as a near fatal hate attack. My wife and I have fostered kids from time to time and have been attempting to take on 15yr old girl permanently, who was abused by her mother, literally beaten to where she cannot walk correctly, because the girl is gay. Mother is out of the picture obviously, but the father wants the girl and the state social system has to abide by the laws. The girl wants to stay with us and all of the psychiatric care she has had has helped her greatly, and I fear going back may just set all of that progress back. It's been stressful to say the least, especailly for her, as my wife and I would give up
everything to take her in, she's so happy here and is totally trusting of us and our love for her. I cannot picture it going to pieces. She'snever experienced the kind of acceptance we show her, outside of getting into foster care and being with my wife and I.

Sorry for gush of emotion here, but sometimes this ****g crap just gets to me and I get very defensive.


:(

I don't know what to say. Other than...biological parents are overvalued. You're the ones she feels safe with.