Liec wrote...
I knew I wasn't the only one. 
Ever since the Codex described as space kingpins I pictured them as Jabba, with a little broodmother from DA thrown in there and little salarian horns. I mean, they lay dozens of eggs a year after all, they could be huge <.< The queen bee is also bigger and fatter than the drones as well.
Not necessarily, extreme differences in size (with the female usually much bigger than the male) is more common in insects and arachnids (see rachni queen in game, and Black Widow in RL as two examples) than in reptiles and amphibians...
Here's an example...

These are two Western Green Lizards, they are to scale (between each other of course), one is male and one is female, the female two times a year lays about a dozen eggs, but she is not that bigger or smaller than the male...
This also helps with the other thing I was going to say in the post, that is salarian females are probably not that different from males, at least from a human perspective...
If you look at the picture you'll probably be unable to tell which is which between male or female (unless you are an expert... Or like me you've seen the unedited one where the sexes are pointed out in the caption...)...
They (the lizards, I mean) obiously know, it may be anything, pheromones, slightly different colouration, a slightly lighter or heavier build, but all these details (except for the more obvious) are lost to human senses, who are more attuned to discerning the sex of mammals (just like us)...
So in the end I think it's very likely fem!salarians would be similar to males in overall build, with possibly a few visual changes, it's only due to perspective however, to salarians their females are probably massively different from the males...
Just my two cents...