jollyorigins wrote...
I thought making all romances bisexual was stupid, it was pandering to a minority at best and general laziness on Bioware's part. It made all the romance parts of the game weak and bland because everyone one of them was the exact same. I still can't find any reason why for example, Merrill, is suddenly gay just because you're a female Hawke. Anders' relationship with Karl felt weak too, if you're female it was his best friend but suddenly you're male and they were lovers?
That's not really true....Merrill isn't gay for female Hawke, she's bisexual. I could also turn that around and say how 'ridiculous' it is that Merrill's suddenly straight for male Hawke, as she seems more like a lesbian to me.
jollyorigins wrote...
And I know that it's all down to the minor difference in gender but that's the point, why is everyone suddenly attracted to the same character whether they are male/female?
If so, then restrict romances based on class/race/morality as well...if you're going to cut off certain romance paths then go for it all...if you want realism...
I personally think it's foolish to limit romances based on anything and people should just be able to romance whoever given the fact that romances are a smaller/optional part of the game that not everyone even plays through. It seems to be needless complication added in, where that complication could be used in other parts of the game that are part of the main plot. For example, DA2 needed more Mage!Hawke variation with the plot. In DA:O, have the Landsmeet possibly play out a bit differently if the Warden is an elf. Why waste time coding in racial/gender/morality/class restrictions with something like romance?
jollyorigins wrote...
I would have much preferred it if Anders could have been my male characters best friend rather than a guy constantly hitting on me then ****ing about it 2 seconds later when I say no, and yes I am choosing the "black broken heart with red outer line" option on the dialogue wheel.
Anders only comes onto you once and that's it...just the same with my Lady Hawke.
jollyorigins wrote...
To end my point, I thought Origins romances were done much better, 2 female, 2 male and 2 bisexual romances, fair for everyone.
No, they weren't fair for gay/bisexual male PCs that couldn't stand Zevran and wanted Alistair to lick their lampost. Or for females that couldn't stand Leliana and wanted to hop in Morrigan's tent. I'm not sure how many people who play heterosexual PC would have been satisfied if only Zevran was available for female Wardens, and Leliana for male Wardens.
jollyorigins wrote...
Jib547 does make a good point about how some story plots don't affect romances like Alistair romancing a blood mage character and the bombardment of gifts you can give them. It just felt like DA:O romance sub-plots were much better executed than DA2 romance sub-plots, which felt more like Bioware bashing your face in with "YOU MUST HAVE A ROMANCE IT'S AGAINST THE RULES IF YOU DON'T ARARARARAGH!!"
The romances were still optional and very easy to avoid. Besides, them forcing you to do a romance (which they don't) is an issue separate from sexuality anyway.