Well, I've slept on it, I've thought about it, I've read plenty of comments on it... and I'm left pretty torn about it.
I do appreciate that Bioware went to the trouble of releasing EC, it does improve on a few things and most importantly it does explicitly show that the galaxy recovers, might even end up a better place in the end. The new epilogues are emotionally a lot more satisfying than the original ending, dare I say even uplifting, and I understand that that is enough for a lot of players to be able to overlook the numerous things that are still wrong with the ending. I can't really blame anyone for that, after over three months of anger, pessimism and apathy any gleamer of catharsis and emotional satisfaction is more than welcome.
Problem is, the EC doesn't really do anything for me. I was never one to ascribe to the totally nihilistic interpretations of the original ending; I didn't believe that there was now a galactic dark age, that the Earth-stranded fleets would starve, that entire colonies would collapse and descend into anarchy, that Tali and Garrus would have to eat one another or that Liara would have to mate with everyone to repopulate Gilligan's planet with asari babies...
I didn't need EC to show me that relays would get rebuilt, they were already getting rebuilt in a couple of decades in my headcanon (though I'm glad they decided to retcon their destruction, just repairing them instead of reinventing them will be much quicker). I didn't need to see that the galaxy would eventually recover and a diverse galactic community would be re-established, this was always bound to happen sooner or later. I didn't need to see the Normandy fly off Gilligan's planet, I've always deduced they were somewhere nearby and could be rescued within days (though again, it was nice to see they retconned the high-EMS crash-landing). I didn't need the vague implication that Shep and Liara would be reunited - with Shep alive and Liara rescued, their reunion was always self-evident to me; the one thing I was hoping for with regards to Liara, to actually see their reunion, we sadly didn't get.
So basically, while the epilogues were nicely done, emotionally satisfying and at times very touching, they were, for me at least, not really necessary. I'm glad we got them, would have been even nicer had they been in the original release, but they don't really address what were my main issues with the ending.
Next come the few attempts to fill some of the most glaring plot-holes...
Firs the evac scene. Now let me be clear - the Liara loving part of me was thrilled to see another touching scene with her and I really loved the exchange between Shep and Liara as they said goodbye. But at the same time, as I saw the Normandy just suddenly swoop in from nowhere and then hang in front of Harby's nose for what seemed like minutes, the rest of me was going "you got to be fracking kidding me?!". I literally facepalmed as soon as I saw Liara get injured and I realised what Bioware had in mind. If not for the Liara scene to make it bearable, it would have been less stupid to just leave the teleporting squadmates unexplained.
And then there's the Joker leaving scene, which I actually care for even less. Yeah, they redeemed Joker, but at the cost of Garrus/Liara/Vega or whoever it is in your game that now convinces Joker to leave Shepard behind. And to pull it off they made Hackett into an idiot that orders a retreat before it's even clear what the Crucible is about to do and how long before it actually does it. There's also the question of what happens to all the other ships in the fleet - if they were all retreating to the rendezvous point, why did Normandy end up somewhere else? And just where did Normandy end up? Were the other ships also damaged when they were hit and to what extent - is there now a whole fleet of ships in variously damaged conditions scattered for possibly dozens of light years from Sol? I think I'll just stick to my headcanon that I think makes more sense and only affects the Normandy, not the whole fleet.
And there's still a lot of unexplained things, like how Anderson and TIM got onto the Citadel and into the control room unnoticed, how TIM can suddenly control Shepard and Anderson, etc.
And that leaves the core of my issues with the ending, the Catalyst. I like that the exchange with him got expanded, but not really for any clarity the new dialogue might provide; instead, what I'm glad about is that the ****** is finally and unequivocally revealed to be full of sh*t. Whether he's insane or just malfunctioning, it's now clear that he's just spewing nonsense and his deranged line of reasoning is not even worth considering as valid.
The problem of course is that even with this realisation we are still forced to play by his rules and at least pretend to go along with his ideas. At least we can now dismiss his descriptions of control and synthesis and go straight for the red tube. Or, alternatively, reject all of his solutions and stand by our convictions, the new Refuse ending. I'm not certain what the point behind this new option was, if it was really what they thought the fans wanted or if it was just their way of trolling those same fans. Either way and despite the grim outcome, I think this is actually the one true paragon choice and I've come to realise it's my true canon choice. I'll stick to destroy for my feel-good want-my-damn-blue-babies alternative canon though.
So where does this all leave me... in a way I've realised that EC actually did bring me a great deal of closure; but it is not closure with regards to Shepard's story, instead it's closure for my relationship with Mass Effect. It's like ME had gone missing back in March and after months of anguish over what had happened to it Bioware have finally called me to tell me they had found the body. Not really the kind of closure I think Bioware were aiming for. The ME franchise is dead to me now, I think I can finally accept that and move on. I'll stick with fanfics and headcanon, but since yesterday I've lost every bit of desire to replay any of the games; even ME3 MP which I really enjoyed before has lost all its appeal. Maybe if they come out with some DLC with good Liara content I might check that out.
Well, maybe I'll get over this and come back to it someday... maybe.