PMC65 wrote...
I actually liked how they handled it ...
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When Shepard talks to Liara she is pep talking herself as much as she is Liara and both women need to be put back in the fight not hugging & crying. So Shepard gives her a soldier's speech which helps both of them. They can hug and cry later.
I agree that the scene actually does work, so I don't hate it like a lot of other posters here. Like Han Shot First, I just imagine Shepard knows Liara well enough to realise her way of dealing with emotional distress is by distracting herself with work, so she gets her to do just that.
I would still have liked some more options though, including the paragon hug interrupt

. Or, ideally, that they both acknowledge that the other is hurting and they both help pick each other up.
PMC65 wrote...
I also thought it showed how much of an asari Liara was ...
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For me it was keeping in line with the asari mind set of their superiority.
This however is again the part where I interpret things quite differently (I'm not picking on you, promise, it's just that you got me thinking thoroughly about this scene and I felt I should write this down)

I don't think she had any preconceptions that asari would somehow get through the war untouched or that the war had not impacted her until Thessia. I think she's well aware of the full extent of the horrors that are going on all over the galaxy and it's actually weighing heavily on her, she is after all both very emotional and compassionate.
But her way of dealing with it is to emotionally detach herself by throwing herself at her work. It's basically the same way she 'dealt' with Shepard's death; it's not really healthy - she's not really dealing with her emotions, just ignoring or suppressing them - but it's just something that she does (relevant to yesterday's discussion about her flaws).
Thessia falling, however, was more than she could handle. I think it's only natural that seeing her own homeworld burn and her people massacred would have a greater impact on her than seeing the same things happen to other planets and species. It's hardly unique to her or asari, everyone seems to be primarily preoccupied with what is happening to their own kind; even Shepard keeps going on about Earth when most of the galaxy is getting hit just as hard. If anything, and I might be recalling this wrong, she seems to show more sympathy for what's happening to other worlds than Shepard's other crew and squad. Liara-haters like to complain how she goes on about the horrors on Thessia, about banshees, etc. (and it's true to an extent); but she actually also comments both on the other worlds that get hit and on the other Reaperised troops you encounter. The haters just don't see this because it actually requires bringing her on other missions.
In the end, what really seems to get to her is not so much what happened to Thessia and the asari, but rather her own feeling of guilt about not doing more to specifically help them. What she's been occupying herself with for the entire war, heck, since months before the war even started, has been to help the galaxy at large, she's been focusing on the big picture, trying to stop the Reapers. Now, not only does she feel she should have done more to help her people prepare, that she let them down and is somehow personally responsible for so many dying, with what happened in the Temple there's now also a very real chance that all that she had been doing instead (helping with the Crucible) might have been in vain.
Well, at least that's how I see it...