bas_kon wrote...
@Forevergray: I know right? At least he should have mentioned Liara (since she's also a femshep's option and wouldn't be such a waste of resources).
@Frozen83: You mean even if you commit to Liara before getting the VS, it's not flagged as true love until the post coup Citadel conversation? I thought that would lock all the other romances.
I think I'm gonna play DA2 as well, after trying "Shepard leaves Tali for Kaidan" playthrough, too bad there's no new DLC anymore. Loved the Mark of the Assasin. 
If I am not mistaken you can start romance with Liara on ME1. ME2 just confirming her romance. As you alrdeay did your choice between two on ME1 that will leave Thane, Jacob and Garrus options for Kaidan to acknowledge (I guess he says somethings about Jacob to female Shep but never played Kaidan romance with a femShep). For Male Shepards writers assumed Kaidan didn't care who Shep banged during ME2 I guess.
Also as far as I know, both VS doesn't recognize Kelly as romance, just like game imports.
Ashley on the other hand mentions Miranda (Miranda Lawson?) and Jack, even renegade sex with her (convict with shaved head). Didn't do any Ash/Tali run so far but I am planning to after finishing Matt's ME1 to ME3 run.
All squadie romances are confirmed/locked during Citadel dates as far as I know. So you can't blame Kaidan for trying.

This is why avoid everyone on Cİtadel and talk to Kaidan first. It is cruel to give people false hopes.