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#5576
ArawnNox

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FoxHound109 wrote...

Let's go back to the important arguments...

Kaidan will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Kaidan will be a: top or bottom?

Vega will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Vega will be a: top or bottom?

Garrus will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Garrus will be a: top or bottom?

Ashley will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?

Miranda will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?

Inquiring minds want to know. XD


IMNSHO:
Yes
Bottom

Yes
Switch

Maybe
Bottom

Yes

Maybe

#5577
ElitePinecone

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RinjiRenee wrote...

Bioware's not going to reveal the s/s romances just because us forum readers spit venom at each other about it. Likely we will be told to either argue civilly or ... just not talk about it at all.


Vega has more chance of growing an afro than the likelihood of this forum becoming either a) civil or B) silent on the isue of s/s romances. :P

Though: with a few exceptions, isn't it generally opponents who create threads? Given that they have no other place to vent their grievances, they may as well indulge the forum with a new thread every 24 hours, that expands to 15 or 20 pages and then gets locked. 

It's probably carthartic, or something. 

#5578
Siansonea

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ElitePinecone wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
Text is the new femur.


Now there's a fantastic metaphor. 

I guess, from that perspective, ****ing is inevitable and we should just press on with attempting a civil discussion. 

Couldn't hurt to have more informaton, though :devil:

Edit: Really, Bioware? Overzealous forum filters are overzealous. 


My approach is simple. I don't let the clowns get a rise out of me. I am in control of my emotions, I am not about to let some yahoo on the internet harsh my calm. I will calmly and patiently skewer them with Obvious Logic, or otherwise show them to be not as "impartial" as they claim. Often they try to create false parallels, and it's usually pretty easy to knock those down. And it's certainly not something that's worth getting mad over. I have to conserve my precious reserves of anger for stuff that matters, not squander it on these bratty kids with too much time on their hands. :police:

#5579
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FoxHound109 wrote...

Let's go back to the important arguments...

Kaidan will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Kaidan will be a: top or bottom?

Vega will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Vega will be a: top or bottom?

Garrus will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?
Garrus will be a: top or bottom?

Ashley will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?

Miranda will be an s/s romance option: yes or no?

Inquiring minds want to know. XD

Kaidan... for me, No and neither
Vega... for me, No and neither
Garrus... <3 and lets just say, I would take good care of him... :whistle:

#5580
FoxHound109

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ElitePinecone wrote...

Vega has more chance of growing an afro than the likelihood of this forum becoming either a) civil or B) silent on the isue of s/s romances. :P


Pretty much. To be fair though, I kind of joined this forum out of nerdrage but have stuck around for three days because there are some legitimately cool people here like you, IsaacShep, Siansonea, gamer_girl, and others. So it's not ALL bad in the land of BSN. :)

To answer my own questions...


Let's go back to the important arguments...

Kaidan: Yes, top.

Vega: Yes, bottom.

Garrus: No.

Ashley: Yes.

Miranda: Only if we're lucky...

#5581
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Sideways in a zero-gravity environment. This can apply to everyone. I won't be constrained by your gravity enduced top/bottom dilemas!

Modifié par bleetman, 20 juillet 2011 - 05:37 .


#5582
FoxHound109

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bleetman wrote...

Sideways in a zero-gravity environment. This can apply to everyone. I won't be constrained by your gravity enduced top/bottom dilemas!


LMAO! The mental images! The mental images! <3

I just hope Vega's a bottom...mmmmm...

*Mops drool from keyboard*

#5583
ElitePinecone

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Not that this topic isn't... fascinating... but in the interests of not scaring off anyone who may be browsing this thread, could we keep the discussion of the intricacies of Shepard's mating rituals to another place? Perhaps a thread in the FftL group?

#5584
Rinji the Bearded

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Kaidan would need to be a bottom for full enjoyment because... well...

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#5585
Dhiro

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Any particular reason why you want Vega to be a bottom?

That said, it'd hard to judge the, ah, position someone prefers. I wonder what would happen if two bottom/tops tried to have sex. Not that anal sex is the only option, I suppose.

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I have no investment in the topitude or bottomocity of the s/s LI. I assume all that stuff happens "off camera" anyways. At least, I hope it does. Digital weenies would make me giggle.

#5587
Dhiro

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ElitePinecone wrote...

Not that this topic isn't... fascinating... but in the interests of not scaring off anyone who may be browsing this thread, could we keep the discussion of the intricacies of Shepard's mating rituals to another place? Perhaps a thread in the FftL group?


If they can't handle the gay, they shouldn't come down to play.




What I just said?

#5588
shepskisaac

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Dhiro wrote...

Any particular reason why you want Vega to be a bottom?

That said, it'd hard to judge the, ah, position someone prefers. I wonder what would happen if two bottom/tops tried to have sex. Not that anal sex is the only option, I suppose.

That's why we've invented flip-flopping ^_^

#5589
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So only me and KawaiiKatie have sub Shepards?

I am disappoint BSN.

#5590
FoxHound109

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Dhiro wrote...

Any particular reason why you want Vega to be a bottom?

Because I find muscular, manly bottoms hot? :whistle:

Siansonea II wrote...

I have no investment in the topitude or bottomocity of the s/s LI. I assume all that stuff happens "off camera" anyways. At least, I hope it does. Digital weenies would make me giggle.


Actually, this is the reason why I'm curious. I don't mean if they actually ARE tops or bottoms; that's unimportant to me in a sense. What I'm curious about is that if there is a scene between them interacting and Bioware doesn't cop out like they did with the cheesy sex scenes in ME 2, I'd be curious to see who does what. Kind of like in Dragon Age: Origins where it's more graphic than usual but still in good taste. So I wonder if my mShep romanced Kaidan, for example, how such scene would play out.

I've had this question since the first Mass Effect. I kept wondering because they said that Kaidan was originally planned to be an s/s romance option and if you've seen any of the sex scenes in ME, you'll probably get where my question comes from.

To be honest though: if it bothers anyone here to talk about it then we just won't talk about it. I mostly did it to inject some silliness into the topic since it was getting pretty heavy-handed and I thought it could use some lightening up by discussing something out of left field. I think I FAILed though, LOL! :lol:

Modifié par FoxHound109, 20 juillet 2011 - 05:56 .


#5591
Rinji the Bearded

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I could actually care less who pitches and who catches, it should be about the love anyway.

#5592
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@Ryzaki *raises hand* Got a redhead Shep that's been crushing on Joker since ME1 that wouldn't mind bottoming for our pilot <3

I rather liked ME1's sex scenes, they were very artistic and sensual without showing much.

Modifié par SomethingSome, 20 juillet 2011 - 06:00 .


#5593
KillTheLastRomantic

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FoxHound109 wrote...

ElitePinecone wrote...

Vega has more chance of growing an afro than the likelihood of this forum becoming either a) civil or B) silent on the isue of s/s romances. :P


Pretty much. To be fair though, I kind of joined this forum out of nerdrage but have stuck around for three days because there are some legitimately cool people here like you, IsaacShep, Siansonea, gamer_girl, and others. So it's not ALL bad in the land of BSN. :)

To answer my own questions...


Let's go back to the important arguments...

Kaidan: Yes, top.

Vega: Yes, bottom.



Really? I sort of guessed the opposite. I can't imagine Kaidan topping Shepard whereas Vega at least looks like he potentially would be that way inclined. To me, at least.

#5594
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SomethingSome wrote...
I rather liked ME1's sex scenes, they were very artistic and sensual without showing much.


Agreed. The scenes in ME 2 were all atrocious...

#5595
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Ryzaki wrote...

So only me and KawaiiKatie have sub Shepards?

I am disappoint BSN.


I am a total sub for Garrus! :wub:

#5596
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Siansonea, 'toptitude' and 'bottomocity' are my favorite words now >_>
For me, though, switching is the stuff. Although I would love to see some toppy!biotic-restraints!Kaidan (or Jack with femshep) I think things like that are sadly left to fanfiction...

#5597
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SomethingSome wrote...

@Ryzaki *raises hand* Got a redhead Shep that's been crushing on Joker since ME1 that wouldn't mind bottoming for our pilot <3

I rather liked ME1's sex scenes, they were very artistic and sensual without showing much.


Yay I'm not alone. 

#5598
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ElitePinecone wrote...

gamer_girl wrote...

Dhiro wrote...

Thread about what?

If it's about s/s of any type, it will be closed. The mods said, many times, that this subject should say here, in this thread.


I thought the title explained my intentions well. I said I wanted the whole war with words to stop and that I had a solution to please everyone.


For what it's worth I read your initial post and almost entirely agreed with it.

But forums being as they are, you're never, ever going to have consensus. It's a very noble ambition and it was worth a try, but no matter how carefully your post was crafted it was almost doomed before it began. 

Some people are unwilling to have s/s content in their games *at all*, even if it's only player-initiated and all the dialogue is clearly marked. They have an ideological or moral objection to it, and no amount of reasoned logic will convince them otherwise. 

Some supporters of s/s don't particularly feel like compromising with people they feel don't respect them - and so they're arguing for some LIs to approach the player, rather than vice versa. I don't take this positon, but I can appreciate why people would. 

There are a hundred different positions on this issue and nothing is going to satisfy everybody. Bioware are going to have to alienate someone, and they know it - that would heavily influence their decision making process and the weight they put on ensuring that as few people as possible are annoyed by whatever they do. 

I don't actually think concensus or compromise is possible for many people on this issue, which is why it's a toxic argument on the forum. Too many ideologues with too many disparate and entrenched opinions. 


Haha well I'm glad you appreciate my effort, but you're right it was essentially doomed from the beginning and there isn't really a way to please everyone. Is there a way to please a very large majority of people however? I believe the answer to that is an enthusiastic "absolutely!" ^_^

Edit:
Not to mention people who have issues with character initiated romances are probably just looking for reasons to be angry. I mean really their only argument is realism, but in reality, the reapers would never happen, the majority of the aliens in the citadel wouldn't be humanoid nor would the main language be English. Also, not everyone would be swooning over Shepard.

Modifié par gamer_girl, 20 juillet 2011 - 06:14 .


#5599
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Ryzaki wrote...

SomethingSome wrote...

@Ryzaki *raises hand* Got a redhead Shep that's been crushing on Joker since ME1 that wouldn't mind bottoming for our pilot <3

I rather liked ME1's sex scenes, they were very artistic and sensual without showing much.


Yay I'm not alone. 



I actually liked them too. They kind of started to dumb down (for lack of a better term) the sex scenes mostly because of huge prudes out there. I mean it's not like it was video game porn. It was probably as close as they could get to porn without it actually being porn though. :pinched:

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Not according to FoxNews, if you go by what they said they were several minutes long and you could pick positions!
I still can't even think about that without laughing.