elektrego wrote...
You don't get that option - "I saw her first" - with FemShep every time and I haven't done any empirical studies on this, but I think you only get it, when you make it unmistakeably clear your are not interested in Kaidan or put differently, when you are not nice to him.
Yes,
there are some dialogue lines which are sensitive to how much your Shepard
talks to potential LIs.
For example, this is how the post-Feros conversation can play out if your male
Shepard is interested in Ash:
(I)
Sara: Oh, before I go... You said you're serving with Commander Shepard now? We
saw him on the news here... He's cute. Later sis'.
Ashley: Tell me you didn't hear that.
And then you have three options to answer: (P) Sorry; (N) A relative?: ®
That's unprofessional.
And when Shepard asks Ash her opinion on the mission:
Ash: A little spooky how you handled that Jeong guy. Didn't figure you'd know
how to speak corporate.
Shepard: ® All you do is shove a stick up your ass and care more about money
than people.
Ash: That would be a waste of a fine ass, sir.
If you barely talk to Ash, this is how the conversation can play out:
(II)
Shepard: Do you have a few minutes to talk, one-on-one?
Ash: Sure. I was just watching some mail from home.
Sara: Oh, before I go... We saw Kaidan in a news vid about the Normandy. He's
cute. Later sis'.
Ash: Let's pretend this never happened.
And then you have FOUR options to answer: (Left option) Kaidan, hm?: (P) Too
late; (N) A relative?; ® That's unprofessional.
And when Shepard asks Ash her opinion on the mission:
Ash: A little spooky how you handled that Jeong guy. Didn’t figure you’d know
how to speak corporate.
Shepard: ® All you do is shove a stick up your ass and care more about money
than people.
Ash: Painful! Think I'll leave that to you. No offense.
In the first scenario, it's clear the game assumes your male Shepard is into
girls. That's why Shepard catches Sara gossipping about how cute Shepard is,
and Ash praises Shep's ass.
In the second scenario, the game assumes that your mShep may not be into girls.
Shepard catches Sara gossipping about how cute Kaidan is, Ash makes a snarky
comment on Shepard shoving a stick up his ass, and Shepard has one more option
to question Ash about her interest in Kaidan (as if he were jealous).
So I agree with elektrego. You don't always get the "I saw her first"
option with FemShep because she has previously showed interest in Kaidan.