Nyoka wrote...
If a character is dead, they must be dead for everyone. Look at all the dead NPCs who mysteriously appear on youtube ME2 videos. Rana, Fist, I killed them in ME1, how come they're alive in someone else's game? If I experience Mass Effect as a story in which those guys are dead, then they should be dead for everyone as well, regardless of what they may have liked to choose.
That's the argument you're making here. Give it a little thought.
This. Think about it. In a universe where Shepard has boobies, Kaidan can be romanced by her and doesn't follow up with, "...but I also like men"; therefore, it's "out of character" for him to be romanceable by a male Shepard. Compare that to the arguement that since he never says he
isn't attracted to men means he
could be. That just makes more sense and is less restrictive.
I've noticed people on both sides have been rather loose with the term "bisexual." In any particlar Shepard's universe, Kaidan could be strictly heterosexual, gay, or anything in between based on what is actually seen in that universe just as he can be paragron, renegade, dead or alive (there's a bit less "in between" on that one). Why do we have to keep a closed mind to our Shepard's universe because of what you feel about yours? The same goes for Ashley.
I can accept an argument against "everyone is bi" (even if that's a misuse of the term) from the standpoint of concern for the quality of the romances, but there's absolutely nothing in my maleShep's universe that means your no-****** bro Kaidan must be everyone else's, no option. Yes, it would be amazing if each romance were given unique, individual attention and detail, but it's not going to happen, let alone for gay-only romance. But to say that making a character romancable to either gender ruins the character is not convincing. It can be done well.
The scene on Horizon can be interpreted in a completely platonic way (and in fact I would have loved developed friendship paths in the game), but it could also be built into a lot more for players who choose so, and it could be very moving in the hands of skilled writers.
And the best part about having such an option is that it doesn't have to impinge on your Kaidan at all; it's an
option.
The same goes for Ashley.
I dislike the Talimance (and other non-romance Tali related parts of ME2) for gutting the whole lore about quarian immune systems, but rather than invade her character thread and rant and rave about it being removed from the game, I just don't romance her. Works like magic!

tl;dr My Kaidan being bi (or even flat out gay) doesn't mean yours can't maintain your strictly no-gay head canon. So hands off.

Edit: My first rant here needed a little reformatting.
Modifié par JoeShep, 31 octobre 2011 - 02:12 .