JeffZero wrote...
Man, I love that Kaidan pic but I swear, it gets Isaac and Pinecone mixed up for me all the time. Ah well, at least you're both nifty.
/off-topic
I've noticed that - I'm going to change mine

Also, just to add to my other post:
If the VS weren't a romance option in ME3 (of any sort, o/s or s/s), there'd be very few opportunities for new players to romance anybody. They'd have, at the most, a few Normandy crew (two of which look exclusively s/s, and one of which doesn't even start on the ship, in Allers), Kelly, Liara and possibly Vega.
Bioware made a conscious decision to limit the size of the 'permanent' squad, one of the downsides was that this limits the number of available romance options (and it looks like they've compensated by making crew available).
But for new players, these don't seem enough. Adding the VS as a new option just gives them that extra 'squadmember romance', and it ties in really well with some of the drama (although I'm a bit annoyed with that drama).
Having the VS decide they felt something for Shepard is a) perfectly plausible and

the lesser of two evils when the alternative is having few LIs at all.
Point is: some long time ago, Bioware decided on the composition of the squad (a mixture of story demands, combat class demands, cost, complexity, writing, etc) and the romances probably come somewhere lower than that in terms of priority. If having a character open as an LI in the third act of a trilogy seems strange, then it was because it had to be that way.
I don't find the Ashley/Kaidan 'new' romances odd at all, I think they're well written (from what we can work out) and some of the dialogue is actually really nice.