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Right then. It's 2 out of three in that scenario and all of those LIs are being shared with m/f romancers. I'm not seeing some conspiracy there.

Well, why couldn't Alistair be "shared" and instead it had to be Zevran?

Modifié par IsaacShep, 13 janvier 2012 - 05:33 .


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Ryzaki wrote...

The whole twink thing strikes me as very superifical. I'd say Fenris was far more masculine in personality than Anders and Alistair.


Agreed. Anders (without Justice) was never as I guess masculine as Fenris. Of course someone could say we are mistaking masculine with Brooding and looking like he will tear someone's heart out most of the time.

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IsaacShep wrote...
Well, why couldn't Alister be "shared" and instead it had to be Zevran?


Maybe because the devs wrote their relationship paths and personalities a certain way and went with that.

You want to pretend that the devs are having some conspiracy to keep all the "non twinks" away from the m/m romances be my guest. That doesn't make it any less ridculous.

1136342t54 wrote...
Agreed. Anders (without Justice) was
never as I guess masculine as Fenris. Of course someone could say we are
mistaking masculine with Brooding and looking like he will tear
someone's heart out most of the time.


Nah even without the brooding Fenris isn't anything I'd consider feminine. He looks pretty but that's about where it ends.

Modifié par Ryzaki, 13 janvier 2012 - 05:36 .


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IsaacShep wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Right then. It's 2 out of three in that scenario and all of those LIs are being shared with m/f romancers. I'm not seeing some conspiracy there.

Well, why couldn't Alistair be "shared" and instead it had to be Zevran?


Because they wanted him to be Heterosexual?

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1136342t54 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

1136342t54 wrote...

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Lordy12 wrote...

Agreed!

Give us someone dark, hairy and handsome not blonde, smoothe and pretty! The twink look has been done to death!

Blond is not a problem. It's the "fem/emo/yaoi boy" look I don't like.
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To be fair Fenris looks worse than Zevran in that regard plus elves have no facial hair period so blame their biology instead. :P

I still think its funny that Zevran is the best same sex male love interest in the DA series. Anders had promise but he just felt rather creepy when in the romance lol.


I haven't romanced Zev for any character or gender, but I'd honest say he probably wasn't the best option, considering he's a very ****ty character. And him being the only option probably wasn't considered cool.


Nah I disagree mostly because in comparison to Fenris or Anders he hasn't gotten more annoying after every playthrough. He wasn't really something great but I felt about the same for him as I did in my first playthrough which wasn't bad.




The word that was censored was how he's screws anything, and loves filling whatever gaps he could.

I'm sure some would've preferred someone with a less (starts with S and L ends with T and Y) lifestyle.

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Ryzaki wrote...

You want to pretend that the devs are having some conspiracy to keep all the "non twinks" away from the m/m romances be my guest.

I will be.

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The word that was censored was how he's screws anything, and loves filling whatever gaps he could.

I'm sure some would've preferred someone with a less (starts with S and L ends with T and Y) lifestyle.


True but then again he never annoyed me as much as Anders and Fenris (mostly Anders/Justice) eventually did. Zevran has sex a lot which is heavily related to his line of work. The thing is he likes it and accepts it. Hell didn't Anders actually work at a **** house or did he just visit rather frequently?

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Ryzaki wrote...

@TMA: Frankly I thought Zev sucked but it had nothing to do with his looks and everything to do with (what I found) to be a sh** personality.


If my post wasn't censored, you'd know I agree with his bad personality as the bad thing.


To me it was a lame version of the "killer needs redemption through love/friendship." trope. I had to travel through too much trash to get to the good part.

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TMA LIVE wrote...

The word that was censored was how he's screws anything, and loves filling whatever gaps he could.

I'm sure some would've preferred someone with a less (starts with S and L ends with T and Y) lifestyle.


True but then again he never annoyed me as much as Anders and Fenris (mostly Anders/Justice) eventually did. Zevran has sex a lot which is heavily related to his line of work. The thing is he likes it and accepts it. Hell didn't Anders actually work at a **** house or did he just visit rather frequently?


Nah Anders just visited (probably so he could heal those STDs. :lol:). Eh Zev bothered me a lot more than Anders. Then I find Zev's type a lot more irritating in RL so that played a part in it.

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I thought Gaider wanted Alistair to be the 'bi' male option but that got pulled from above?  Or is that a wild rumor?

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Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh. But don't lesbian & bi girls get mad when BioWare designs f/f LIs to cater to straight guys?


I don't mind...I share tastes in women with straight guys.

I'm not sure what is the difference between designing an LI to appeal to 'straight guys' vs. 'lesbians' since members of both groups have wildly different tastes.

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Isaac, you want Kaidan to be m/m, and I happen to agree with you, but he's not the most masculine guy out there. Fenris may have been an elf, but he was way more masculine than Anders. And besides, why even bring up DA2 when m/m and m/f are the same choices, except Sebastian who was the prettiest of all? I think you're seeing something that isn't there. And if the developers want to give us well-developed m/m romances with pretty boy characters, that's entirely their prerogative.

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Nah Anders just visited (probably so he could heal those STDs. :lol:). Eh Zev bothered me a lot more than Anders. Then I find Zev's type a lot more irritating in RL so that played a part in it.


Anders visited to show them a few tricks. At least thats what Isabella implied with mentioning that (electricity thing) lol. Don't really meet Zev's type much. The only time that would ever bother me is if when I tell them I'm not interested they would keep pestering me. Zevran seems to back off on it though.

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IsaacShep wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

And yes Fenris was a pretty boy. Anders wasn't. Those male LIs aren't just for the m/m people you realize yes? Plenty of females highly dig the pretty boy look.

...right whatever. :pinched:

Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh. But don't lesbian & bi girls get mad when BioWare designs f/f LIs to cater to straight guys?

Honestly, as long as they turn out like Leliana, Liara, Isabela and Merrill, I don't care, who they are trying to cater to. There are some minor hiccups, though, but that could happen as well, if they tried to "directly cater" to us.
I've enjoyed all of those romances and Silk Fox, too.
The only thing I got mad about is, that I had to roll a male Shep for Ash, Miranda and Jack.

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1136342t54 wrote...
Anders visited to show them a few tricks. At least thats what Isabella implied with mentioning that (electricity thing) lol. Don't really meet Zev's type much. The only time that would ever bother me is if when I tell them I'm not interested they would keep pestering me. Zevran seems to back off on it though.


Oh that was the Pearl back in Fereldan though. When Anders was wild and young and non boggled by Justice's lame self.

Yes that was a good point to him. You told him to back off and he did so with little fuss. (not like Anders who has to dig into whatever LI Hawke chooses if it's not him. <_< )

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Ryzaki wrote...

1136342t54 wrote...
Anders visited to show them a few tricks. At least thats what Isabella implied with mentioning that (electricity thing) lol. Don't really meet Zev's type much. The only time that would ever bother me is if when I tell them I'm not interested they would keep pestering me. Zevran seems to back off on it though.


Oh that was the Pearl back in Fereldan though. When Anders was wild and young and non boggled by Justice's lame self.

Yes that was a good point to him. You told him to back off and he did so with little fuss. (not like Anders who has to dig into whatever LI Hawke chooses if it's not him. <_< )


Anders/Justice was rather annoying especially if you chose Fenris or Merril. "Sorry Anders I just love those ears dude." :P

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Olive Oomph wrote...

IsaacShep wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

And yes Fenris was a pretty boy. Anders wasn't. Those male LIs aren't just for the m/m people you realize yes? Plenty of females highly dig the pretty boy look.

...right whatever. :pinched:

Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh. But don't lesbian & bi girls get mad when BioWare designs f/f LIs to cater to straight guys?

Honestly, as long as they turn out like Leliana, Liara, Isabela and Merrill, I don't care, who they are trying to cater to. There are some minor hiccups, though, but that could happen as well, if they tried to "directly cater" to us.
I've enjoyed all of those romances and Silk Fox, too.
The only thing I got mad about is, that I had to roll a male Shep for Ash, Miranda and Jack.


The problem is for designing a female same sex love interest that appeals to lesbians is that it is difficult (at least for me) to make that. It seems like it varies sometimes and some lesbians actually like many of the same things a Heterosexual male like in a woman.

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jlb524 wrote...

IsaacShep wrote...
Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh. But don't lesbian & bi girls get mad when BioWare designs f/f LIs to cater to straight guys?


I don't mind...I share tastes in women with straight guys.

I'm not sure what is the difference between designing an LI to appeal to 'straight guys' vs. 'lesbians' since members of both groups have wildly different tastes.


Yeah, unless you're writing for a stereotype, a character is just a character. I don't think being homosexual makes you completely different from a heterosexual. There are differences, and should be, but a Lesbian and a Straight Man might have similar tastes for the type of woman they like, and don't like.

Modifié par TMA LIVE, 13 janvier 2012 - 05:53 .


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Anders/Justice was rather annoying especially if you chose Fenris or Merril. "Sorry Anders I just love those ears dude." :P


So very very annoying.

I was *hoping* for a pretty boy ME LI but there's none to be found. (I can't even make my damn Shep a pretty boy T_T )  D: So I'll just have to go with the next best thing. <3

Modifié par Ryzaki, 13 janvier 2012 - 05:56 .


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Last time I tried making my shepard look a bit less like he is over 40 and rather young I spend like over an hour on it. When I finally played the game his nose looked weird so ended up starting over. Seriously I have less trouble in the Dragon Age character creator.

At least it isn't as bad as Bethesda games.

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Tietj wrote...

Isaac, you want Kaidan to be m/m, and I happen to agree with you, but he's not the most masculine guy out there. Fenris may have been an elf, but he was way more masculine than Anders. And besides, why even bring up DA2 when m/m and m/f are the same choices, except Sebastian who was the prettiest of all? I think you're seeing something that isn't there.


I totally agree with you. Also, I do not understand how people like Isaac can speak about romances and characters of a game they have never played.
As a gay man, I was very happy when I noticed that Zevran was flirting with me. I enjoyed the relationship between him and the Grey Warden and I was grateful that Bioware gave me this opportunity. That's it.

And if the developers want to give us well-developed m/m romances with pretty boy characters, that's entirely their prerogative.


This. You know, Isaac, there is nothing that forces the devs to write same sex romances.

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1136342t54 wrote...

Last time I tried making my shepard look a bit less like he is over 40 and rather young I spend like over an hour on it. When I finally played the game his nose looked weird so ended up starting over. Seriously I have less trouble in the Dragon Age character creator.

At least it isn't as bad as Bethesda games.


I know. D:

DA CC is like 9000x better than ME's for making any kind of good looking character much less pretty boys. =]
 

Though yeah. Bethesda your choices are FUGLY! Fugly? Fugly.

:lol:

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George89 wrote...

I totally agree with you. Also, I do not understand how people like Isaac can speak about romances and characters of a game they have never played.

There's that thing called YouTube where you can see those romances. So yeah.

George89 wrote...

As a gay man, I was very happy when I noticed that Zevran was flirting with me. I enjoyed the relationship between him and the Grey Warden and I was grateful that Bioware gave me this opportunity. That's it.

Good for you.

George89 wrote...

This. You know, Isaac, there is nothing that forces the devs to write same sex romances.

Of course not. But if they're already doing it, then I'm voicing my opinion that "let's just go with an elf and be done with it" ain't the right way IMO.

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jlb524 wrote...

I thought Gaider wanted Alistair to be the 'bi' male option but that got pulled from above?  Or is that a wild rumor?

IsaacShep wrote...
Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh. But don't lesbian & bi girls get mad when BioWare designs f/f LIs to cater to straight guys?


I don't mind...I share tastes in women with straight guys.

I'm not sure what is the difference between designing an LI to appeal to 'straight guys' vs. 'lesbians' since members of both groups have wildly different tastes.


TBH, I don't share tastes in women with straight guys, mostly, and I'd appreciate a female character written without appealing to dudes being the first and sometimes only priority.  I'm not asking for stereotypes, but when designing the characters, I'd like romances to be the last thing on the list.  If that character then is able to romanced by my female player character, AND she is to my liking, all the better.

But that's why I support more choices.  More choices can make everyone happy!  Theoretically.

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I actually like Zevran the best out of the m/m romances so far. He had a hard life but he had a sense of humor and wasn't all ANGST ANGST BROOD BROOD about it like Anders and Fenris.

edit: Judging by the leaked script Kaidan also seems to be super-angsty through most of the game (way more than Ash).  If he is a m/m option, I think I'll pass.

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There's 2 human and 2 elven bisexual male love interests so far.
Seems fair to me.