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Apparently what happened to Hendel is the same thing that happened to Anders.

Apparently, the author was not familiar with the details surround the
lore of Mass Effect, leading to numerous mistakes. Including batarians
being able to launch a slave raid on Palaven, volus not having to wear
full environment suits, and some people raged over the fact that there
were references to Hendel Mitra being interested in women. (I can only
assume that the people who were complaining about this missed the memo
that there's no reason the phenomenon otherwise known as
"Andersification" can't go both ways. But I digress.)


I don't see anyone ever saying Anders wasn't interested in men but hey what do I know?


This isn't the same. Sanders made it clear that someone "like her" could never get his interests, but someone "like her boyfriend" had a better chance.

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So, what's the deal w/ the s/s romances? Are they gonna make any old characters available to both genders?

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It's possible that he's closetted. Many gays (and bisexuals) are.
But I haven't seen any convincing arguments that Kaidan is. Most of them rely on stereotypes. Not saying you do. But I've seen people claim that Kaidan is probably bisexual/gay (or acts like he is) because he's "sensitive" (which is a common gay stereotype) or some such. That's backwards, imo.

I also don't find Kaidan to the type of person to still be discovering himself and to repress homosexuality. In ME1, he's very much the character who has his stuff in order already and has figured out who he is and what he wants and wants to do. I don't think the society in Mass Effect really puts pressure on people to be in the closet, either. You even have deliberate mention of gay marriage and Steve is openly homosexual to broshep. Doesn't strike me as a time where gays are still hiding in fear of social stigma.


Ah, no. I see my wording was clumsy. I did elaborate on it earlier, though, but I know not everyone keeps track of all the posts in here or can be expected to remember what I said. I couldn't think of a better term than "struck me as" but what I actually meant was he's closeted in... my "head canon", so to speak. Mostly because I believe they could've made him bi from the get go. He always seemed like the perfect guy for my male Shepard (more so than my female Shepard) and while playing I just get the feeling that they have some interesting chemistry going on. It's like it's so close to working out, but there is no dialogue ( = he's closeted). So that's how I play it. Not sure if I was able to convey what I mean. In any case, if they were to make him available to male Shepards in 3, I think the "closeted" thing could work (not because of social stigma, but whatever personal reason).

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@"Andersification" of Hendel

I hate it when people compare something like this. It's not the same. It never is. He was the only gay character in all of Mass Effect.

Collider wrote...

It's possible that he's closetted. Many gays (and bisexuals) are.
But I haven't seen any convincing arguments that Kaidan is. Most of them rely on stereotypes. Not saying you do. But I've seen people claim that Kaidan is probably bisexual/gay (or acts like he is) because he's "sensitive" (which is a common gay stereotype) or some such. That's backwards, imo.

I also don't find Kaidan to the type of person to still be discovering himself and to repress homosexuality. In ME1, he's very much the character who has his stuff in order already and has figured out who he is and what he wants and wants to do. I don't think the society in Mass Effect really puts pressure on people to be in the closet, either. You even have deliberate mention of gay marriage and Steve is openly homosexual to broshep. Doesn't strike me as a time where gays are still hiding in fear of social stigma.


People tend to presume the future must be bright and progressive and better. Let's not get into the acient history of gay men and homophobia. This is science fiction and Bioware decides how things are. For all we know homosexual foetuses may be indentified and terminated. Truth is we have now idea how being gay is handled in Mass Effect, because there simply was no content about it. Just because in the script Shepard is okay with it, doesn't mean the rest of the universe is. Just look at the first game. There was a big emphasis on how humanity is discriminated and even hated by aliens. It's not all good and well in this future.

Modifié par Luca Stern, 05 février 2012 - 12:27 .


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TMA LIVE wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Apparently what happened to Hendel is the same thing that happened to Anders.

Apparently, the author was not familiar with the details surround the
lore of Mass Effect, leading to numerous mistakes. Including batarians
being able to launch a slave raid on Palaven, volus not having to wear
full environment suits, and some people raged over the fact that there
were references to Hendel Mitra being interested in women. (I can only
assume that the people who were complaining about this missed the memo
that there's no reason the phenomenon otherwise known as
"Andersification" can't go both ways. But I digress.)


I don't see anyone ever saying Anders wasn't interested in men but hey what do I know?


This isn't the same. Sanders made it clear that someone "like her" could never get his interests, but someone "like her boyfriend" had a better chance.


Here's the exact quote:

"I'm starting to think you two are more then just friends," Jiro said darkly.

Kahlee actually laughed out loud. She saw Jiro stiffen, and he turned away from her.

"I'm sorry," she said, wrapping a comforting arm around his shoulder. "I didn't mean to laugh. But trust me, I'm not Hendal's type. You might be, though."

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Thanks for the exact quote TMA.

Maybe it's just where I live but that's a pretty blatant way of saying someone's gay without straight up saying it.

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Ryzaki wrote...

Thanks for the exact quote TMA.

Maybe it's just where I live but that's a pretty blatant way of saying someone's gay without straight up saying it.


Just pointing out it's not the same with the whole Anders situation.

In Awakening, he never stated anything that would suggest he wasn't bi, or would like men. Then does in DA2.

In this, it's pretty clear Sanders is saying "She ain't his type" with a laugh. Yet, is looking at Asari in the next book.

Modifié par TMA LIVE, 05 février 2012 - 02:36 .


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given that the ME3 demo will be released on Valentine's Day I kinda pledged my daily sketches until then to drawing cute, cuddly ME drawings (with the option for some DA ;) )

personally, I'm not shipping those two, but I thought maybe someone in here does and might like the image ... if not I'll return to my sad little corner until I draw something mShenko- or mShega-esque

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Eeep! That's adorable. I'd ship it if it weren't for the dynamics of man-frog on man kind of creeping me out.

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TMA LIVE wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Thanks for the exact quote TMA.

Maybe it's just where I live but that's a pretty blatant way of saying someone's gay without straight up saying it.


Just pointing out it's not the same with the whole Anders situation.

In Awakening, he never stated anything that would suggest he wasn't bi, or would like men. Then does in DA2.

In this, it's pretty clear Sanders is saying "She ain't his type" with a laugh. Yet, is looking at Asari in the next book.

I've never read the books but from what I have gathered from this thread, Hendel never specifically says he is gay/straight/or bi.  Sanders comes to the conclusion that he is gay but it is never explicitly said.  For all we know he could have just not been attracted to her. 

/devil's advocate

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silentassassin264 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Thanks for the exact quote TMA.

Maybe it's just where I live but that's a pretty blatant way of saying someone's gay without straight up saying it.


Just pointing out it's not the same with the whole Anders situation.

In Awakening, he never stated anything that would suggest he wasn't bi, or would like men. Then does in DA2.

In this, it's pretty clear Sanders is saying "She ain't his type" with a laugh. Yet, is looking at Asari in the next book.

I've never read the books but from what I have gathered from this thread, Hendel never specifically says he is gay/straight/or bi.  Sanders comes to the conclusion that he is gay but it is never explicitly said.  For all we know he could have just not been attracted to her. 

/devil's advocate


Do you honestly think a writer would write that if it was just bull****?

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Well there is the Twilight series an it is bull**** in its entirety.

/devil's advocate

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Sadly, Patrick Weekes telling me he won't answer my question if the VS is s/s available only makes me more hopeful. /stupid stupid stupid

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silentassassin264 wrote...

Well there is the Twilight series an it is bull**** in its entirety.

/devil's advocate


This ain't twilight where the entire series is bull****.

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SolidBeast wrote...

Sadly, Patrick Weekes telling me he won't answer my question if the VS is s/s available only makes me more hopeful. /stupid stupid stupid


That'd make me more hopeful too. Do you have a link to him saying that to you?

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TMA LIVE wrote...

silentassassin264 wrote...

Well there is the Twilight series an it is bull**** in its entirety.

/devil's advocate


This ain't twilight where the entire series is bull****.


:lol:

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SolidBeast wrote...

Sadly, Patrick Weekes telling me he won't answer my question if the VS is s/s available only makes me more hopeful. /stupid stupid stupid


How did you ask him ? I want to ask him about the "FF" avalible for S/S

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SolidBeast wrote...

Sadly, Patrick Weekes telling me he
won't answer my question if the VS is s/s available only makes me more
hopeful. /stupid stupid stupid


You want some discouragement? (If you don't stop reading this) The developers aren't specifically not talking about VS. They're not talking about any LI business regardless. Out of all characters Kaidan is the most unlikely to be available for ManShep, because there is another new human male, no blacklash provoking reveals or retcons necessary.


Vapaä wrote...

How did you ask him ? I want to ask him about the "FF" avalible for S/S


twitter.com/PatrickWeekes

Modifié par Luca Stern, 05 février 2012 - 04:28 .


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Ah, no. I see my wording was clumsy. I did elaborate on it earlier, though, but I know not everyone keeps track of all the posts in here or can be expected to remember what I said. I couldn't think of a better term than "struck me as" but what I actually meant was he's closeted in... my "head canon", so to speak. Mostly because I believe they could've made him bi from the get go. He always seemed like the perfect guy for my male Shepard (more so than my female Shepard) and while playing I just get the feeling that they have some interesting chemistry going on. It's like it's so close to working out, but there is no dialogue ( = he's closeted). So that's how I play it. Not sure if I was able to convey what I mean. In any case, if they were to make him available to male Shepards in 3, I think the "closeted" thing could work (not because of social stigma, but whatever personal reason).


I see. Personally, I didn't really think there was much to the relationship between male Shepard and Kaidan in ME1. As much as I would have liked they had something going (friendship or otherwise), a lot of content was not available to male Shepard and there was nothing more than the light suggestion of friendship at best. Every other squad mate essentially has a conversation - even without romance - where they show clearly and deliberately that they deeply respect Shepard. I think you may get that with female Shepard who doesn't romance Kaidan - as she still gets more content - but nothing of the sort for Kaidan. It just ends abruptly. It's hard to even head canon because of the lack of dialog as you've mentioned.

That's why I felt the "lost a limb" line in Horizon was rather awkward and hard to believe if Kaidan wasn't romanced - especially as male Shepard. It felt like it came out of nowhere - because I never got the impression that that Kaidan would feel like he lost a part of himself if male Shepard died.

In any case, if they were to make him available to male Shepards in 3, I think the "closeted" thing could work (not because of social stigma, but whatever personal reason).

Depends what you mean by closeted. I think they have Kaidan state he was hiding feelings without making it about hiding homosexual feelings in general. In the same way Tali's unrequited crush/love for male Shepard in ME1 wasn't about hiding heterosexuality. In other words, personal reasons, yea.

Preferably, though, if Kaidan is to be available for male Shepard, I'd like it to be a realization that he had feelings (for male Shepard, instead of suddenly discovering feelings for men in general) rather than hiding anything.

I wonder how they'll end up explaining those feelings for male Shepard if they do decide to do it. With Anders, they introduced a male partner he had in the past.

People tend to presume the future must be bright and progressive and better. Let's not get into the acient history of gay men and homophobia. This is science fiction and Bioware decides how things are. For all we know homosexual foetuses may be indentified and terminated. Truth is we have now idea how being gay is handled in Mass Effect, because there simply was no content about it. Just because in the script Shepard is okay with it, doesn't mean the rest of the universe is. Just look at the first game. There was a big emphasis on how humanity is discriminated and even hated by aliens. It's not all good and well in this future.

I'm not really assuming anything about the future.

I'm looking at the Mass Effect universe - and I believe there was a deliberate attempt at making the Alliance and human society "progressive" on social issues. Mass Effect is obviously not our actual in reality future - so I'm not speculating that 200 years in our future there is no significant bias against gays.
I'm looking at Mass Effect.

Bioware writing in eugenics used in an attempt to exterminate homosexuality is HIGHLY implausible. They have far more sense than that. And in terms of precedence, they never actually seem to address in the games themselves (or in the books) homosexuality by name. There's no use of gay, homosexual, or lesbian, pretty sure. It's just implied by showing character relationships between people of the same sex/gender.

In the script, Steve was same sex married and seems to be openly gay. Before Dietz' total disregard for lore, Hendel was implied to be gay and no one really seemed to mind. The asari race exist and there's been an amount of F/F options.

If galactic society is actually anti-gay (or still has significant stigma against homosexuality) and they wanted show that and let us know, I doubt they would do such things.

That is why if they injected homophobia in the universe to explain why Kaidan didn't flirt with male Shepard, I wouldn't find it very believable and would probably look at it as something they just used as a convenient excuse :?

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I'm really curious if we'll get an 'epilogue' with our LI. I asked but I didn't get an answer. Will we see a conclusion to the romance at all after we've defeated the Reapers (ex. Liara and the 'happily ever after' scenario you hear in the Shadow Broker DLC) ? I'm going to be really disappointed if there is no conclusion at all and the game just ends :(.

What do you guys think? Or is there anything in the leak about that that I haven't seen?

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katerinafm wrote...
I'm really curious if we'll get an 'epilogue' with our LI. I asked but I didn't get an answer. Will we see a conclusion to the romance at all after we've defeated the Reapers (ex. Liara and the 'happily ever after' scenario you hear in the Shadow Broker DLC) ? I'm going to be really disappointed if there is no conclusion at all and the game just ends :(.

What do you guys think? Or is there anything in the leak about that that I haven't seen?

There are certain endings that don't seem to work with romance epilogues very well.

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^ I know that, but what about the other endings :P

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As far as the controversy goes I think (just my personal opinion) that they should of stuck with their guns and chose NOT to scrap the s/s romances for ME1. There are recorded dialogs for MShep if you chose to romance Kaidan or FemShep romancing Ash that were never implented. Maybe that has something to do with why they cut out so much with MShep and Kaidan dialog (example you can ask Kaidan why he signed up and Shep chides him if he signed up for the "Dream" which is option you get as FemShep regardless if you romanced him) And after Kaidan reaction on Horizon is it so hard to believe he had feelings that he kept secret? I'm not saying we should retcon or make everyone bi (that would kinda hurt the credibility a little) but perhaps in this case there is evidence to support that Kaidan might have some feelings for MShep that for WHATEVER reason he didn't express. Maybe your Shep wants to pursue that, maybe your Shep doesnt...the point is the option would be nice.

In the end it's Bioware's game and they should go with what whatever they think is best and shouldn't be afraid to include or not include. I just think that's what they should of done in the first place.

But I also blame them for making Mshep way cooler and then Kaidan so awesome ;p

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As far as the controversy goes I think (just my personal opinion) that they should of stuck with their guns and chose NOT to scrap the s/s romances for ME1. There are recorded dialogs for MShep if you chose to romance Kaidan or FemShep romancing Ash that were never implented. Maybe that has something to do with why they cut out so much with MShep and Kaidan dialog (example you can ask Kaidan why he signed up and Shep chides him if he signed up for the "Dream" which is option you get as FemShep regardless if you romanced him) And after Kaidan reaction on Horizon is it so hard to believe he had feelings that he kept secret?


They didn't cut or scrap the s/s romances in ME1. They were never planned or made to begin with. Considered, yes. But it was never in production. So it wasn't a matter of sticking to their guns or being afraid.

I actually felt Kaidan was out of character on Horizon, so it is still hard to believe.

Maybe your Shep wants to pursue that, maybe your Shep doesnt...the point is the option would be nice.

Right. Male Shepard could have that option to pursue him without Kaidan having had feelings in ME1/ME2 specifically.

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excuse me, did someone ask for mShep/Garrus?

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@Criz-Zone: *squees*

It's perfect! <3