Criz-Zone wrote...
Isn't the 'losing you was like losing a limb'-line in the Horizon dialog regardless of Shepard's gender?
Yes.
So hearing that line as male Shepard is awkward.
I disagree with that last part, it's very much possible for them to put m/m on equal footing with f/f.
No, because Liara exists. F/F with Liara existed in ME1, ME2, and is therefore an actual trilogy romance.
Nothing they do in ME3 would change the fact that M/M romances did not exist in the first two games.
Perhaps the "lost a limb" could be used as a hint that Kaidan discovered those feelings after mShep's death?
He says the same thing to unromanced female Shepards, which frankly seems to fit more.
Also, I romanced Jack in ME2 the first time around but (of course) not
the second. I told her I was not interested in sex but it still went
towards me romancing her so I told her I was not interested which pissed
her off and I could no longer speak to her, she just screamed
"F*** OFF!) everytime I tried speaking. That seemed a bit stupid to me.
You have to tell her no twice.
I think the VSs were right on Horizon
They are right not to drop their career to help Shepard, but not right to rush to conclusions condemning Shepard as a traitor and betrayer.
Personally, I thought that by the end of ME1 mShep and Kaidan had a
good friendship going on that was only held back by the fact that Kaidan
respects Shepard as a commander.
I might agree if he didn't treat unromanced female Shepard differently from male Shepard. If the only thing holding him back was respect as a commander, then he would have treated him the same as he does unromanced femshep. Unless he doesn't respect female Shepard as a commander, which is unlikely.
Because I always wanted a s/s romance with Kaidan I probably read into their dialogue a lot more than was healthy.
I would have liked Kaidan M/M in ME1, but as it is, it's hard not to see the relationship as just being at-a-distance friendship at best. One of the biggest problems is that lack of content and that the last conversation end abruptly. Every other squad mate essentially has an end conversation where you get a strong impression of respect and friendship.
I believe Kaidan's conversation with male Shepard ends talking about aliens and Kaidan saying that it's as if everyone's gone out of their mind.
I'm not really one for head canon.