@Collider: Then again, I never said homosexual subtext in Kaidan was intended by devs, at least not until ME3, because there was no m/m at all. That said, the percepcion of the level of their relationship is just your point of view, since a lot of people, if not most, may not agree with the Kaidan's "distant friend" thing (leaving sexuality aside).
When I talked about men being different with one another, it was something general, and everyone perceives it, if it wasn't like that, there would have been tons of straight guys whining about the game being gay "'coz bros don't act like that".
But I see your point, and afaik, Kaidan's abrupt lack of content was caused because of the limited resources, and if he kept talking he would have being romancing m!shep, so they didn't let shep talk to him anymore (ala Jack, but not just as bad). While other unromanceable squadmates didn't have this problem.
You seem to be stuck on the "he says this and that to f!shep and not to m!shep" but f!shep doesn't exist because she IS him, I mean f!shep is the posibility of m!shep being born a woman. But in that playthrough he was born a man, I don't see you imagining how people would react to you if you were a woman, since you aren't and will never be. Those universes just don't mix.
About the "he prefers women" thing regarding bioware male LIs, it's always been like this, since they always take notice of straight men and women first. M/M has been a second thought (and not even that in ME series) until ME3 (that changed with Steve).
If you compared Kaidan to Steve, who is s/s only, I would agree he has a social utility. But Vega would also prefer women and would be even louder than Kaidan about that, but then he has muscles so he would be breaking stereotypes?
I don't get it, really. I'd like s/s Vega as much as the next guy, but there's no way on earth you can ship one and not the other, because they BOTH are pimarily straight and they both are manly marines. The only difference I see is that Kaidan has more time to develop some "unexpected" feelings for m!shep, also that Vega's louder about women and his muscles (but I'm not into that), so if I miss something enlighten me. And no, f!shep still doesn't exist so her relationship's not debatable when we speak about m!shep.
Edit:corrected some spelling mistakes.
Modifié par bas_kon, 06 février 2012 - 01:00 .