RinjiRenee wrote...
gaymerboy wrote...
I would love for Kaiden to be an option but I keep thinking this new character James Vega might be the male partner for our Shepherd. Btw when Bioware announced s/s romance for ME3 I did not think I was as happy as I am playing through ME1 and ME2 with a male Shepherd, especially since I have to be single for the first two games, but I am doing it with a smile on my face
I had a lot of fun as a lonely male Shepard. To me, it added some roleplaying opportunity (in my head) when he was having to turn down the couple of crewmates who grew to like him. It also added a major loneliness factor at the end of LotSB, so I can't wait for my Shepard to finally find someone in ME3.
The romances feel rather tacked on to me, rather than being part of the actual story.
My lonely gay male Shepard was also a Colonist/Sole Survivor, so I role-played him as just accepting his lot in life as a solitary man. He chatted up Kaidan, but never seemed to get anything back, Kaidan seemed to be all-business. He innocently tried to talk to Ashley too, and she started flirting heavily with him, and he had to back away slowly. And since he didn't really have a strong relationship with either Ashley or Kaidan, the Virmire decision had more to do with the fact that he and Kaidan were both Sentinels, and Shepard knows how valuable human biotic soldiers are having gone through the exact same training as Kaidan. Liara didn't show up until after Virmire, so he didn't really have time to get to know her. She seemed nice enough, but asari are reeally feminine looking and that wasn't his bag. Aliens in general aren't his thing. He likes men.
In the second game, Kaidan's "losing a limb" line on Horizon made him raise an eyebrow, but like us players he filed it away as a "maybe, maybe not" kind of thing. And it had been two years for Kaidan. For all Shepard knows, Kaidan could be married with a kid by now, Anderson sure didn't say a lot when he asked about Kaidan. In any case, he's not expecting Kaidan to suddenly admit to having feelings for him, he's not expecting any love from anyone. Whatever he does find in ME3, will be a very pleasant surprise for a stoic, but rather sad and lonely man.
Because of his introspective and solitary nature, I've played him as a very neutral character in conversation, but he tends to make Paragon decisions. He just doesn't really relate to people all that well, his experiences on Mindoir and Akuze really damaged him, and he doesn't want to burden people with that so he keeps it to himself. Besides, when you get too close, people tend to die and leave you alone.