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Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan?

Halfway in the game.

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umwhatyousay wrote...

By the way, I'm spoiled, but not so spoiled. Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan? I'd kind of like to have Shepard romance him first, but I'm super impatient so I'll just have Shep get with Steve if it's gonna be awhile. true love waits 4 no one


Right at the beginning of the game?
@Collider, wait what? I thought you could have him in your squad for some time right when you leave Earth?

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Collider wrote...

Only if it's forced intentionally as a rule.


I'm sure it would be forced...how else could they do it (provide non-superficial gender distinctions that don't fall back on common stereotypes)?

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jlb524 wrote...

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My opposition to the gender roles concept specifically deals with the notion that certain behaviors are inherently masculine or feminine, which often leads to the belief that men and women should act according to those stereotypes.
In this particular context, someone said Kaidan was acting feminine in animations and was mentioning bisexuality alongside it.


Extrapolating from there, doesn't the same apply to distinguishing romances based on the genders involved?  I think at it's core, that sort of mechanism has to fall back on gender stereotypes.  The idea being that a man and a woman interact differently than a woman and a woman.


Exactly. They shouldn't be the same in my opinion. Sure some things are the same, or similar, but I don't think you'd interact with a man the same as a woman. Realistically, there would be more different then just calling a character he or she.


I don't think they should be different, as far as video game romances are concerned, considering how little content and interaction these romances carry.  The romances will become bogged down in differentiating genders and most likely will rely on stereotypes of how men act in relationships vs. women.  I'd rather the romances focus on the themes that surround the individual LIs character arc throughout the story.

Superficial differences are obviously needed ('he' vs. 'she', 'beautiful' vs. 'handsome').


Maybe you're right. You might run into a situation where one is better done then the other, because one version was the original intent when written, and the other is just an afterthough that's forced to be same sex, or opposite sex. You know, when a writer is force to turn it into something it wasn't.

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If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?

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SolidBeast wrote...

umwhatyousay wrote...

By the way, I'm spoiled, but not so spoiled. Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan? I'd kind of like to have Shepard romance him first, but I'm super impatient so I'll just have Shep get with Steve if it's gonna be awhile. true love waits 4 no one


Right at the beginning of the game?
@Collider, wait what? I thought you could have him in your squad for some time right when you leave Earth?


He... leaves... right after Mars. 

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Progressive_Stupidity1 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Collider wrote...

If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?


Liara?

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ElitePinecone wrote...

SolidBeast wrote...

umwhatyousay wrote...

By the way, I'm spoiled, but not so spoiled. Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan? I'd kind of like to have Shepard romance him first, but I'm super impatient so I'll just have Shep get with Steve if it's gonna be awhile. true love waits 4 no one


Right at the beginning of the game?
@Collider, wait what? I thought you could have him in your squad for some time right when you leave Earth?


He... leaves... right after Mars. 


Well... crap. I didn't think Mars comes that soon.

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umwhatyousay wrote...

Frozen83 wrote...
Now that you've mentioned it, a half-naked turian dancing for Aria would have been a nice touch Posted Image. M.


**** yes, it would have.

Less than 24 hours if you're in Asia or use a proxy!

By the way, I'm spoiled, but not so spoiled. Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan? I'd kind of like to have Shepard romance him first, but I'm super impatient so I'll just have Shep get with Steve if it's gonna be awhile. true love waits 4 no one


You recruit Kaidan early on (at least to what I have read), but then you get seperated and may not even get reunited, the romance (at least the majority of it) happens after the seperation (at least that is my understanding of it).

Edit: Notice how I tried to avoid spoilers.

Modifié par Daashi, 04 mars 2012 - 04:47 .


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Collider wrote...

Yup. It's still acceptable in video games to make fun of transgenderism.
That's why I'm wary.

Also notice the universal connection transgendered characters in Bioawre games have with prostitution.
As if all there is to being trans is sex.


The entertainment medias' depiction of ANY minority is painful and stupid, especially to those of us who are members of those groups, but it only gets better with PRACTICE. So long as it is a good faith effort on Bioware's part, I would actually be interested in seeing their attempts at making better transexual characters and use feedback to make them better as they go along. This would be similar to the feedback they get from women and the s/s community.

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jlb524 wrote...

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Only if it's forced intentionally as a rule.


I'm sure it would be forced...how else could they do it (provide non-superficial gender distinctions that don't fall back on common stereotypes)?

I believe Thane's Siha nickname would be one. I don't see any real stereotypes involved there.

Kaidan's conversation with male Shepard seems to be absent for female Shepard. There's one from ME3 itself that doesn't have any stereotypes.

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ElitePinecone wrote...

Progressive_Stupidity1 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Collider wrote...

If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?


Liara?


Ah, right. I thought we were talking entirely new characters.

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Progressive_Stupidity1 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Collider wrote...

If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?


Steve. Those are the new ones anyway that I know of.

Male has either Liara or Diana for a straight romance. Or Kaidan or Steve for bi/gay romance.

Female just has Kaidan for a straight romance. Or Sam or Liara for bi/gay romance.

As far as I know, at least.

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Hmm luckily US players probably will pass us info about Kaidan's certainity.

Need to finish last two shep runs before 9th. Actually it was one but decided to make one last run for Miranda romance without dumping Ashley. However if someone confirms Ash is also S/S option I need to make one more playthrough.

Also learned that banging Jack (that renegade one) doesn't break any romance which I found really odd. Seems like ME has very weird sense of commitment. :/

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ElitePinecone wrote...

SolidBeast wrote...

umwhatyousay wrote...

By the way, I'm spoiled, but not so spoiled. Could someone tell me/vaguely hint at how long it takes to recruit Kaidan? I'd kind of like to have Shepard romance him first, but I'm super impatient so I'll just have Shep get with Steve if it's gonna be awhile. true love waits 4 no one


Right at the beginning of the game?
@Collider, wait what? I thought you could have him in your squad for some time right when you leave Earth?


He... leaves... right after Mars. 


...Wha-? Does he leave permanently?? Posted ImagePosted Image

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Samantha Traynor looks like a decent option for my Cerberus-hating Shep... does anyone know if there are more screen shots of her around?

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Thanks, everybody.

SilverMoonDragon wrote...

...Wha-? Does he leave permanently?? Posted ImagePosted Image


Not necessarily. Just for a while.

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umwhatyousay wrote...

Thanks, everybody.

SilverMoonDragon wrote...

...Wha-? Does he leave permanently?? Posted ImagePosted Image


Not necessarily. Just for a while.



Oh, ok! Posted Image That's a relief! Posted Image

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TMA LIVE wrote...

Progressive_Stupidity1 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Collider wrote...

If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?


Steve. Those are the new ones anyway that I know of.

Male has either Liara or Diana for a straight romance. Or Kaidan or Steve for bi/gay romance.

Female just has Kaidan for a straight romance. Or Sam or Liara for bi/gay romance.

As far as I know, at least.


female got also thane and garrus I think as straight romance

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Samantha Traynor looks like a decent option for my Cerberus-hating Shep... does anyone know if there are more screen shots of her around?


Part of me is FLOORED that there isn't more out there on Sam, especially after the leak about a shower scene. Or maybe one of her playing chess.

I DO find it interesting that STEVE is the one who has been spoiled thoroughly and had tons of images and video leaks, and received so much rage. I mean, I thought a gay male LI wasn't going to be a problem for critics if he wasn't a *OMG* "retcon."

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NovinhaShepard wrote...

Samantha Traynor looks like a decent option for my Cerberus-hating Shep... does anyone know if there are more screen shots of her around?


I've only seen the one, so far. That screenie from the normandy tour vid, I think it was.

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SilverMoonDragon wrote...

umwhatyousay wrote...

Thanks, everybody.

SilverMoonDragon wrote...

...Wha-? Does he leave permanently?? Posted ImagePosted Image


Not necessarily. Just for a while.



Oh...ok! Posted Image, that's a relief! Posted Image


And when he leaves there is a possibilty of it being permanent, we mean "PERMANENT", so be careful when playing.

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wisperhill wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Progressive_Stupidity1 wrote...

TMA LIVE wrote...

Collider wrote...

If you're killing off so many M/F characters and importing that save, you're seriously asking for no options.


Sure, but there still should be a new one, if Male Shep gets 2 new ones.

But Femshep seems to only get one new one, and it's Sam. Not a boy option.


Wait, who are the two new maleshep options? Diana and...?


Steve. Those are the new ones anyway that I know of.

Male has either Liara or Diana for a straight romance. Or Kaidan or Steve for bi/gay romance.

Female just has Kaidan for a straight romance. Or Sam or Liara for bi/gay romance.

As far as I know, at least.


female got also thane and garrus I think as straight romance


If you played ME2. Again, Femshep doesn't have another straight option if your playing ME3 Female Default, besides Kaidan.

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He... leaves... right after Mars. 


*Sniffle.* And... he... never calls...

:crying:

I thought we... had something...

:(

Modifié par Abispa, 04 mars 2012 - 05:06 .


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Daashi wrote...

SilverMoonDragon wrote...

umwhatyousay wrote...

Thanks, everybody.

SilverMoonDragon wrote...

...Wha-? Does he leave permanently?? Posted ImagePosted Image


Not necessarily. Just for a while.



Oh...ok! Posted Image, that's a relief! Posted Image


And when he leaves there is a possibilty of it being permanent, we mean "PERMANENT", so be careful when playing.


I honestly don't think it's easy to make a mistake in that scene.