Asperius wrote...
Not sexual virgin but gay relationship virgin straight guys who later admit they are bi/gay or deny everything and go on braging about how straight they are. However if my shepard ain't romanced so far and resist the charm of ladies throwing themselves at him, he shouldn't be act like that. Putting a simple "no romance" flag to that conversation and adding something more mature than bashfull gay virgin Shepard talk shouldn't be a problem... if you can think like that.
Didn't he look directly when questioning Kaidan?
Afterward, I don't recall that he was actively avoiding eye contact with Kaidan (and aren't they looking straight at each other when talking about "benefits"?). Cinematically, I think they were trying to convey "deep thoughts" by giving him the faroff look out over the Presidium. I agree they probably should have just gone more personal and had them leaning over the table toward each other, but their approach isn't totally invalid, is it?
I always take staging second to story. The writer wrote what they intended, and the cinematic designer interpreted that as they felt best and within whatever limitations they have.
Asperius wrote...
They have some lines. The Cerberus Scientist after dialogue starts something like that. Kaidan tries to flirt with Shep and he admits he needs to practice more. It was so sweet. This is why I simply fixed on date scene. Too out of context with later phases of romance. Or earlier if you please, my Shep asked Thane to watch over Kaidan with very very concerned tone. Also Kaidan says "He is happy to back on Normandy... very happy".
I've been running around too quickly to really pay attention to the small bits, but I never saw much interaction that was romance-specific. The ridiculous sexual tension is there in the beginning, but I'm not sure I saw anything post-date that was more than that.
Toward the end, my fortitude was rapidly expiring, so I had to just plow through priority missions (I'm not sure how much I skipped that wasn't simply probing for space junk), and I also played for real up until Palaven (where I first decided to just rush ahead). Since I didn't know when Kaidan rejoined, I ended up doing a bunch of crap before Tuchanka, so I don't know what interaction I may have missed prior (and by the time he did come back, I just wanted it to be over as quickly as possible).