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Game_Fan_85

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Daashi wrote...

Well we did have our first homosexual character on television in 72, and the first on-screen homosexual kiss was back in 89. I think our problem was that we were very European (in an awkard Brittish fashion) mentally to sex but then we got a very Americanised somewhere along the line.


Absolutely, shows like "Number 96" are a perfect example of how English out television was back then.  It's a shame we aren't still influenced by English stuff.

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devSin wrote...
I know when somebody was talking earlier about a lesbian couple on the Citadel, I was like, really? But then I went there and saw that it was just an asari.

I mean, it counts, but does it really? I don't know. When I see any species and an asari, I don't think gay (or even straight). I think asari and mate.


If a human female is involved with an Asari, that human female is at least bisexual, even if she's not completely lesbian. Does anyone honestly see purely heterosexual female humans getting romantically involved with Asari?

Following along with that line of thought, if the human female is not heterosexual, then the relationship counts as same sex - because the only race that it counts for, the only race that actually has more than one biological sex, the human, thinks it is.

The way you're thinking of it devSin, is you're completely invalidating the non-Asari's sexuality. It's a bit like saying to a bisexual woman involved with a man that she's straight because she's involved with a man.

The Asari probably have very complex sexuality as well, given the problems that Asari/Asari couples have, but that's another story for another time (and is another thing I don't think the developers/world builders really put too much thought into - I mean, what did the Asari do before they met other species? Were there less Ardat Yakshi offspring (I know I didn't spell that right... But I'm in too much of a hurry to go look it up right now) in the past?)

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That's not it at all. The human soldier is lesbian, bisexual, or some other classification that we cannot know because we do not live in a world where there are aliens.

What I was saying is that when I see the human female and asari couple, I don't think "there's a nice lesbian couple". I think there's a human and asari couple.

If I saw two males or females of any other species as a couple, I'd identify that as a gay or lesbian couple. But the asari throw off my sexuality indicators. I don't think that it's impossible a human female who was in a relationship with an asari could never be in a relationship with a female of any other species.

I know it isn't fair to the asari or to those two couples on the Citadel, but I would have much rather seen same-sex pairings of any other species, instead of just the asari (for the umpteenth time).

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Chaotic Loon wrote...

Sigh...reading the Mass effect final hours thread kills any desire to finish my replay...sorry Steve, mabye I'll replay and romance you if I ever get a men in black memory wipe

Multiplayer is very addictive, chaotic and fun though...does ease the pain..


MP is starting to ruin the main game for me.  As much as I want to continue the Cortez playthrough, I keep thinking of all the pain I have to go through again.  For instance, I am almost at the end of the Krogan/Salarian/Turian story which means..... Mordin's singing death again :crying:  On the otherhand if I play multi-player, I know I only have to look forward to lots and lots of fun :wizard:

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I want to romance Cortez, but because I couldn't romance any guys until ME3, instead of waiting I just used femSheps. Life sucks!

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PresidentCowboy wrote...

I want to romance Cortez, but because I couldn't romance any guys until ME3, instead of waiting I just used femSheps. Life sucks!


Lol, that does suck indeed.  Can you edit the save file to change to a male and erase the romances?

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Game_Fan_85 wrote...

PresidentCowboy wrote...

I want to romance Cortez, but because I couldn't romance any guys until ME3, instead of waiting I just used femSheps. Life sucks!


Lol, that does suck indeed.  Can you edit the save file to change to a male and erase the romances?



Hmm. Couldn't hurt to try!

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PresidentCowboy wrote...

Game_Fan_85 wrote...

PresidentCowboy wrote...

I want to romance Cortez, but because I couldn't romance any guys until ME3, instead of waiting I just used femSheps. Life sucks!


Lol, that does suck indeed.  Can you edit the save file to change to a male and erase the romances?



Hmm. Couldn't hurt to try!


If you go back about 10 pages or so, you should see a post that leads to a guide to editing ME2 saves if you need help.

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 I lurk this thread quite a lot, and I decided to shamelessly self promote a fan video I made for MShep/Kaidan
http://www.youtube.com/watch

Now this is why I hate posting, I feel weird. 
/scampers off. 

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Abispa wrote...

I SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT COMING, but I'm an idiot and I let Liara mind-rape my Ashley-obsessed Shepard. If the ending weren't such a convoluted mess, I'd assume Bioware planned for Liara to carry Shepard's baby even if she wasn't the LI.


WAIT WAIT WAIT! I haven't finished yet but My male shep romanced Kaidan... I was nice and had a "friend moment" with liara though... Does that mean I'm going to see her image in the flashback?? God I hope I was not yet again ninjamanced!:unsure: 

My shep had a really great moment with kaidan at the end and to have it thrown anyway on that asari.... I like her character a lot... I just don't want her like that!

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BLAHBLUE2001 wrote...

Abispa wrote...

I SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT COMING, but I'm an idiot and I let Liara mind-rape my Ashley-obsessed Shepard. If the ending weren't such a convoluted mess, I'd assume Bioware planned for Liara to carry Shepard's baby even if she wasn't the LI.


WAIT WAIT WAIT! I haven't finished yet but My male shep romanced Kaidan... I was nice and had a "friend moment" with liara though... Does that mean I'm going to see her image in the flashback?? God I hope I was not yet again ninjamanced!:unsure: 

My shep had a really great moment with kaidan at the end and to have it thrown anyway on that asari.... I like her character a lot... I just don't want her like that!


I think there's some confusion here, wasn't the poster above talking about Liara appearing for a "romance" scene before the Cerberus base?

Not the flashback in the final 'decision'.

That should still be Kaidan, as far as I know. 

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ElitePinecone wrote...

I think there's some confusion here, wasn't the poster above talking about Liara appearing for a "romance" scene before the Cerberus base?

Not the flashback in the final 'decision'.

That should still be Kaidan, as far as I know. 


I'd say it refers to the "let me give you a present" part.

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[/quote]

I think there's some confusion here, wasn't the poster above talking about Liara appearing for a "romance" scene before the Cerberus base?

Not the flashback in the final 'decision'.

That should still be Kaidan, as far as I know. 

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Ok thanks! Got scared again that she got me.

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Once you get a romance, you're locked into it. If you hooked up with Kaidan during the date, you get Kaidan, no matter what anybody else says during the game (although, if anybody is going to violate that rule, it'd be Liara).

Liara still likes you and cares about, and she'll continue to talk to you at points during the game, but Kaidan is your boyfriend all the way to the end.

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Going through my second play through and I just can't bring myself to romancing Cortez. He seems like a cool guy and all but... he's just not attractive. (Perhaps mods can take care of this later.) It's gonna have to be Kaidan again. <3

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Arik7 wrote...

It's gonna have to be Kaidan again. <3

Oh, poor you. ;-)

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Arik7 wrote...

Going through my second play through and I just can't bring myself to romancing Cortez. He seems like a cool guy and all but... he's just not attractive. (Perhaps mods can take care of this later.) It's gonna have to be Kaidan again. <3


Cortez isn't attractive?:blink:

Are we playing the same game? :huh:

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Siansonea II wrote...

Cortez isn't attractive?:blink:

Are we playing the same game? :huh:


It's the crying the first time you talk to him.

I'm sure there are some that would see a crying man and go for it... but  I didn't have another convo after that.

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I hate Cortez really. He is stereotipical weak and whine gay.

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Guys crying isn't okay?

Cortez is weak?

I AM playing a different game. I don't think Cortez is stereotypical. He's just a nice guy. Straight guys cry and grieve too, I don't think every gay character in a movie or show has to be some kind of stoic stone cold counterstereotype in order to avoid stereotyping. Cortez is a good guy, even James says so.

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ladyofpayne wrote...

I hate Cortez really. He is stereotipical weak and whine gay.

I'm sorry you feel that way.

I thought he came across quite well. He makes a solid friend, and a good man, from what I could tell.

Modifié par devSin, 16 mars 2012 - 07:44 .


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ladyofpayne wrote...

I hate Cortez really. He is stereotipical weak and whine gay.


He lost his husband?

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Guy or girl, someone crying is going to have a big empty circle around his or herself unless they already know him.

They person that approaches him and wants to start digging into his personal life seems like more like a predator than a romantic interest.

Unfortunately, 1 game just wasn't enough to develop a relationship before the emotional crisis then into the romance.

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TygerHeart wrote...

Guy or girl, someone crying is going to have a big empty circle around his or herself unless they already know him.

They person that approaches him and wants to start digging into his personal life seems like more like a predator than a romantic interest.

Unfortunately, 1 game just wasn't enough to develop a relationship before the emotional crisis then into the romance.


I don't know about you, but if I see someone crying, my first instinct isn't to walk away, it's to see if I can help. You never know if something you could say in those moments could really help them. I can't imagine just walking away from someone who is clearly hurting.