pizu wrote...
As much as I like Joker, I don't really feel like he would be a suitable character for a romance. He could be a really good buddy, a good friend and the best pilot in the galaxy, but I don't think his personality would be fitting for a romance... But what do I understand, right? Let the ladies have what they want. Just don't make him another bisexual / homosexual character. Please.
That's the thing, though--even people like Joker fall in love. It's just a bit different for them than for most. They do it awkwardly, subtly, sending mixed signals... until finally they maybe just can't keep it in anymore, or don't want to. Generally, only extreme duress will bring out their feelings--see the bad ending of Mass Effect 2 if you want an example. Joker's "You are not doing this to me again!" is a pretty damned passionate line.
If you feel that Joker is your good buddy, your good friend... then you can still have that, because your Shepard looks different and has a different personality than mine. Tali, Miranda, Jack, Liara, and Ashley are not all canonically in love with ManShep, and neither are Kaidan, Garrus, Liara, Jacob, and Thane all canonically in love with FemShep. Different Shepards attract different types and are attracted to different types. Nothing wrong with that, right? Part of roleplaying--the player gets to choose certain things, the developers others. I don't feel that because one of my Shepards romanced a character, they can't be my other Sheps' friend anymore. My Shepards are just different people. They don't share the same appearances or the same minds or the same sexual preferences, just the job and the heroism.
I mostly play my own gender, but I wouldn't mind if Joker could be romanced by males. In the ME series, there hasn't been a gay male relationship at all yet. That may well be Vega--it's what I'd expect--but if not, there's plenty of justification to make Joker bi, and still give us an LI that didn't actually bloom into that category until he finally loosened up enough to let somebody in. To believe himself worthy of being loved by someone he couldn't live without. To trust that he wouldn't be shut down flat with, "I don't go for your type," "I'm already in love with somebody else," "fraternization is against REGS, SOLDIER," or worst of all, "get away from me, cripple." To believe that he could have more than friendship, the friendship which for other Shepards would be all that was there on either side--but if you're attracted to someone, friendship can sometimes go further, if it runs deep enough.
With the fear of rejection that Joker has going on deep down... he's definitely a strong candidate for sleeper romance. For either gender. But the fact that in can happen in some cases doesn't mean that he's not a legitimate friend to other Shepards. For me, at least, I don't think I'd be with the person I am with if he had been born a girl or if he looked like a big tanned football player. Sucks to be limited that way, but I am a heterosexual female who digs the scrawny, pasty geek type and glasses.
In short, it's perfectly plausible that some Shepards would attract Joker and others he would just love as a friend and brother/sister type. The fact that the former exists does not have to cheapen the latter at all.