Ieldra2 wrote...
I do not think appeasement earns you respect. If you don't take a stand with people like Jack, it just encourages them to continue to behave in the same way,
I was just thinking this yesterday when I finally saved the workers on Zaeed's LM. I had initially gone into it with the intention of saving them but 1) I, the player really wanted to kill Vido and

as Zaeed was talking about surviving a headshot I began thinking my ruthless Shepard would appreciate such a resiliant fighter being loyal, mad dog though he may be. This would be better justification then what I had initially presented so I was going to scrifice them again. I expect a similar justification could be made for siding with Jack. You know Miranda's professional enough to follow your orders even if she has beef with you but you want Jack personally loyal so you can harness all that destructive power for yourself.
But the more I went into Zaeed's mission (reloading after a couple of key dialogs) the more it occurred to me that like Ieldra said, you need to take a stand and do so early. You don't loose the leash of the mad dog in hopes that he'll recognize that you let him and be grateful, you break him to your will. Luckily the game allowed me to do so in a most satisfying manner.
As for Miranda/Jack, Jack is
actually right (to an extent). She's wrong to blame Miranda since Miranda had nothing to do with Teltin. But even that can be explained as Miranda is just an outlet, the face of Cerberus (or the only one available) to Jack. Even so, the way she goes about it is completely unacceptable and given how unstable she really is, like with Zaeed you cannot yield. Come to think of it I'm liking the paragon/renegade fixes (particularly renegade) more and more. I think siding with Miranda has its own problems because Jack will not interpret this the "normal" way, as solidarity within the chain of command. Rather she'll see it as ganging up on her. But "only my opinion matters" dickish though it may seem sends a clearer message: you can't resolve this on your own, I'm in charge and I say STFU.
I have other beef with the Miranda/Jack argument mostly Miranda's reaction after if you don't side with her or charm/persuade. But we've gone over that to death. Consider it something I don't like about Miranda (that was the question that started this I think).