Sifr1449 wrote...
Cerberus definitely wasn't helping Miranda deal with her issues, she simply traded one overbearing and demanding father-figure for another.
Shepard was the first person in her life who had direct authority over her, but didn't ask for anything in return except her friendship.
In many ways, Miranda is very similar to Jack. You can see through the second game both are asking themselves what this guy's deal is and what does he want from them, waiting for the moment where he'll eventually decide to use them for his own advantage and betray them... which Shepard never does.
That moment of realisation for Miranda that she's actually looking at someone who truly cares about her, is something I doubt she's ever experienced before. More than likely, every overture of friendship with her has likely always had some caveat or price she's eventually had to pay for trusting someone, like with Niket.
I believe the popular Internet forum response here is: This.
That is my favorite thing about both Miranda and Jack - accepting them for who they are, but at the same time demanding from them, in a supportive fashion, more than they've ever been willing to admit they were capable of before. Both have traumatic pasts that weigh them down, and it's thrilling to watch them blossom into more complete human beings with just a little bit of encouragement. What it really boils down to for both, I think, is stability. No matter the situation, Shepard is always there to help them find their center again.
It was actually an >>agonizing<< decision to choose a romance in ME2 for the first time, because each character has so much that is worth loving, and that doesn't even take into account wanting to stay true to the ME1 romance (Ashley), despite the events on Horizon. Ultimately, my first Shepard chose Miranda because she was the only one who could give him everything he wanted.