He was rather pretentious yes, but he really was a pretty smart guy. I don't know, I really liked him and actually do miss him.
I got on Skype with him as well several times and he really helped me a lot on matters. But yes, the fact that he didn't let things go could be easily irritating sometimes.
I won't lie, we tended to get into dick dragging contests, Taboo and I. We had some fundamental disagreements that (not to shift any blame from myself) he would not let go and brought up constantly. I also blame him for causing several people to... drop me as a friend. I haven't seen or heard anything about him for over two years. All I know is that he had a breakdown of some kind.
Apparently, he also BS'd a lot of what he said he actually did. I'm saying this after not having talked or thought about it for 2 years, and having heard it third hand from some former posters.
However I don't think our little fall out was the reason the forums were closed, at least not completely. Although it might have been the last drop, Mr. Priestly often stated how much he disliked the romance forums and noted their "toxicity" several times. I think he was thinking of closing them for some time and saw our "crisis" as the last straw.
Well, Priestly isn't doing much these days anymore anyway. We have the forums again, and as far as I know, they aren't going anywhere (these ones are more or less not patrolled anymore anyways.) Plus, the character forums where hardly the most toxic. Overzealous perhaps, but not toxic. I still maintain his closing of the entire forum was a gross overreaction. But as you say, for a variety of reasons, he didn't like the character and romance boards.
On one hand though, and as an aside, I do agree with him somewhat: BW is making the games more romance specific, and, knowledge of BW's LGBTQ following aside (they're probably the single biggest '******-hag's, and I mean no disrespect with the term, in the video game industry), I think they're starting to focus too much on getting the SJW cred. David Gaider sounded a lot like your average tumblr SJW in many of his quotes. It's clear that BW definitely feels that some groups are more equal than others.
I think this debate brings a very interesting question on writing a character. One might see Miranda's statement as character progression, others might say it's character inconsistency. It's a very blurry line. I guess the best way to remain in the progression category, a writer should lay the ground works. Then again, can you do character progression by surprising the audience?
It can be both. I can see where it was character progression, but I can also see where it was a ****** poor attempt at it. They didn't do very well to display it or show it.