Hello all ...
I am not reading all the thread for fear of spoilers ... but I do have a question I hope someone can help me with ...
(Possible spoilers ahead, FYI.)
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Ok, here's my problem:
I am playing male Shepard, imported from ME1 and ME2 (no romantic attachments in either) and I think I might have missed something.
I visited Kaidan three times in the hospital (once after his first email, and once when I gave him the whiskey, and once when he was on his feet clothed and asked about being a Spectre.) I chose the paragon options and the paragon pop-up. All seemed well.
Then, I did not receive any emails, see him, or other interaction messages until I ran into him again during the Udina confrontation.
I chose to shoot Udina; when Kaidan asked me about it in the Normandy, I invited him back on board, I told him that I wouldn't have actually shot him (Kaidan) if it came down to it. When I met Garrus down below, I wasn't paying attention and I said that I would have pulled the trigger [on a team mate.] When I spoke to Kaidan after that in the observation deck, when he's leaned up on the glass, there was no seemingly intimate dialogue.
So ... did I miss some crucial moment, or mess something up, or is there more to play out? I want my Kaidan!
PS -- meanwhile, without giving any indication to any of them, I had to fight off ALL 3 female LI's in my cabin ... in a row. And then James (even though he didn't want know how hard my bed was, lol.)
Thanks!