IsaacShep wrote...
BTW, made some statistics, number of pages devoted to official character threads in ME2 forums:
Tali - 11751
Kaidan - 3041
Miranda - 2674
Garrus - 2542
Kaidan - 3041
What you did there, we see it!

He's so darn smexy you have to do a double-take.
IsaacShep wrote...
Kaidan's #2. Here in ME3 he's #3. Can someone explain to me where did that untrue opinion that he's not much loved came from? Like seriously 
Well, either their metrics are skewed, or the squeaky wheel wants to get greased. Not that we would ever suggest Kaidan getting greased. No, not at all, not us.

Seriously though, there are some people that prefer to use another character as the pedestal upon which to place their favorite. They can't or won't understand that you don't need to crush another's preference to boost your own. Instead of being nuanced or making a case and supporting with evidence, they can go on the attack - this unbalances the opposition, since they're now on the defensive, and can be called out for being defensive. It's a tactic well-played in the US political climate by the less-than-smart-yet-quite-savvy.
Part of it may also be because Kaidan is depicted as a normal, balanced human male. Being understated and subtle can be lost in a cacophony of big personalities; it will certainly be misinterpreted.