legbamel wrote...
LadyofRivendell wrote...
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For me ME works on that time span because you ARE shown doing things all of the time. It's just that pesky things like eating and sleeping and waiting while supplies and fuel are replenished aren't shown. But if you're visiting every planet in an entire cluster and then driving around one or two per system for several hours each that takes a lot of time. Zipping across the galaxy every few missions to visit the Citadel takes a lot of time.
It's like DA:O--the distances and the method of travel requires far more time than you're shown. They don't have the resources to show you making dinner and Alistair and Zevran arguing over who has to do the dishes (fun though that would be) and really the downtime would be boring. But they try to show relationship and character development. The only way to do that is to build in a little down time and let you extrapolate the rest.
Personally, deep love interests that explode after a few weeks strike me as false. I like the idea that it takes months to really draw Kaidan out of his shell, to get to a point where he can no longer resist (and then there's Joker, interrupting). Lust at first sight is all well and good but love...ah, that takes a lot longer to build.
[firmly puts soap box in fireplace and strikes a match] 
I think it works great for DA:O, because you build relationships at your own speed, but for things like ME and DA2 where interactions happen only after specific spots... I dunno. I'm not saying it happens within a matter of weeks, I think I commented my headcanon was around 4 months or something (clearly not a strong headcanon, since I can't even remember it

) Or maybe I'm just really impatient

To me, it just doesn't feel as if the characters have known each other for longer than 6 months, but that's just me.
I still think it takes a few months, and I love that, too! Don't think I'm saying they jump each other after two weeks

I'm one of those hopeless romantics who loves a slow but steady buildup, which is why the 4-6 month timeline seemed to fit in my head. I was just saying that something like DA2's relationships have really skewed development paths, IMO, due to the 10 year game stretch. I've only ever romanced Anders, but only flirting for four years seems really odd to me.
(Then again, I've never been in a relationship really so I can't say if this is just my own skewed thinking) The arc there seems like something that would've fit better over a 6-8ish month buildup, then a year's gap by the time Act 3 hits. It just didn't strike me as a relationship that had spanned over ten years, you'd think that if they were still solidly together that they'd have a much deeper connection.
I'm all for moving slow, but I'm not dial-up slow.
Not that I'm saying "You're wrong, I'm right". Just adding to the thoughts

And I didn't know soap was flammable...?